Most women think they’re struggling because something is wrong.
Often, it’s because they’re expanding.

In this solo episode, I break down the messy, confronting, often unspoken reality of courage: you build a life you once prayed for… and then you grow beyond the woman who set those goals. The discomfort you feel isn’t misalignment… it’s evolution.

From visa investments, business restructuring, team transitions, and podcast heartbreak, to the inner-child fears and identity wars that surface when you choose a bigger life, I speak transparently about what it really takes to keep moving forward when a part of you is terrified of change.

I explain why courage isn’t confidence, why fear is a necessary prerequisite, and why the nervous system cannot regulate in the future, meaning every next level will feel uncertain until you learn to create internal safety as you step into the unknown.

If you’re ambitious, in transition, outgrowing the old version of yourself, or quietly asking “Why does this feel so hard when I’m doing everything right?” then this episode will be fore you.

Timestamps

00:00 What courage really is (and isn’t)
04:52 Why women outgrow the life they once prayed for
11:09 Why choice calms the nervous system (and keeps you going)
12:11 Your system can’t regulate in the future, here’s why it matters
21:36 The real cost of stepping into your next level
29:47 The internal war between your past self & your expanded self
39:48 Embodiment vs. information, why people feel your truth
50:23 The strongest-desire question that unlocks courage
58:46 Simplifying your life to create capacity for expansion
63:41 Why I’m all-in on solo episodes (and why your feedback matters)

Connect with Me:

Want to work with me? Click this link to book a breakthrough call and join my signature method, The Breakthrough Blueprint, today.

Ready to join us at The Bridge Experience in Gold Coast this January? Sign up www.thebridgemethod.org and use the code SEXLOVE&MONEY to save 20% off your enrolment

Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci

Most entrepreneurs aren’t chasing success, they’re chasing relief.

They chase revenue, seven-figure milestones, exits, and status believing that once they arrive, they’ll finally feel calm, fulfilled, and free. But for many high performers, hitting the goal doesn’t bring peace, it exposes a deeper misalignment.

In this episode, I’m joined by Austin Netzley, serial entrepreneur, investor, and author who has built, scaled, and exited multiple businesses, and now works with founders who look wildly successful on paper yet feel trapped, burnt out, or disconnected inside their lives. Austin supports founders to double their income while reclaiming their time, energy, and life, without sacrificing health, relationships, or freedom.

Together we unpack the lie that more money equals more fulfilment, how entrepreneurs slowly lose themselves through invisible “micro-movements” of hustle and comparison, and why most people don’t actually want a seven-figure business, they want space to breathe, time with their family, and peace in their body.

We talk about why becoming a millionaire can be the least climactic moment of all, how burnout becomes a wake-up call rather than a failure, the difference between financial freedom and emotional freedom, and how to build a business that supports your life, not one that consumes it.

If you’re ambitious, capable, in a transition period, or quietly wondering “Why doesn’t this feel the way I thought it would?” - our conversation will hit home.

Timestamps

00:00 Why success is personal (and comparison ruins it)
01:17 What entrepreneurs actually want: freedom
02:38 The slow way people lose themselves
03:23 Why “seven figures” isn’t the real goal
05:10 Burnout, anxiety & the cost of hustle
06:28 Money trauma and chasing safety
10:40 When actions don’t match desired freedom
22:14 Not everyone should be an entrepreneur
27:02 The three freedoms that actually matter
29:12 Why becoming a millionaire felt empty
41:24 Build your business around your life

Connect with Austin:

Instagram: @austinnetzley

Connect with Me:

Want to work with me? Click this link to book a breakthrough call and join my signature method, The Breakthrough Blueprint, today.

Ready to join us at The Bridge Experience in Gold Coast this January? Sign up www.thebridgemethod.org and use the code SEXLOVE&MONEY to save 20% off your enrolment

Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci

As a kid, he was the one finishing the mile alone while the whole class waited, the one who didn’t see anyone who looked or sounded like him on TV, the one told by a speech teacher to find a life where he “wouldn’t need to talk.”

Today, Phillip Solomon is a primetime reality star, a sought-after trainer, and a man who knows exactly what he brings into any room — even when the room wasn’t built with him in mind.

We unpack what it means to walk through the world as “too much” and “not enough” at the same time, to navigate prejudice on dating apps and in real life, to live with a stutter in a culture obsessed with smooth delivery, and to still decide: I will be seen. I will be heard. I will build my own space if you don’t make one.

Expect to learn why knowing your essence changes how you date, work, and walk into every room, how to turn rejection into fuel, what reality TV really revealed about his identity, and why, if there’s no seat for you at the table, you bring your own wood, hammer and nails — and extend the table yourself.

Timestamps

00:00 Growing up “too much” in a world that didn’t see him

04:12 The moment he realised people saw him as a threat

08:01 “You’d be hot… if I was into people who look like you”

13:02 From overweight, lonely kid to 45 pounds down and hungry for more

17:40 Why he chose teaching and fitness as his arenas of impact

22:18 Deal or No Deal Island: using reality TV as a platform, not a peak

28:54 Love, hate and death threats in the DMs

35:29 Bringing his energy into Barry’s and owning what he adds to the room

45:02 Passion, purpose and why most adults can’t answer “What do you bring?”

49:50 When there’s no seat for you… Becoming the person who extends the table

Connect with Phillip: Instagram: @phillipsolomon_

Want to work with me? Click this link to book a breakthrough call and join my signature method, The Breakthrough Blueprint, today.

Ready to join us at The Bridge Experience in Gold Coast this January? Sign up www.thebridgemethod.org and use the code SEXLOVE&MONEY to save 20% off your enrolment

Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci