But Life Was Good for Me!

How do ordinary people help a dictatorship take hold—and still believe they’re the good guys?

This week, Oldmate and Josh dig into They Thought They Were Free: The Germans, 1933–45 by Milton Mayer. Drawing on his conversations with ten former Nazi Party members, we explore the excuses, the everyday comforts and the small compromises that helped make the unthinkable feel normal.

Work still happened. Bills still needed paying. And when someone else was being targeted, there was always a reason to keep your head down.

Expect uncomfortable questions, questionable tangents and two blokes trying to understand how “I’m staying out of politics” becomes a political decision.

Would we have recognised what was happening—or just carried on because life was good for us?

📚 The book and further reading

They Thought They Were Free — Milton Mayer

Read the excerpt: “But Then It Was Too Late”

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The world remembers the day. How much do we know about everything that came before it?

Oldmate & Josh explore the road to September 11, drawing on Lawrence Wright’s The Looming Tower. From the rise of al-Qaeda to warnings that failed to become action, we follow a story of extremism, institutional failures and information that never reached the people who needed it.

We examine the FBI–CIA disconnect, the haunting story of investigator John O’Neill, and the difficult questions surrounding the official investigation. Then comes the aftermath: fear, war, political opportunity and consequences that still shape our lives.

Big questions, uncomfortable history and occasional reminders that putting “intelligence” in an organisation’s name is a bold commitment.

Who knew what? What could have been prevented? And how do we question powerful institutions without mistaking every unanswered question for proof of a conspiracy?

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