Dave Asprey is controversial figure who says semen retention helped him make hundreds of millions of dollars... and I'm inclined to believe him. It's not a black and white situation though, and I'd like to explore that with you today...

🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

In this unique episode, WE are going to listen to an interview between Dave & Caitlin V - together for the first time (about semen retention, sexual energy and money) and I'm going to react to their interview and share my thoughts with you in real time.

TIMES & TOPICS:
0:00 Intro
3:30 The Power of Sex & Sexual Energy Transmutation
9:55 Ejaculation Frequency (How Often Men Should Ejaculate)
11:30 Ejaculation Hangover
14:36 Semen Retention Lifestyle
18:40 Technique to Stop Premature Ejaculation
26:20 Semen Retention & Money
32:20 Your Feedback? (Should I do more videos like these?)

QUESTION FOR YOU:
Do you like this kind of episode? It's a first for me (doing a reaction video), and I enjoyed it a lot - but I wonder - was it useful for you? I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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WORK WITH ME:
🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025)
🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025):
🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge

CONNECT WITH CAITLIN :
🔸 Caitlin's Youtube Channel
🔸 Caitlin's New Music-Responsive Sex Toy
🔸 Caitlin's Website

CONNECT WITH DAVE:
🔸 Dave's Website
🔸 Dave's Instagram
🔸 Dave's New Book: Heavily Meditated

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Why are so many men feeling lost when it comes to sex & dating? From porn, performance pressure, social isolation, fear of rejection, lack of good role models, a hyper-sexualized society and the lingering impacts of MeToo - modern men are facing a perfect storm of challenges that are very difficult to navigate - and are rarely talked about...

🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

Today I'm joined by Caitlin V (a renowned sexologist and men’s coach) for a deeper look at what’s actually going on beneath the surface.

IN THIS EPISODE:

0:00 Welcome & Intro
6:26 The State of Modern Men (in Sex & Dating)
8:33 Impact of MeToo and Porn on Men’s Intimacy
11:35 Pornhub Searches Reveal a Deeper Longing for Connection
15:19 The Hard Truth About Dating
18:03 What Happens When Women Start Initiating?
20:30 The Fantasy of Dominance: Why Simple Gender Roles Seduce Us
22:54 The Male Confidence Crisis
24:27 Dating as a Life-Transforming Journey
28:13 Better Sex Is a Skill: (Why You SHOULD Practice)
29:04 Where Most Men Get Stuck
32:03 The Truth About Erections & Emotions
34:01 The Antidote to Anxiety in Bed
39:16 Semen Retention & Sexual Discipline
42:03 Can Semen Retention Hurt You? (Research Discussion)
47:04 The Power & Importance of Ejaculation
55:02 Squirting: What's the Deal With This?
01:01:11 Squirting, Shame, and the Trap of Goal-Oriented Sex
01:07:15 Caitlin’s New Music-Responsive Sex Toy: Pleasure Beyond Vibration

CONNECT WITH CAITLIN :
🔸 Caitlin's Youtube Channel
🔸 Caitlin's New Music-Responsive Sex Toy
🔸 Caitlin's Website

WORK WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025)
🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025):
🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge

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What if the sexual polarity practices meant to ignite your sex life are actually killing your connection? In today's episode we explore the shadow side of polarity work - and how you can move beyond it to build incredible charge in your relationship.

🔴 - You can also watch this episode in Youtube.

You'll hear about how Londin and her partner almost ruined their relationship by practicing masculine/feminine polarity... and you'll hear how they bring polarity in now - in new and healthy ways that help their relationship and sex lives truly thrive.

Also - if you're a man who likes women - we dive into what you can realistically expect from a women in conscious relationship, and why sacred sex starts with structure. It's a great episode, and I hope you thoroughly enjoy it. If you do, please share it with a friend. Let's spread the good word of relational intentionality! :)

-Taylor

WORK WITH LONDIN :
🔸 Londin's Website
🔸 Londin's Next In-Person Couples Workshop
🔸 Londin's Instagram

WORK WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)
🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025):
🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge

EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Welcome to the Sex Upgraded Podcast!
01:40 Londin Winters' Background
06:37 The Dangers of Polarity Work
14:32 Alpha/Omega VS Masculine/Feminine Polaritry
16:36 The Woman’s Role: Leading With Love & Color
25:49 How to Become a Woman Worthy of Sexual Worship
31:24 Sex as a Living Prayer
36:15 Energetic Agility for Women
39:38 Why Scheduled Intimacy Unlocks Deeper Trust
51:55 EXERCISE: The Seer and Feeler Dynamic That Melts Walls
56:50 Why Men Shut Down Emotionally—and What Helps
1:02:19 Why Women Don’t Trust "Providing Alone"
1:06:22 EXERCISE: The "I Want" Practice That Revives Erotic Fire
1:10:04 Reclaiming Desire & Consent After #MeToo
1:14:12 Embodied Transmission VS Online Learning

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