Feeld is growing fast, but can the culture that made it valuable grow with it? In Polyam Living E007, Feeld Is Growing, Brandy Beckett looks at what happens when a platform built around polyamory, kink, queer identities and intentional connection starts attracting a much larger audience. The issue is not newcomers, monogamous people or curiosity. It is whether the culture of clear communication, boundaries and truth can survive mainstream growth. A bigger community can be a good thing, but only if the people who built the room can still recognize it when they walk inside.

How do younger adults actually feel about monogamy, polyamory and commitment? In Polyam Living E006, How Do Young People Feel About Polyamory?, Brandy Beckett looks at research showing that younger adults are more open to non monogamy than older generations, while many still say they want committed relationships. The episode looks at that tension without treating those ideas as opposites, asking what younger people actually want, how relationship expectations are changing, and whether our language around commitment is keeping up.

Host: Brandi

Your first night at a lifestyle club can feel intimidating long before anything actually happens. In Polyam Living E005, The First Time You Walk Into a Lifestyle Club, Noah walks through what a new guest can really expect, from the front door, membership rules, dress codes and tours to privacy, social spaces, consent and the conversation you should have before you arrive. The point is not to prove you belong or do everything in one night. It is to understand the space, ask questions, know your boundaries, and let the club show you what kind of place it really is.

Host : Noah

There is no single online front door into the poly community. Some apps are built around dating. Some are better for events. Some are really social networks where relationships happen around the edges. In Polyam Living E004, The Online World of Poly Connections, Noah walks through Feeld, OkCupid, Hinge, #Open, Plura, helloPOLY, Meetup, FetLife and SwingHub, looking at what each one actually does and where each may fit. The goal is not to find the best app. It is to find the right door for the kind of connection you are actually looking for.

Do dick pics work? Sometimes, but not as an introduction. Heather and Alonzo talk about what people actually look for in a profile, why unsolicited images usually kill the conversation, when asking first changes everything, and how respect, timing, and presentation determine whether a photo is welcomed or ignored.

Walking into a club or munch for the first time can feel like entering a room where everyone else already knows the rules. Heather and Alonzo break down how to approach people, read the room, connect with couples, contact the host, understand the venue, and enter a new community without making yourself or everyone around you uncomfortable.

What exactly happens at a munch? Usually, people eat, talk, laugh, and get to know the local community without the pressure of walking into a club or play event. In this episode of Polyam Living, Alonzo Banks explains what newcomers can expect, how to find the right gathering, and the basic rules around privacy, consent, and showing up respectfully.