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  • The Moment You Stop Choosing Each Other
    2026/05/06
    Most relationships don’t fall apart in one dramatic moment… They slowly drift. A little less presence. A little more avoidance. A little more autopilot. Until one day…You realize you’re no longer truly choosing each other. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore the subtle ways couples disconnect over time… and what it actually means to consciously choose your relationship again and again. They share personal stories, real-life patterns, and the small everyday moments that either deepen intimacy… or slowly erode it. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: How couples quietly stop choosing each other without even realizing itWhat consciously choosing your partner actually means in real lifeHow autopilot, technology, and distraction slowly disconnect relationshipsWhat are the subtle patterns that quietly erode intimacy and connectionWhy “we’re fine” can become the danger zone in relationshipsWhat are the small daily choices that rebuild connection, trust, and emotional intimacy Love alone doesn’t sustain a relationship. Conscious choosing does. When you continue turning toward each other…staying present, speaking truth, and repairing quickly: Connection deepens. Trust strengthens. And relationships come back to life. 💫 ✨ Save your spot for our June and July Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats 💌  If you can't make it to the retreat, we will also be hosting a workshop on May 23. It will be an afternoon of Forest Breathwork, meditation & Sacred Sound Journey. You can sign up for the workshop here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/workshops#reserveyourspot 💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here 👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call 🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com
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    33 分
  • How to Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship (Without Starting Over)
    2026/04/29

    Trust rarely disappears in one dramatic moment… More often, it fades slowly.

    A little distance.
    A hard conversation was avoided.
    A promise not followed through on.
    Unspoken resentment is quietly building.

    Until one day…What once felt easy starts to feel fragile.

    In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we break down how trust is actually lost… and how it can be rebuilt through safety, transparency, repair, and consistency.

    They share real-life examples from their own relationship, common patterns couples fall into, and the practical shifts that restore connection without needing to start over.

    What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
    • Why trust usually fades through small moments — not one massive betrayal
    • Why safety comes before honesty, and how nervous systems shut down when truth feels unsafe
    • How transparency builds trust faster than perfection
    • What are the “micro betrayals” that quietly erode connection every day
    • Why healthy couples aren’t conflict-free… they’re repair-rich
    • How trust can be rebuilt through consistency, presence, and honest communication

    You don’t need to start over. You may need to change the direction of the pattern.

    When safety returns…truth becomes easier…repair gets faster…and trust grows stronger than before. 💫

    ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April, June, and July Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

    💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here

    👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

    🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

    ABOUT US:

    Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

    What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

    They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

    Follow us below and continue the convo!

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

    Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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    1 時間 6 分
  • What Happens When You Finally Slow Down Together with Mike & Courtney from The Sacred We
    2026/04/22
    Most couples don’t need more effort… They need more space. Space to breathe. Space to feel. Space to actually experience each other again. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we, together with Mike and Courtney from The Sacred We podcast, explore how speed, stress, and constant doing quietly disconnect relationships… and why slowing down can restore intimacy, safety, and desire. They share the deeper reason many loving couples feel far apart… and simple shifts that help you reconnect emotionally, physically, and relationally. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why does doing more often create more tension in relationshipsHow speed and survival mode slowly disconnect loving couplesWhy does the connection happen through safety and presence, not pressureHow slowing down transforms intimacy and desireWhat are the nervous system patterns underneath conflict and shutdownWhat are the simple ways to reconnect and create space together now You don’t need a new relationship.You may need a new pace. When you slow down enough to truly meet each other…connection returns, conflict softens, and love becomes accessible again 💫 ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April, June, and July Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats 💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here 👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call 🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here: 👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra ABOUT THE GUESTS: Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren host The Sacred We, a conscious relationship podcast for couples ready to go beyond surface-level advice. Mike is a relationship coach specializing in Relational Authority™, while Courtney is a somatic therapist and mystic. Together, they blend real vulnerability with practical tools to deepen intimacy, navigate conscious parenting, and help couples build the relationship they've always dreamed of. GET TO KNOW MIKE AND COURTNEY THROUGH THEIR SOCIALS... Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mikeelliott.relating & https://www.instagram.com/courtneywren.sacredrelating ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com
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    1 時間 16 分
  • Why You Feel More Like Roommates Than Lovers
    2026/04/15

    Most couples don’t fall out of love… They slowly drift into disconnection.

    Less touch.
    Less presence.
    More logistics.

    Until one day…You realize you’re living together… but not truly connecting.

    In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we break down how couples move into “roommate energy”… and what it actually takes to shift back into connection, polarity, and intimacy.

    They share real-life patterns, personal experiences, and the deeper dynamics most couples miss when trying to fix disconnection.

    What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
    • How couples slowly become roommates and why it happens without a big moment
    • How the shift from connection to logistics looks, and how routine replaces intimacy
    • How does physical and emotional disconnection build over time
    • Why lack of intentional connection is the real cause of drift
    • How autopilot kills attraction...even in loving relationships

    You don’t need a new relationship.

    You need a new way of showing up…in the one you’re already in.

    And when you become intentional again…connection deepens, attraction returns, and you start choosing each other again 💫

    ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April, June, and July Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

    💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here

    👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

    🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

    ABOUT US:

    Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

    What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

    They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

    Follow us below and continue the convo!

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

    Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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    45 分
  • Desire Mismatch in Relationships: How to Want More Without Feeling Rejected
    2026/04/08

    Desire mismatch doesn’t just create frustration…

    It creates distance, tension, and silent disconnection.

    In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore what’s really happening underneath mismatched desire… and why it’s not about libido, but the dynamic between you.

    They share the patterns most couples get stuck in… and what actually allows connection, safety, and attraction to return.

    What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
    • Why desire mismatch is normal, and why most couples still struggle with it
    • How wanting more often feels like rejection… and how that shapes your nervous system
    • What’s happening for the partner who wants less, and why pressure creates shutdown
    • Why the pursue-withdraw cycle quietly erodes connection and attraction
    • Why communication alone doesn’t fix this and what’s actually missing
    • How to shift the dynamic so desire can come back online naturally

    Desire mismatch isn’t the problem.

    It’s how you’re relating to it…

    And when that shifts…connection deepens, pressure dissolves, and attraction can return

    ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April, June, and July Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

    💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here

    👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

    🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

    ABOUT US:

    Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

    What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

    They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

    Follow us below and continue the convo!

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

    Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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    54 分
  • Masculine & Feminine Energy Imbalance in Relationships: Why She Feels Disconnected And He Feels Shut Down
    2026/04/01

    Disconnection doesn’t just happen…

    It builds quietly… over time.

    In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore how masculine and feminine energy imbalances create emotional distance, shutdown, and the loss of polarity in relationships.

    They break down the subtle patterns that lead to disconnection… why she starts to close… why he pulls away… and what it actually takes to restore safety, respect, and attraction.

    This isn’t about blame. It’s about understanding the dynamic… and learning how to shift it.

    What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
    • Why disconnection isn’t random and how imbalance builds slowly beneath the surface
    • What happens when she holds too much, and why it pulls her out of her feminine flow
    • Why does he shut down and how criticism, pressure, and feeling “not enough” impact masculine energy
    • How both partners unknowingly reinforce the cycle of over-functioning and withdrawal
    • Why communication alone doesn’t fix this and what’s actually missing
    • How to begin restoring polarity through safety, awareness, and conscious repair

    Masculine and feminine imbalance doesn’t mean your relationship is broken.

    It means something deeper is asking to be seen.

    And when you meet it consciously…she softens, and he steps forward. Connection deepens and attraction begins to return 💫

    ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

    💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here

    👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

    🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

    ABOUT US:

    Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

    What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

    They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

    Follow us below and continue the convo!

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

    Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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    53 分
  • Empty Nest, Second Marriage, or Final Straw - The Relationship Reckoning No One Prepares You For
    2026/03/25

    There’s a moment in many relationships… and it’s not loud, dramatic, or explosive.

    It’s quiet.

    In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore the relationship reckoning that happens when the distractions fade… the kids leave… the chaos settles… and you’re left facing each other again.

    They break down the patterns couples fall into during these life transitions… and what it actually takes to reconnect, rebuild, and consciously choose each other again.

    What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
    • What happens when the “quiet moment” occurs, where relationships are revealed, and why most couples aren’t prepared for it
    • When parenting was the glue, and now there’s distance
    • How fear-based relating and overcorrection create disconnection in the second or even third relationship
    • Why does it feel so unsafe for both partners when only one has their foot in
    • Why desire fades and how it’s directly linked to communication and emotional safety
    • What intentional dating actually looks like

    This moment in your relationship…isn’t the end.

    It’s the exposure.

    The invitation to ask:

    Do we still choose each other?

    And if the answer is yes… There is so much that can be rebuilt.

    Because when you lean in consciously…connection can return, respect can deepen, and desire can come back online 💫

    ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

    💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here

    👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

    🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

    ABOUT US:

    Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

    What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

    They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

    Follow us below and continue the convo!

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

    Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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    49 分
  • Why Resentment Destroys Attraction (And How to Restore Respect & Polarity)
    2026/03/18

    Resentment doesn’t just create distance… it quietly erodes attraction.

    In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore how unspoken hurt, unmet needs, and emotional disconnection slowly collapse polarity… and what it actually takes to rebuild respect, safety, and desire.

    They share personal insights and real patterns they see in couples navigating resentment… and how this work, when done consciously, can bring you back to each other in a deeper, more powerful way.

    What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

    • How resentment quietly builds over time and why most couples don’t catch it until attraction is already gone
    • Why respect is the foundation of polarity, and what happens when it starts to break down
    • How the cycle of over-functioning and shutdown looks, and how both partners contribute (without realizing it)
    • How unresolved mother and father wounds show up in your relationship dynamics
    • What it actually takes to repair that goes beyond surface communication or “talking it out”

    Resentment doesn’t mean the relationship is broken.

    It means something deeper is asking to be seen, felt, and repaired.

    And when you meet it consciously… respect can return, polarity can reignite, and attraction can come back online. 💫

    ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

    (EARLY BIRD PROMO: $500 OFF IF YOU REGISTER NOW UNTIL MARCH 23)

    💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here

    👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

    🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

    🎁As promised, here is the link to the Jade Egg Program. Sign up and start your journey now!

    👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/jadeegg

    ABOUT US:

    Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

    Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

    And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

    What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

    They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

    Follow us below and continue the convo!

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

    Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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    59 分