When you start managing him, fixing him, teaching him, guiding him, mothering him - you kill the passionate chemistry + magnetic polarity that keeps attraction strong + desire hot in a partnership.

This episode dives into the difference between loving a man + raising a man[child].

Most women slip into caretaker mode without realizing it's actually rooted in fear, control, lack of trust or a craving for safety - not love.

If you're tired of doing everything, carrying the emotional labor + wanting him to step up (without complaining or nagging) - this one's for you.

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There’s a massive difference between being wanted + being actively + fully CHOSEN.

This episode breaks down why validation isn’t the same as commitment, why attraction alone isn't enough + how to stop settling for breadcrumbs when what you desire is full devotion, presence + conscious partnership rooted in genuine commitment.

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Sometimes the thing you’re *naturally best at* is the thing you’ve spent years avoiding. 👀

Why?

Because ease feels suspicious.

Because joy feels “unserious" or "unprofessional".

Because we’ve been conditioned to believe work (like using our gifts) has to feel like pain + struggle in order to be meaningful or worth something.

In today’s episode, I’m talking about the gift that keeps circling back, no matter how many times you try to outgrow it, ignore it, rebrand it or bury it - and why *trusting what feels fun + easy* is often the TRUEST doorway to genuine abundance, alignment + your highest destiny unfolding.

If you’ve been resisting THE THING(s) that comes naturally to you + choosing to stay on the struggle bus instead…you definitely need to tune into this one! 😜

🔮 P.S. If you want to snag one of the 5 spots for the special $99 USD 40-minute Intuitive Readings for the Three Jewels end of year fundraiser that I mentioned in this episode, see instructions below.

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Robyn dropped a new song (after a 7 year break) called "Dopamine" + it sent me into a very real reflection on how much of my life used to run on the chase - the high, the hit, the fantasy of “maybe this is it" (*the thing* that'll SAVE me from my pain/struggle/suffering...lol!).

Ironically, the song dropped THE SAME DAY I was on my way to a ceremony in NYC to take deeper Buddhist commitments (no accidents). And my ceremony fell almost to the day of my 20 year anniversary of moving to NYC in my early 20s. Talk about full-circle moments.

And it's very clear to me now: the contrast is impossible to ignore.

I'm currently in a chapter of devotion - keeping vows, daily practice, repetition, deepening - not novelty-hopping anymore in ANY area of my life.

This episode explores the shift from craving to commitment - and why depth hits differently.

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This one’s for the creative women (or men) who refuses to shrink - who’s opinionated, loud, erotic, emotional, spiritual...and done apologizing for it.

We’ll talk about how the fear of being “too much” makes edgy + talented Spiritual Creatives hide behind control, strategy + the obsession with being palatable - and how learning the art of being too much is actually the path to creative freedom, spiritual integrity + real, unapologetic power.

💀 Featuring 6 ways you secretly abandon your full-spectrum essence + what what it costs you when you do.

🔻 If you’re standing at that identity death threshold - between who you’ve been + the bolder version of you wanting to emerge next - this is your sign.

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Here's Part 2 (continued from last week): After the death of an old identity comes THE CREATIVE VOID - that raw, in-between space where nothing’s clear + everything feels uncertain.

But...instead of making it so scary, we can make it sexier!! 😜

This episode dives into the erotic side of the creative void for ambitious high-achievers (and how your fear of surrender in creativity mirrors your fear of surrender in love).

Because control kills chemistry + too much strategy kills the magic! When you can finally stay open in the unknown + tune into your s£xual life-force as a superpower, that’s when the erotic current moves through you again - turning your work, your art + your whole life back on. 💦🔥

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There comes a point when a certain version of you that once felt right…just doesn't resonate anymore.

It might be your identity in business, in relationship, in your public persona - it starts to feel outdated, draining or just totally inauthentic.

That’s not failure; it’s growth! Get excited - you're evolving.

This episode dives into why it's so crucial to stop resuscitating what’s already dead - and why letting go before you see proof of what's next isn't just necessary - it's the power move.

🥀 Let the old you die so something truer (and SO much better) can be born.🌹

(Part 2 - a spicier episode on the erotic/creative void after an identity death — drops next week!)

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Baby...stop expecting miracles when you’re only half-in!

In this episode, we’re diving into the karma of commitment - why nothing moves until you do.

Whether it’s love, purpose or abundance, the universe only meets you at your exact level of current karma.

~You say you want sacred partnership, but keep settling for mediocre relationships or breadcrumbs.

~You want freedom, but cling to the comfort zone that’s killing your soul.

~You constantly meditate on abundance, but are still overgiving, hustling for it until you're burned out or not clearly asking for what you really need.

That’s not bad luck - it’s karmic logic.
Half-assed energy creates half-baked results.

Let’s talk about the energetic law behind devotion - and what happens when you finally go ALL IN.

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