You’ve said your piece—but have you said it to the right person?

This Libra New Moon, we’re bringing relationships back into balance with honest conversations, clearer boundaries, and a little less emotional outsourcing. Ashley unpacks triangulation: what happens when a conflict between two people becomes somebody else’s problem—and how to step out of the middle without abandoning the people you love.

We get into:

• Why avoiding the conversation keeps resentment alive

• Boundaries for the messenger, mediator, and unwilling middleman

• Tolerating someone’s disappointment without dropping your boundary

• Reciprocity, generosity, and what your anger might be asking for

• A collective tarot reading on softening your delivery without swallowing your needs

Want guidance on your own next step? Book a one-on-one tarot reading with Ashley. 💚

The world taught you to hustle. Saturn teaches you to build.

A little lunar correction: I briefly fumble the astronomy. A new moon happens when the Moon is between Earth and the Sun, with its illuminated side facing away from us.

What if not knowing what comes next is actually the clearest answer you have?

The Aries Full Moon arrives September 26 with Neptune retrograde sitting right beside it, bringing questions around identity, desire, relationships, illusion, and what you actually want underneath all the noise.

In this episode of Saturn Said So, Ashley brings the Aries–Libra relationship axis down to earth with grounded astrology, real-life examples, and a collective tarot reading for navigating this astrological timing. She also explores why Neptune can make certainty feel impossible, and Saturn’s invitation to stop forcing momentum and start rebuilding around what’s actually true.

We get into:

• Why uncertainty itself can be truthful

• The difference between genuine desire and inherited expectations

• What Neptune retrograde can reveal beneath the fantasy

• Saturn retrograde and recommitting to what’s actually yours to build

• How outdated beliefs can quietly sabotage your time, energy, and expectations

• A collective tarot reading for releasing old patterns and creating a more supportive structure

If the old answer isn’t true anymore but the new one hasn’t fully revealed itself, you don’t have to fake certainty. Sometimes clarity is simply knowing what isn’t next.

Ready for some clarity? Book a one-on-one tarot reading with Ashley to map out the energy you’re working with—and what comes next.

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Questions? Email Ashley: saturn@lightrootstudio.com

The Virgo New Moon Solar Eclipse is here to close out a chapter—and Virgo has notes.

This eclipse isn't asking you to perfect your life overnight. It's asking you to bring what you've learned down to earth: choose the next doable step, celebrate the shit you've already accomplished, and stop treating slow progress like failure.

In this episode of Saturn Said So—a podcast for grief, growth, and the sacred weirdness of becoming—Ashley explores Virgo's complicated relationship with perfectionism, control, trust, pleasure, and getting shit done. We're talking Saturn retrograde reality checks, SMART goals that don't make you miserable, why your tiny wins deserve to count, and what an 18-month eclipse chapter can teach us about becoming.

Plus: one deeply unfortunate skincare experiment and a collective tarot reading for what we're carrying into the next chapter.

In this episode:

• 🌑 The Virgo New Moon Solar Eclipse and the closing of an 18-month cycle

• 🌿 Virgo beyond perfectionism: embodiment, trust, control, and pleasure

• ✅ Why celebrating small accomplishments changes how you approach growth

• 🎯 SMART goals as self-compassion—not another stick to beat yourself with

• 🪐 Saturn retrograde and the lessons hiding inside life's annoying little detours

• 🔮 Tarot for beginning again: Page of Wands, Six of Cups, the Well reversed, Magician reversed + Wheel of Fortune

• 🦋 Why slow progress, pauses, and unfinished projects are still part of becoming

Your reminder for this eclipse: You don't have to have your shit together perfectly. Make it meaningful. Make it doable. Let it feel good enough to keep going.

Timestamps:

0:07 - Intro and Saturn Retrograde
4:28 - Virgo Qualities, the Earth Goddess, and the Control–Trust Dynamic
7:50 - Perfectionism, Rumination, the Virgo New Moon, and Celebrating Small Accomplishments
15:13 - Skincare Mishap as a Saturn Retrograde Lesson
19:28 - Virgo, SMART Goals, and Compassionate Goal-Setting
5:29 - Tarot: Beginning a New 18 Month Chapter
31:22 - The Podcast’s Journey and the Cycles of Transformation

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Tags: Virgo New Moon, Virgo Solar Eclipse, Solar Eclipse Astrology, Virgo Season, New Moon Ritual, Moon Cycles, Grounded Astrology, Astrological Timing, Saturn Retrograde, Tarot Reading, Cyclical Healing, Spiritual Growth, Perfectionism, SMART Goals, Lunar Living