Doing your inventory regarding sex is one of the hardest things people to really do. Admitting that there has been serious dysfunction, sin, selfishness, and manipulation is not something people want to admit. However, there is no doubt this is an issue for everyone. 

Have you ever wondered what making amends looks like? Have you ever wondered what it’s like to owe society, an institution or a business. Let’s explore this together. 

aking a list of the people we had harmed while we were operating in our addiction is imperative. Making amends to them is important for us, but it’s not about us. It’s about them. The things that happened to us affected other people. The things that we did in our addiction need to be repaired.

God has many ways for us to turn to him. Forgiveness is the key that unlocks the freedom to fully live the life he has planned for us. We cannot live a joyous and free life without being cleansed and admitting we need him. Yes I’m talking about God, he is the one who takes away our sin through Jesus Christ.

Step six and seven are clearly about being ready to ask for forgiveness from God. Everything before this is introspective, but this is where we allow for God to do what we cannot do for ourselves.

The parable of the prodigal son! Forgiveness, healing and restoration!

Justification, lies and getting real!
I share my personal stories of getting real!

Let the story of Adam and Eve describe the human condition. And, what it is we do to put on masks and operate in fear, hiding and blame shifting.