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Raising Men

Raising Men

著者： Shaun Dawson
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概要

 Raising Men is a podcast about parenting, masculinity, and the lifelong journey of raising sons—and ourselves—to be men of courage, character, and purpose. Hosted by Shaun Dawson, each episode features real conversations with parents, leaders, and thinkers redefining what it means to raising men in today’s world.© 2026 Shaun Dawson 人間関係 子育て
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  • Navigating The Strong-Willed Path to Manhood with Kirk Martin

    Navigating The Strong-Willed Path to Manhood with Kirk Martin
    2026/04/20

    In today’s episode of the Raising Men podcast, we sit down with Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm and host of the Calm Parenting Podcast. For more than two decades, Kirk has helped over a million parents stop the power struggles and build stronger relationships with their children. In this conversation, we explore how traits that make boys “difficult” today—arguing, stubbornness, intensity—can become the very strengths that lead to leadership, creativity, and resilience in adulthood. Kirk shares practical scripts, powerful reframes, and a refreshing perspective on parenting strong-willed kids.

    Key Takeaways

    1. The traits that frustrate parents today like stubbornness and arguing are often the same traits that create strong leaders later in life.
    2. Parents should stop trying to control their children and instead focus on controlling their own reactions.
    3. Strong-willed and neurodivergent kids often possess powerful skills like pattern recognition, creativity, and entrepreneurial thinking.
    4. The quickest way to calm a child is not through punishment but through connection, movement, and giving them a sense of control.
    5. Modeling humility and emotional regulation teaches boys more about masculinity than any lecture ever could.


    Quotes from Kirk Martin

    “Stop taking things personally. You're a grown man. Why are you reacting to a four-year-old like it's a personal attack?”


    “The quickest way to change your child’s behavior is to first control your own.” "


    Humility is leadership. It’s listening, problem solving, and being gracious with people.”


    Chapter Markers

    00:00 — Stop Taking Kids’ Behavior Personally

    01:37 — Difficult Traits Create Strong Leaders

    02:29 — Reframing Stubbornness as a Strength

    03:23 — Skills Hidden Inside Arguing

    04:54 — Questioning Authority Is a Life Skill

    06:01 — School Rewards the Wrong Skills

    08:09 — When Boys Are Treated as a Threat

    10:00 — Conan Brain vs Sherlock Brain

    11:34 — Change Your Behavior First

    13:09 — Parent Like a Leader, Not a Boss

    14:12 — Curiosity Calms Conflict

    15:50 — Discipline Through Direction, Not Punishment

    16:24 — Channel Intensity Into Purpose

    18:20 — Neurodivergence as a Superpower

    20:05 — Decision-Making Beats Obedience

    21:02 — Confidence Is Easily Crushed

    22:48 — Compliance Doesn’t Equal Success

    24:49 — Visionary Kids vs Rule Followers

    26:56 — Your Biggest Problem Is Your Opportunity

    29:03 — This Isn’t About Your Authority

    30:52 — Staying Calm Changes Everything

    32:57 — How to Actually Calm a Kid Down

    35:34 — Matching Emotional Intensity

    38:02 — Connection vs Independence

    41:41 — Authority Doesn’t Need Proof

    44:30 — Modeling Humility as Masculinity

    46:36 — Final Takeaways for Parents


    Books, Links, and References Mentioned

    Celebrate Calm https://celebratecalm.com

    Calm Parenting Podcast https://celebratecalm.com/podcast

    Teton National Park https://www.nps.gov/grte/index.htm


    Framework Mentioned

    The Calm Parenting Script Framework

    1. Control yourself first - The parent regulates their own posture, tone, and reaction.

    2. Give the child control - Offer a task or choice they can own.

    3. Introduce movement - Physical activity helps regulate emotions.

    4. Offer connection through invitation - “Come join me when you're ready.”

    5. Validate intensity without excusing behavior - Example: “If I were you, I’d be frustrated too.”
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  • Helping Boys Express Feelings Without Defaulting to Anger

    Helping Boys Express Feelings Without Defaulting to Anger
    2026/04/16

    In this Q&A episode of Raising Men, host Shaun Dawson dives into some of the most pressing parenting challenges shared by listeners. Drawing on insights from past guests like Steve Biddulph, Eric Davis, Ryan Walton, and Devin Kuntzmann, Shaun unpacks why boys often express emotions through anger, how parents fall into reactive patterns when exhausted, and what it really takes to raise resilient, emotionally strong young men.

    Key takeaways

    • Boys' nervous systems react more intensely to stress from infancy.
    • Anger in boys often masks vulnerability and fear.
    • Suppressing emotions can hinder a boy's purpose and passions.
    • Parents should model healthy emotional expression and leadership.
    • Taking breaks and declaring fatigue can prevent reactive anger.


    "Yelling damages long-term connection."


    "Pull over when your engine overheats."


    "Reprogram your childhood programming."


    Chapters

    00:00 Forging Men: The Blueprint for Parenting
    01:24 Understanding Anger: Boys and Emotional Expression
    08:12 Breaking the Cycle: Managing Parental Anger
    16:27 Tactical Wisdom: Learning from Past Mistakes

    Steve Biddulph https://raising.men/episodes/why-boys-are-falling-behind-and-what-we-can-do-about-it-with-steve-biddulph/transcript
    Eric Davis - https://raising.men/episodes/beyond-the-battlefield-a-navy-seal-s-guide-to-raising-good-men-with-eric-davis
    Ryan Walton - https://raising.men/episodes/raising-brave-boys-in-a-fearful-world-with-ryan-walton/transcript
    Devon Kuntzmann - https://raising.men/episodes/from-chaos-to-calm-devon-kuntzman-on-thriving-through-toddlerhood
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    16 分
  • What Boys Need Now: A Mindful Parenting Framework with Hunter Clarke-Fields

    What Boys Need Now: A Mindful Parenting Framework with Hunter Clarke-Fields
    2026/04/13
    In this episode of Raising Men, Shaun sits down with mindfulness teacher, author, and parenting expert Hunter Clarke-Fields, bestselling author of Raising Good Humans and host of the Mindful Mama Podcast. Together they explore what it really means to raise a “good human,” why parents’ emotional regulation matters more than perfect parenting, and how mindfulness can transform the parent–child relationship. Hunter shares honest stories from her own parenting journey—including struggles with anger, learning to regulate herself, and repairing relationships with her kids—while offering practical tools parents can apply immediately. Key TakeawaysThe most powerful parenting tool is modeling emotional regulation rather than telling kids how to behave.Children absorb the emotional climate of the household, so parents’ nervous systems directly influence their kids.Yelling is usually an unconscious stress response, not a conscious parenting choice, and can be retrained over time.Repair after conflict—apologizing and reconnecting—can heal relationships even years later.Parenting works best when we balance guidance and influence rather than relying heavily on power, punishment, or rewards. Top Quotes from Hunter Clarke-Fields“The best parenting we’re ever doing is in modeling. We can’t just tell our kids how to be—we have to live what we want them to learn.”“No parent wakes up and decides they’re going to yell at their child today—it’s an unconscious stress response.”“Our kids don’t need perfect parents. They need parents who mess up, repair, and show them how humans recover.” Chapter Markers00:00 — Compassion for Parents Comes First00:36 — Meet Hunter Clark-Fields01:07 — What Is a “Good Human”?01:47 — Comfort in Your Own Skin02:32 — Parents Shape the Emotional Weather03:48 — Kids Learn Regulation by Watching Us05:10 — When a Parent’s Anxiety Derails a Child06:01 — Why Slowing Down Saves Time07:32 — Imperfect Parents Are Enough08:27 — Why Yelling Shuts Down Learning09:40 — Yelling Is a Nervous System Reaction10:22 — Training the Nervous System Over Time11:37 — Conan the Barbarian vs. Sherlock Holmes Brain12:44 — Why Raising Good Humans Resonated13:38 — Skill Breaks Down When We’re Activated15:28 — Mindfulness as a Parenting Foundation16:40 — Parenting Without Enough Support17:14 — Why Humans Were Never Meant to Parent Alone18:33 — Practice Changes the Brain19:35 — A Skillful Way to Express Anger20:29 — Anger Isn’t the Problem, Damage Is21:20 — You Can Always Begin Again22:11 — “I Didn’t Ruin My Child”23:53 — Repair Matters More Than Perfection25:54 — The Power of Apologizing to Kids27:31 — Two Kids, Two Parenting Eras28:22 — A More Relaxed Parent Changes Outcomes30:43 — A Father’s Escalator Dilemma34:05 — When Fear Gets Worse Instead of Better35:20 — Why Rewards and Bribes Backfire37:15 — Intrinsic Motivation Builds Character37:48 — Carrying Your Own Baggage as a Parent39:45 — Power vs. Influence in Parenting41:12 — The Messy Middle of Gentle Parenting42:28 — There Is No One-Size-Fits-All Approach43:50 — One Principle: Slow Down and Protect Childhood45:38 — Closing CreditsBooksRaising Good Humans — Hunter Clarke-Fields https://mindfulmamamentor.com/rgh-book-excerpt-1/PodcastMindful Mama Podcast — https://mindfulmamamentor.com/podcast/https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/mindful-mama-mentor-hunter-clarke-fields-supporting/id996079418?i=1000456553512Social Media:https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmamamentor/https://www.facebook.com/135776546585922/https://www.linkedin.com/in/mindfulmamaTraining / ProgramsMindful Parenting Training — Hunter Clarke-FieldsFramework MentionedThe Regulation → Response Parenting FrameworkHunter’s approach centers on a simple but powerful sequence:Regulate yourself first – calm the nervous system before reactingPause before responding – create space between trigger and reactionRespond skillfully – choose communication that teaches rather than shamesRepair when needed – reconnect and apologize after mistakes
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    46 分
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