🎙️ ROAD TO RECOVERY — EPISODE 09

DAY 3 OF 90: DISCERNMENT

Everybody talking good ain’t good.

One thing I’m learning during these 90 Days of Becoming is that growth requires more than discipline.

It requires discernment.

Who are you partnering with?
Who are you allowing access to you?
Whose words sound amazing—but their ACTIONS keep telling you something different?

Because sometimes the opportunity isn’t the blessing.

The revelation is.

And sometimes God will let you get close enough to something to finally see what you’ve been refusing to see.

Whew. 😮‍💨

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Day 2 — Letting Go of Your Will

August 17, 2026 reminded me that becoming requires surrender.

Sometimes you have to get to the point where you stop trying to force your own will and make room for God’s will. People will have opinions about what you should do, how you should move, what you should accept, and what they think is best for your life—but they aren’t the ones living it.

In Day 2 of 90 Days of Becoming, I talk about releasing the need to live according to other people’s expectations and trusting God enough to follow where He’s leading me, even when other people don’t understand it.

Because becoming isn’t always about adding something new. Sometimes it’s about finally letting go.

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R2R | Season 2, Episode 01 | 90 Days of Becoming: Day 1 of 90

Season One was The Beginning—the story of who I am, where I came from, and how I became the person I am today.

Now, I’m ready for what comes next.

Welcome to Season Two: 90 Days of Becoming.

For the next 90 days, I’m showing up every single day—not because my life is broken, but because I’m ready to be intentional about the life I already have.

I’m focusing on my body, my mind, my spirit, my business, my finances, and the work I know I’m capable of doing. I’m documenting the good days, the difficult days, the business wins, the lessons, the numbers, the weight, and even the days when I don’t have much to say.

I’m starting at 285 pounds, returning to my bariatric doctor for the first time in five years, getting serious about my health, and challenging myself to stop running, stop reacting, and start showing up.

No pretending I have everything figured out.

Just 90 days of doing the work and documenting what happens along the way.

This is Day 1 of 90.

Let’s see who I’m becoming.

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Truly Nothing!

Mediate and Go to Bed!

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Boundaries

What happens when you stop making everyone else the priority?

In this episode, I’m talking about boundaries, self-respect, and becoming obsessed with yourself — not in a selfish way, but in a “I finally give a damn about me” way.

Sometimes protecting your peace means disappointing people. Sometimes growth means getting comfortable saying no. And sometimes you have to get so focused on becoming the best version of yourself that everybody else’s opinions stop running your life.

This is about choosing yourself without apology.

Welcome to the work.

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Who are you when you stop trying to be who everyone else expects you to be?

In this episode of Road to Recovery, I talk about identity—where it begins, the things that shaped mine, and what it means to finally walk in who I am at 46.

This conversation starts with sexual identity, but it goes much deeper. It’s about having a voice, being able to speak freely, choosing spaces where you can be yourself, and surrounding yourself with people who allow you to show up authentically—and who are willing to meet you there.

Because at some point, you have to ask yourself:

Who am I? Who do I want to be? And am I living as that person—or performing for everyone else?

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The people who raised you. The places that shaped you. The things that happened to you.

In this episode, I talk about how my upbringing, my defiance, my relationships, and my past shaped the way I move today. I learned that everybody doesn’t deserve a reaction — sometimes emotional intelligence is knowing how to stay in character when people are trying to pull you out of it.

This is about releasing the past, not for them — for me.

Going back to the beginning so I can finally move forward.

The Beginning starts here.

— Coach Tye
Raw. Real. No Sugarcoating.

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Mommy & Daddy Issues

This episode gets personal.

I talk about where I came from—being born in Oklahoma, getting into trouble, gang banging, and eventually finding my way into the Word and toward God. But this isn’t a story about having everything figured out. I’m still struggling. I’m still questioning. I’m still growing.

I talk about what we carry from our beginnings, the people we’ve hurt, the apologies we may owe, and the freedom that comes from making peace with your past.

Your beginning may explain you, but it does not have to define you.

Be the peacemaker, not the peacekeeper.

And if you have the opportunity to apologize to someone you’ve affected, do it. Whether they accept your apology or not, you have done your part. You don’t need their forgiveness to release yourself.

Don’t let your beginning hold your present hostage or dictate your future. Use it to propel you forward.

This is Road2Recovery.

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