Tania Hird is an Extreme Soccer Mum. She is also an ex lawyer, mother of 4 and founder & CEO of HairflairAus and Tania Hird Designs. Tania knows elite sport. Her son Alex plays for A- League team, Melbourne Knights. But yes - that surname IS familiar. For many years too, Tania was the wife and partner of Essendon Football legend and coach, James Hird. By James' side steadfastly, Tania experienced both the mercurial highs and devastating lows of an ultra extreme elite football experience. This is a candid conversation born of those observations: about raising elite athletes to be of good character, and develop a strong sense of self that exists away from the game. Don't get ahead of yourself, is Tania's mantra, observing that respect for others is just insufficient - there must be true care for others instilled in any elite athlete, to take them outside a world that otherwise would be all about themselves. Football, fame, fuck ups and fortitude - these are the observations Tania brings to this episode, from a rarified position with high heeled feet firmly on the ground. Tania Hird. She's a legend.

Red Card For Mummy and Other Soccer stories is made with the help and skills of Marea Markou, Elahn Zetlan, Les Molnar (Production Alley) and #WordOf Mouth Whisperer Helen Merry. Created and presented by Libbi Gorr as an AddLibbi podcast.

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Is cheating common in a game of football? How does a ref decide whether or not to give a Red Card? A Yellow Card? Stop the Match? We go inside the Referee's mind to discover exactly what it takes for a parent to don the kit and pick up a whistle. What are the no go zones for on field behaviour? How much money can you make? is it tax deductible? And do you have to be mad to even try. Ben Walker , Australian parent, Lawyer and civil servant, and former house husband takes his experience with the rules to a whole new level in this conversation about his life as a ref . Here are his notes from our session. Of course, he's the ref, he always does the paperwork.

Fitness, legitimate cash money, learning new skills all came into it for Ben, as well as a pressing need to get out of the house. In Ben's mind, what makes a good referee is:

Good fitness.

Sense of humour.

Good knowledge of the rules.

Being close to the play

Be decisive aka ‘sell your decision’ and see the lighter side of things when appropriate

How to get the best out of a referee from a juniors club perspective:

Within reason to look after them and make sure they’re capable marshals to escort them to and from the pitch, ensure that the change rooms are in reasonable order, make sure they have good access to refreshments and be mindful there is little time between matches so referees on match day are truly time poor

Be mindful of cliched gender roles:

So many juniors clubs have the women at relegated to the tuckshop and perhaps Team Manager - a thankless task, normally. By comparison the blokes lounge around drinking coffee's and /or beers and perhaps, if pressed, will run the line. These are exaggerations but you get the point.

Ben says it’s always very helpful to have the pitch markings in good order, that way the players and spectators and especially officials can tell whether the ball is in or out of play. It aids safety, reduces confusion and can reduce the potential for needless conflict

Benches and the referee:

Smart benches don’t constantly abuse the referee. They realise it potentially puts him/her offside it also can lead to the bench being thrown off the pitch (red card) and big fines as well as setting a poor example to the players & spectators.

Benches are not a de facto spectator space. Only team officials and actual players should be there, the reason being if the ball is really hardly struck and goes into the bench area and someone gets hurt there’s a significant risk that non-officials non-players won’t be covered for injury if they’re hurt.

At a lesser level, the smart thing to do if the Bench is concerned a particular player is not being treated fairly is to very clearly and simply say it loudly when the referees going past. Although the preferable method is for the captain to raise it with the referee in a break in play e.g. say that the striker has been knocked around or blocked or whatever the issue is.

Any referee worth feeding is open to a respectful request and will be more vigilant.

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Well, if you want to work as a professional in Soccer, there's Plan A and Plan B . Andy Brennan, is both charismatic and dynamic midfielder for the South Melbourne Soccer Club, and club psychologist at A League contenders, Melbourne City. In fact, he credits his longevity and ability to withstand the maelstrom of a life as a soccer pro not just to committed mentors and hard work on the pitch, but quite specifically, to the time he has spent developing his mind set.

Through a pottered path, Andy found his own way to the A League as a player through the Newcastle Jets, where the realities of soccer life hit him hard. But out of immense breakdown comes unique possibility, and in this candid chat, Andy reveals his own journey to mental fitness, and his commitment to inspire others to follow that lead.

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SPECIAL EDITION: Who better to dive into all the drama, fuss and implications of Sam Kerr's court case in London for the racial harassment of a police officer, than #KeepersMum, Libbi Gorr and #TheSportsAmbassador, Tracey Holmes.

Sam Kerr - Australia's highest paid female footballer on something like $3.3 million with her playing and endorsements taken in account. And yet, she's now facing court for a skirmish after a big celebratory night out, full of booze, vomit, involuntary detainment, and altercation.

What does this mean for the Matildas? Who better to dive into the drama and dissect the story, that two women known also for their exemplarary skills and ability to shirtfront? With Libbi Gorr and Tracey Holmes

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