Scarcity mindsets don’t build abundant lives. In this episode, Kim sits down with Kailani Raye, a clinical hypnotherapist, life coach, and sound healer, to unpack how the stories we tell ourselves—consciously and subconsciously—shape the lives we live.

Together, they explore how women internalize scarcity without even realizing it: through the media we consume, the people we watch, and the beliefs we absorb without question. Starting from childhood programming, Kim and Kailani break down how your inner monologue might be quietly convincing you to expect less, settle early, or wait to feel worthy.

They dive into why so many women limit love, money and support to one source—and overlook the abundance that already exists in their friendships, community, and within themselves. They talk about what it really takes to shift from a place of limitation to a life of flow—how to get to the root of your desires, reframe your beliefs, and rewrite the story you’ve been living on loop.

Kim’s biggest takeaway? Being “realistic” is often just code for expecting the worst.

THE GOOD STUFF

• Follow Kailani Raye - HERE
• Work With Kailani - HERE
• Submit Your Confessions - HERE

LET'S BE FRIENDS

• STEP 1 : Give us a 5-STAR review
• STEP 2: Follow RLBG on Instagram - HERE
• STEP 3: Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks - HERE
• STEP 4: Follow the International Pop Star "SlimKim" on TikTok & Instagram

Meet Jackie Aina Asamoah, entrepreneur, creator, and cultural icon. She’s spent over a decade breaking beauty standards and building a brand that doesn’t just sell — it speaks. But before the campaigns, candles, and viral truth-telling, there was the climb. The unseen sacrifices and quiet moments of choosing herself.

A lot of us know Jackie as the glamorous force behind FORVR Mood or as the voice who made space for Black women in the beauty industry. But in this episode, you’ll meet her as a woman first. Sharp, self-aware, and unafraid to say the hard thing out loud.

We talk identity, legacy, and the pressure to perform perfection. Jackie opens up about confidence, compromise, and the backlash that comes with taking up space.

From the private doubts to the public wins, Jackie tells all in The Deep End.

THE GOOD STUFF

• Follow Jackie - HERE
• Shop FORVR Mood - HERE
• Submit Your Confessions - HERE

LET'S BE FRIENDS

• STEP 1 : Give us a 5-STAR review
• STEP 2: Follow RLBG on Instagram - HERE
• STEP 3: Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks - HERE
• STEP 4: Follow the International Pop Star "SlimKim" on TikTok & Instagram

We all know people can get weird about their “single” status — so in this episode, Kim is redefining what it means to be single and setting the tone for a “Taste the Rainbow (while you still can)” summer, because this may very well be your Last Single Summer. She’s soft-launching her bi-coastal era, and for serial monogamists like herself, being single feels like ethical non-monogamy. No ties, no tears, and no one telling you to turn on your location.

She unpacks the Last Single Summer rules of engagement — from Rule #3: No Pen Pals to Rule #5: Never Cancel on Your Girls for a Guy —and makes it her mission to guarantee you have the most liberating (and feral) summer ever. And for the girls who can’t get out of their own way, she offers a gentle reminder: the only opinion that matters is from the person paying your bills.

Kim’s biggest takeaway? Everyone needs to take a well-lit, long look in the mirror before projecting their insecurities onto strangers.

Submit Your Confessions - HERE

LET'S BE FRIENDS...
STEP 1 : Give us a 5-STAR review
STEP 2: Follow RLBG on Instagram - HERE
STEP 3: Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks - HERE
STEP 4: Follow the International Pop Star "SlimKim" on TikTok & Instagram