S3 | Session 13: Always Second Place: Fighting to Be Your Partner's Priority
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Today, we see what happens when Mike's loyalty to his family leaves Rachel feeling like she is "last on the list".
When Rachel feels unprotected, she tries to handle her pain with logic, presenting evidence and hoping Mike will rationally agree with her. But as we discuss today, logic alone does not heal an attachment wound. Meanwhile, we finally uncover why Mike feels so compelled to manage everyone's comfort, tracing his habit of "going with the flow" straight back to his childhood. Witness what happens when Mike drops his defenses to validate Rachel's pain, and she asks for the one thing her nervous system needs to truly trust him again.
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