Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf

V and Yusuf keep it all the way real as they break down why men’s happiness is rarely prioritized—especially Black men’s—and why so many end up stuck in relationships that look good on Instagram but feel miserable in real life. They debate whether it’s okay to admit other people are attractive, why checking your partner’s phone is a walking red flag , and how “safe flirting” might just save your relationship (or start a new argument).

Plus, V drops a jaw-dropping personal story about choosing peace and happiness over six bedrooms, designer bags, and luxury cars. Spoiler alert: a Gucci purse can’t cuddle you at night.

With plenty of laughs, playful shots fired, and a few gems that might just shift your perspective, this episode is a reminder that love should be about connection—not keeping score, not control, and definitely not just financial security.

Tune in, laugh with us, and maybe ask your man if he’s happy for once. He might surprise you.

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Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf

In this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Vanetta and Yusuf explore the realities of modern dating and relationships. They discuss compassion, boundaries, deal breakers, and personal turn-offs, sharing insights from their own experiences and professional lives.

They also respond to a listener’s question about navigating a relationship moving too quickly, providing practical advice on how to communicate clearly and respectfully when deciding to end things.

Tune in for honest conversations about self-awareness, compatibility, and maintaining healthy relationships.

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Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Vanetta & Yusuf

Today the team is joined by Sha who bringa very fresh perspective so, buckle up for this wild ride! Our listener’s been chillin’ in a 3-year relationship — got a pet, future talks, the whole vibe — then outta nowhere, his girl hits him with “I feel free,” starts packing like she’s moving out for real, and wants to block him… but claims she ain’t leaving? Say what now?! Our crew dives in, dropping savage truths, calling out the obvious “she’s got somebody else” vibes, and giving zero chill about those disappearing clothes. We keep it 100 — sometimes you gotta tell your boo, “Pack up, bye!” but also throw in some real talk about heartbreak and spotting those sneaky signs. It’s got jokes, it’s got feels, and yeah, a little Cosby Show nostalgia for flavor. Whether you’re here for the laughs or the messy relationship tea, we got you. Hit play and let’s get into it!

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Hosts: C.L., Doc G, & Yusuf

In this spicy and slightly messy episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf and Fraronda unpack a letter from a listener who’s got way more than just marital drama.....think emotional cheating, overbearing in-laws, and a 19-year-old co-worker who apparently gives out hugs with a little too much eye contact.

Is emotional cheating still cheating? Did she actually sleep with the dude? And why are her parents living in the house, running the marriage like it’s their own reality show?

Yusuf's ready to call in Judge Judy, while Fraronda’s all about therapy and deep convos — if the couple can ever get five minutes alone without Mom and Dad chiming in from the other room. The hosts don’t hold back as they debate emotional boundaries, romantic rebounds, and whether "almost cheating" is just cheating with extra steps.

Throw in some hilarious listener advice (shoutout to Aunt Pat, who’s ready to hand over the house and dip) and you've got a wild ride through the world of love, mistakes, and parents who don’t know when to butt out.

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Hosts: C.L., Doc G, Khori, & Yusuf

This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Gaylord Fockerer (yes, that Gaylord) break down one of the wildest relationship stories to ever hit the group chat. A woman asks for a “break” to fight temptation, gets dumped, walks into a spider web, quits her job, and is SHOCKED when her man moves on. Girl, is it crack?!

We’re talking:

• The difference between a break and a breakup (spoiler: one ends in a gas bill).

• Why comparing yourself to Instagram models is hazardous to your healing.

• “Rich Zaddy” and the dangers of transactional love.

• The horizontal hokey pokey and its lasting consequences.

• Spider Gwen, Charlotte’s Web, and how NOT to quit your job.

Plus, we crown some of the most savage listener comments, including the now-iconic: “A wet coochie and an empty purse don’t make no sense.”

And don’t forget: first person to email us where the name Gaylord Focker comes from wins a free t-shirt AND a gas card—because we support good decisions and full tanks.

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Follow us @relstatpodcast everywhere your toxic ex still lurks.

Tune in, laugh hard, and remember: karma moves faster than FedEx.

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