"I refuse to not talk about my grief. I refuse to not talk about my child's medical issues. I refuse not to talk about my ADHD because, again, that's another thing we just don't do in our community." - Amit Singh Kalley -----

Amit Kalley is a former deputy headteacher, the founder of For Working Parents, and an expert in digital safeguarding and parental education.

Growing up in immigrant households, many of us were programmed with a specific survival mechanism: keep your head down, and don't make a scene, because of the "what will people think?" mindset. While this silence was a necessary armour against prejudice for older generations, it has created a modern crisis. We are carrying this inherited habit of avoidance directly into how we raise our kids today - handing them screens to keep the peace, completely blind to the billion-dollar tech companies exploiting their attention.

This episode uncovers the raw reality of men's mental health within traditional communities, why we need to break the stigma around showing vulnerability, and why Amit believes we must ban social media companies from accessing our children. If you are trying to break a generational cycle of silence while raising kids in the digital age, this is the exact conversation you need.

Topics covered: - why older generations refused to show vulnerability - the exact reason traditional communities, especially the men, are condition to bury the struggles; and the negative side effects of it - why replacing a child's natural curiosity with a smartphone is stopping them from learning key life skills - how tech companies and social media are rewiring our kids - how parents can learn to safeguard their kids better online and in person

Find out more about Amit's work: https://forworkingparents.com/meet-the-team/

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What does it really mean to be strong? Not physically, but in the moments when your mind is breaking while your smile stays fixed.

“An honest, raw conversation about mental health, grit, belonging, and what toughness really means.”

Haydn Elliott built one of F45's most successful studios globally. What nobody saw was the breakdown that came first.

Anand sits down with the Haydn, one of the most authentic voices in the UK fitness industry, to talk about what it really costs to go all-in on creating one of London’s most successful fitness communities. Haydn opens up about his battle with depression in his early twenties, the moment he couldn't speak in front of his parents, and the three words his father said that changed everything.

This conversation goes deep on the difference between emotional suppression and emotional regulation, the generational silence around men's mental health, what the loneliness epidemic has to do with fitness culture, and why the most composed person in the room is often the one who needs help the most.

In this episode you'll learn:

• How to tell the difference between burnout and depression - before it's too late
• Why the strongest-looking people are often suffering the most
• How to lead with vulnerability and authority at the same time
• The "third place": what our grandparents had that we’ve lost, and why rebuilding it could save the current generation
• What toughness actually looks like in 2026
• How to give yourself permission to feel, even when the world expects you to hold it together

If you've ever felt like you were falling apart while showing up perfectly on the outside, this episode will make you relate, understand, and know how to take the next step.

I hope this conversation offers you something different, Anand

Topics: mental health | depression | burnout vs. resilience | the culture of leadership | masculinity & vulnerability | building community through fitness | third place

In this deeply personal and revealing conversation, Anand speaks with Arjun Sofat, Co‑Founder & CEO of Free Soul, about the deeper influences that shaped his entrepeneurship journey to building a global women's wellness brand.

We explore the lessons inherited from his parents and grandparents, leaving the safety of investment banking after years of 100‑hour weeks, how early influences forged his obsession with positive impact, and why the ultimate blessing is finding work you are willing to dedicated your life to.

Arjun shares the mindset and reframes that helped him push through the early days of no revenue, rejection, and being literally laughed out of an investor meeting.

The episode also dives into:

• How to deal with the lonely chapter of entrepreneurship.
• Why discipline is less about motivation and more about endurance
• How FreeSoul’s Designed By Her philosophy puts women at the centre of product creation
• The emotional impact of hearing customers’ stories - from PMDD improvements to fertility breakthroughs
• The influence of Ayurvedic “grandma’s remedies” and how traditional wisdom meets modern wellness
• What Arjun ultimately wants his children to remember about him, and why it has nothing to do with FreeSoul

This is a story about identity, culture, sacrifice, purpose, and the unseen roots that shape who we become. Whether you're building something of your own, navigating an identity shift, or reflecting on the values passed down through generations, this episode will leave you thinking long after it ends.

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What if the hardest parts of your childhood could become the reason you succeed? In this episode, Josh White, co-founder of Cano Water, sits down with me for his most open conversation yet - sharing the untold stories of growing up with ADHD, addiction, and inherited trauma, and how those roots shaped the early part of his identity and rebellion.

This episode dives into what most people never hear about Josh. The influences - not just from his own childhood, but from the roots that he's come from. It will change how you think about roots, identity, resilience and reinvention.

You’ll learn: ✔ How family patterns influence success (even when you try to escape them) ✔ The genetic roots of ADHD and its impact on resilience ✔ The rebellious backstory behind Cano Water ✔ Why “we all have the same 24 hours” is a myth ✔ Why tight-knit cultures make standing out so difficult ✔ The hidden link between ADHD, identity & creativity ✔ How trauma, when understood, can become a source of meaning

By the end, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how identity is formed, how to break unhealthy patterns, and how your past can become the foundation of your purpose.

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If you’ve ever felt shaped by your past, limited by your upbringing, or unsure how to break old patterns, this conversation will hit.

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Trina Smith, CEO of Electric Pineapple media, grew up between two cultures, never “looking” the part, and without anyone who looked like her to follow. Her journey through identity and music reveals what it means to find belonging on your own terms.

But through music, she carved a space that challenges bias, reclaims heritage, and asks whether culture is being diluted for clicks.

In this episode, we dive into:

• The struggle of identity invalidation (“you don’t look like a Smith…”)

• The beauty (and challenge) of being from an in-between culture

• Getting into music without role models who looked like her

• Bias, entitlement, and the hard truths of the music industry

• Has music lost its soul to TikTok virality?

• Why culture is being diluted in mainstream music and how to protect it

• Honorary mentions of Ed Sheeran, Arijit Singh, Sapphire, and Will Smith

👉 Full of raw honesty, cultural truths, and lessons on identity, this episode will resonate with anyone who’s ever felt “in-between.”

Growing up in a South Asian household meant reused yoghurt tubs, saving every bag, and never wasted food - but none of it was called sustainability. In the next instalment of the South Asian Heritage Month special, we explore how immigrant households accidentally became pioneers in climate-conscious living, and what we can learn from them today.

From finding an unexpected love for sustainability and nature, to pursuing a career that was never considered acceptable for South Asians, Ketan shares how racism in his upbringing and breaking cultural barriers shaped his journey and what the next generation can learn from it.

Expect to learn: – What Western sustainability can learn from our grandparents – What’s holding back young South Asians from choosing non-traditional careers – How Ketan teaches sustainability to his own children – What the environmental sector needs to do to stay relevant for the next generation

If you like real stories, bold perspectives, and a fresh take on what sustainability actually looks like beyond just a buzzword - this one's for you.

📺 As part of our special series with South Asian Heritage Month, every episode is also available as a full video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/M8eInb_iQmc

Don't miss the first episode of this series with Asifa Lahore: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dTkJxKLFtpc

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Have you ever felt like you never quite fit in with your faith, family or community? Can you still be accepted by your culture even if they say you can't?

Asifa Lahore is Britain Asian, and the UK's first out Muslim drag queen, but behind the headlines is a story of identity, rejection, courage, and deep cultural pride.

🎥 Prefer to watch? Catch the full video episode on YouTube from 4pm UK time on the day of release: https://youtu.be/dTkJxKLFtpc

Expect to hear:

• Lessons on embracing identity even when your community rejects i

• Why “being your authentic self” is harder than it sounds

• The cultural pressures of being the ‘good brown kid’

• What being a role model feels like when no ones walked your path

• Wearing a burka on stage at London Pride

• The price of not being true to yourself

A powerful conversation about culture, courage and redefining legacy.

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This episode is part of a special 4-part series for South Asian Heritage Month — where we unpack culture, identity, and legacy in a modern world. Find out more: southasianheritage.org.uk

• Why Malaysia is a cultural melting pot
• Why growing up Asian means you never leave home without snacks
• The shock of arriving in Britain and discovering an unexpected culture trait
• How ChatGPT is slowly killing the one human skill we should protect at all costs
• Why prosperity doesn't always lead to happiness, and what to do about it
• How to stop culture, society or your family from deciding what success should mean to you

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