Is it picky eating or a pediatric feeding disorder? Speech-language pathologist Ashlyn joins Lisa Pitel-Killah on the Human Optimization Podcast to discuss sensory feeding issues, autism, speech therapy, and how to better support children who struggle with food and communication.

Drawing on more than 20 years of clinical experience, Ashlyn explains how she approaches food aversion, why textures can make mealtimes challenging, and how feeding therapy can help children explore unfamiliar foods. She introduces food chaining and her "yum scale"—tools she uses to build flexibility around eating.

The conversation also explores neurodiversity-affirming autism support, meeting people where they are, and looking beyond standardized scores to recognize meaningful improvements in connection and quality of life.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Picky eating versus pediatric feeding disorders
• Sensory processing, food textures, and food aversion
• Feeding concerns such as gagging, food pocketing, and difficulty chewing
• Food chaining and gradual changes to familiar foods
• Connections between feeding and speech-language development
• Autism, scripting, and meaningful communication
• Mealtime routines and supporting families without adding parental guilt
• Barriers to therapy access and the gap between research and clinical practice

Whether you're a parent, caregiver, speech-language pathologist, or healthcare practitioner, this episode offers a thoughtful look at individualized support for feeding and communication across the lifespan.

Ashlyn also shares a free speech and language screening offer during the episode and explains how screening differs from a full evaluation.

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