I’m sharing what it actually feels like to be in a creative season where nothing feels linear, my nervous system is sensitive, and I keep bumping up against the part of me that wants to throw in the towel.

If you’re someone who’s also sensitive, quietly rebellious, allergic to rigid structure, or just plain tired of pretending the creative process is clean, consistent, and “high vibe” all the time, then this one's a love letter for you.

I talk about:

• Coming out of a burnout wave and rebuilding trust with my own rhythm
• The energy rollercoaster of the past month and what’s helped regulate me
• The magic of co-regulating with people I trust and how momentum can be contagious
• Navigating rejection sensitivity and the fear that I’m “too much” or “too inconsistent” to be understood
• Why the mess almost always comes before the clarity
• My creative process as a neurodivergent mama who craves structure but also resists it deeply
• Letting ideas crumble and reconfigure, like building block towers with my toddler
• Learning not to run someone else’s race, and instead trusting my pace, even when it’s slow or weird or different
• Why I believe missed shots in business don’t mean anything about ME

If you’re in a tender season, stuck in the swirl of too many ideas, grieving a past offer that didn’t land, or questioning your pace, I hope this episode feels like a soft exhale.

You’re not behind. You’re just building something honest that probably looks more like web, instead of a ladder!

As always, I'd love to hear what stirs or lands for you in this conversation. Send me an unscripted voice note on IG (@nicolepasveer) and let me know!

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In a world full of nervous system hacks and performance-driven healing…

this is something different.

In this short episode, I’m sharing what actually happens inside The Reset Room — my free 15-minute Zoom drop-in designed to nourish your nervous system without pushing, fixing, or bypassing your body's innate wisdom

Because the truth is, most of us are over complicating our nervous system hygiene.

It gets to be simple.

In fact, it HAS to be more simple to be more sustainable and actually create long lasting transformation.

Your nervous system is craving it!

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I waited over a month for a date night and when it finally happened, I ended up soooo anxious and crying in the bathtub LOL

In this episode, I tell the whole story including how I ended the evening with a potent reminder about the power of curiosity

As well as:

✨ Why “doing all the right things” doesn’t always regulate your nervous system

✨ How birth and business both ask for deep trust

✨ What to do when you’re spiraling and your tools aren’t working

✨ The surprising role curiosity plays in soothing your system

This one’s tender, personal but I'm confident you'll find threads to resonate with!

As always, I want to hear from you, so don't be a stranger and connect with me on IG (@nicolepasveer)

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Mentioned in this episode:

Join The Reset Room

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