Everyone from all walks of life want to know the secret to love success. Connie Cruz, a relationship expert and coach knows, that first we must go within to answer the deeper questions of our soul. That listening to your higher self coupled with life experience will give you all the relationship advice you will ever need. As a psychic she can help you reach the inner parts of your soul and connect the inner dots so that, you don't ever need to rely heavily on others for romantic advice that's not that good anyway!

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The value of being in a relationship has been declining for a while now and in this episode we’re going to explore that and what we can do about it.

One problematic element of our society in general is radical feminism. Not that women aren’t allowed to be angry at men and the patriarchy, but radicalism doesn’t change anyone’s mind. It comes from a trauma response to not being heard.

Women, stop comparing yourselves to men. We are not the same. Being feminine isn’t weak - it’s actually very powerful.

In this episode we’ll talk about 3 major parts of coming back into your feminine and finding value in relationships again:

1. Accept your strengths and your genius, and live the role that you really want.
2. Once you get to know yourself and have more confidence in yourself, people will start to judge you and come at you but you can stand strong in who you are.
3. As a parent, it’s time to teach relationship roles, not gender roles.

This is about creating the love that you want. Erase what you think you know and start fresh here with us.

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Today’s topic is near and dear to our hearts: mind games. Nobody escapes them. The “3 Ways To Win Him Back” articles and advice are manipulation, a band-aid solution at best.

What’s important to figure out is the deeper root cause. What is getting in the way? What is causing you to sabotage and continue the same patterns?

Manipulation is often the quickest way to get what you want, like robbing a bank, but in the long term it won’t last. It becomes a game of who can defeat the other first, and that’s not the way to make a true connection. That’s a toxic spiral that feeds on itself. Keeping a “body count” is a power play to cover for a lack of self esteem.

How do you get out of this cycle? There’s no one thing that works for everybody, but what worked for Lawrence was regaining some self respect and pursuing happiness rather than status. For Connie, it was a realization that she was masking a lot of pain.

You can start to break the cycle by asking yourself some questions:

1. Am I happy? 
2. Why am I doing this?
3. Can I forgive myself for my mistakes in the past?

It takes a lot of strength to be vulnerable, but being completely authentic is the key to attracting relationships that make you happy.

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It’s easy to find someone claiming they “don’t need anybody” on social media. Often this comes as a trauma response to feeling powerless, by proclaiming your personal power and independence, effectively giving up on people.

There’s nothing wrong with being strong and independent, but there is a problem if you’re treating other people like they don’t matter because you’ve decided you don’t need anyone else. Being hurt in relationships can cause you to put up a wall that keeps everyone out. Being alone for a while then can lead to shallow relationships just out of loneliness, which results in more hurt.

The first thing to do to get yourself out of this cycle is to forgive yourself and show yourself compassion. Next, forgive others. Remember that you are not responsible for anyone else’s actions, just like they aren’t responsible for yours.

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We can learn a lot about a relationship based on how they argue. Conflict resolution skills, or lack of, can bring a couple closer together or break them apart. Being able to have the hard conversations requires vulnerability, which is hard for a lot of people.

If a couple gets stuck in a cycle of hurting each other, it takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to come back to the table and really reach a solution to the problem. 

People who are used to not getting their needs met are passive-aggressively asking to get their needs met. This has a weird energy and sounds like whining, so they get ignored, and their needs still don’t get met.

All of this comes down to how you were raised and your level of emotional intelligence. Being attuned to your partner is the sexiest love language.

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Today we’re going to talk about going through a spiritual journey in relationships. There’s a misconception that love is supposed to be a white picket fence, Stepford type perfect life. But do you want to be a modern woman, or a traditional woman? You can’t have both. 

If you want to attract a masculine partner, you need to be feminine. If you want a 50/50 balance, you need to find a partner who also wants that balance. A “boss babe” in her masculine power isn’t going to attract a masculine mate - magnets don’t work that way.

If you want to make the switch into your feminine in order to attract a masculine partner, the transition will get tough before it gets better, but if it’s what you want, it’ll be worth it.

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What have you learned from your past relationships? What is your bare minimum, and were you getting it? In this episode we’ll explore some minimums and what it means to get them.

• Are you being kind to one another, or at least neutral?
• Are your physical boundaries and preferences being respected?
• Are you being addressed with respect in your relationship? Do you feel heard?
• Once you’re past the “honeymoon” stage, is there consistency in how you and your partner show up for each other?
• Are plans getting followed through?
• Are you being considered in decision making?

We want to be mindful of who we were in the relationship. What part did you play at the end of that relationship? What are you going to do for your new one? 

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