Recovery, Service, and Second Chances

Presenters: Julie L and Peter D
Episode length: 1 hour 20 minutes (confirmed by Peter)
Release date: Friday, October 16, 2026

Brad O. wanted to play college baseball. Drinking and drug use took that goal away, and four DUIs eventually led him to treatment. Early recovery was rough. He kept going to Alcoholics Anonymous, and when he reached five years sober, an unexpected job offer gave him a way to help others at a detox program. Brad talks with Julie and Peter about making amends, working with people who face treatment or prison, and why he keeps opening doors even though each person must choose to walk through.

• 00:04:48 Brad traces his arrests, his lost baseball goal, and the moment he saw his infant son while sitting in jail.
• 00:07:54 A fourth DUI, treatment, and the difficult stretch before his January 1991 sobriety date.
• 00:11:46 Two women from his home group find Brad at a gas station, and one hug helps him decide to trust the fellowship.
• 00:15:00 Brad describes an amends to his former wife that took years to pay back.
• 00:18:00 A nurse's advice about taking care of himself comes back to Brad when he reaches five years sober and begins working in detox.
• 00:21:08 Brad recalls his work with Volunteers of America Oregon and a treatment-readiness program at Inverness Jail.
• 00:24:40 Brad says everybody deserves a chance, because you never know when the light will go on for someone.
• 00:26:13 Brad sums up his work: he gets to open the door, and each person still has to walk through.
• 00:27:13 He now helps families talk through what to do when a loved one is in trouble.
• 00:35:28 Brad remembers accompanying his mother to an Al-Anon club as a child.
• 00:43:34 Brad says he does not give up on people, even when they need another chance.
• 00:50:16 Brad describes surrender as stepping back, regrouping, and returning more stable.
• 00:52:29 Brad describes the camaraderie he found in sober softball.
• 01:01:00 A cyclist confronts Brad after he cuts him off; Brad talks about owning the mistake.
• 01:15:13 Brad's message to anyone struggling: stay close to us, because you really are worth it.

• Alcoholics Anonymous
• Al-Anon Family Groups
• Go the Distance
• Oregon Recovers
• Volunteers of America Oregon
• Multnomah County treatment courts
• Multnomah County Inverness Jail
• CODA
• Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory
• Real Recovery Podcast

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Presenters: Julie L and Peter D
Episode length: 1:00:21
Release date: Friday, October 9, 2026

In Part 1, Walter B. told us about the Rose Bowls, the years after the cheering stopped, and the day his friend Matt came to the trap house. In Part 2, he and Matt have a trip to Kona planned. Walter explains why the invitation means so much more to him than a vacation: Matt was the person who helped him find his way into recovery. The three of them also talk about loving yourself, the fourth step, what peer workers do, and the young people Walter looks out for while coaching football. He leaves listeners with a reason to keep going, even if they don't have a Matt in their lives.

• 00:01:30Julie talks about how recovery has changed for her over the years, from meetings and raising her daughter to looking for balance today.
• 00:05:44Walter shares what he is still learning about loving himself and his wife.
• 00:07:49Matt surprises Walter with a trip they can take together.
• 00:10:03Why they chose Kona, and why Walter calls Matt his proof that recovery was possible.
• 00:12:23Peter talks about learning to look in the mirror without putting on a mask.
• 00:16:50Walter calls himself a "dopeless hope fiend" and describes the imposter syndrome he still feels.
• 00:20:05Walter and Julie talk about anger, taking the high road, and returning to the steps when they make a mistake.
• 00:23:22The fourth-step resentment list and the question Walter's sponsor saved for the last column: "What's your part?"
• 00:26:46Walter talks about being his own harshest critic even after years of recovery.
• 00:31:19Walter tells Julie and Peter why he wants to encourage others the way people encouraged him.
• 00:33:11Different experiences, different paths into recovery, and why sharing them matters.
• 00:34:00Six people show up on a weekend when Julie tells her meeting she is struggling; the meeting grows to seven days.
• 00:36:21Walter makes the case for better pay and support for peer workers.
• 00:43:27Walter shares what some former clients taught him about feeling safer outside than in unfamiliar housing.
• 00:46:01Coaching high school football while looking out for the young people on the team.
• 00:48:07Walter speaks to someone who is suffering and may not have a Matt to call.
• 00:49:23Walter tells the story of his older brother's place in his recovery and in their family.
• 00:55:13Julie and Peter talk about the family people find in recovery.

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Presenters: Julie L and Peter D
Episode length: 1:07:06
Release date: Friday, October 2, 2026

Walter B. grew up in Northeast Portland running before he could walk. Sports carried him from the Albina Roadrunners to Benson High School and the University of Washington, where he went to three Rose Bowls. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Walter tells Julie and Peter what happened when the cheering stopped: the drinking and weed that followed him from high school, getting cut by the New York Giants, years of homelessness, and a trap house in Northeast Portland. Then his best friend Matt came for him. Walter shares how he found his footing in AA, went to treatment at DePaul, and got to see his father one last time, sober.

• 00:09:16Walter was 40, in a trap house with no food or water, when someone told him the 12 steps don't work.
• 00:11:00Growing up in Northeast Portland, running track at four or five, and Phil Knight showing up at meets with a bag full of track shoes.
• 00:13:01Acting out at school, and a household where what happened at home stayed at home.
• 00:15:00Benson High, a two-liter California Cooler at 13, and weed before his freshman year.
• 00:24:17When the cheering stopped: Western Washington, then the University of Washington.
• 00:25:33Meeting Kurt Cobain at a party, three Rose Bowls, and a share of a national championship.
• 00:29:00The loneliness behind the fame, and late-night walks to the viaduct to sit with homeless people.
• 00:32:16A contract with the New York Giants, a positive test, getting cut, and choosing to party.
• 00:37:00Homeless from 1994 to 2008 while tiptoeing around the neighborhood where his family lived, and crack in 1998.
• 00:44:35Two daughters, the loneliness, and the darkest point of his use.
• 00:45:23In the trap house, Walter hears himself say the 12 steps do work.
• 00:46:21He calls his best friend, Matt, who asks if he's willing to do something different.
• 00:47:52Matt pulls up, Walter grabs his bag, and never looks back.
• 00:49:32Calling his mom and dad, AA meetings every day, and treatment at DePaul.
• 00:51:01An emergency pass to see his father, and the words "I got my baby back."
• 00:52:48Julie shares the last days with her mom, and Peter talks about caring for his dad.
• 00:56:45A daughter who just got married, a youngest child starting college, and the repairs he began making with his family.
• 00:59:24Caring for his mom, becoming a counselor at DePaul, and learning his father may have done the best he could.
• 01:03:44Breaking the cycle, and a man who says he is still under construction.

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