Dr. Joli Hamilton, a relationship coach and research psychologist, discusses her sixteen-year personal journey and twenty-year expertise in non-monogamous relationships. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and managing jealousy, which she terms an "elephant in the room." Joli's doctoral research focused on the archetypal nature of jealousy in polyamorous relationships. She highlights the need for self-awareness, communication, and community support in navigating these complex dynamics.

Joli's "Year of Opening" program, which she co-leads with her husband, helps couples and individuals explore and develop their relationships through a year-long educational process. She also offers resources like the "Jealousy Roadmap" and her podcast, "Playing with Fire," to provide guidance and support.

Anyone should be able to rewrite their sexual script and story if they so desire. Lauren Rogers, a certified holistic sexuality educator, discusses her journey from a strict religious upbringing to becoming an empowered sexuality coach. She emphasizes the importance of rewriting one's sexual story and overcoming sex-negative beliefs. Lauren shares her method of helping clients reconnect with their pleasure through active imagination exercises and solo sex practices. She highlights the role of guilt and shame in sexual dissatisfaction and the need for compassion and curiosity in healing. Lauren also discusses the broader impact of individual sexual healing on communities and families, advocating for a holistic approach to sexual health.

Sarah Rose Bright and Graeme Waterfield, a couple of over seven years, discuss their approach to "making love" as a transformative practice for deeper intimacy and pleasure. Sarah, a love, sex, and intimacy coach, and Graeme, a tai chi and meditation teacher, emphasize the importance of conscious, mindful sex over performance-based intercourse.

They highlight the benefits of this approach, including better connection, pleasure, and overcoming issues like menopause-related pain. They suggest practices like self-pleasure, breathing exercises, and open communication to enhance sexual experiences. They also mention their upcoming retreats and online classes for couples to explore these techniques further.

Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, a licensed sex therapist and author, discusses the impact of sexual shame on intimacy and well-being. She highlights her book Shameless Parenting, which addresses raising shame-free, confident kids and healing parental shame. Dr. Tina explains how sexual shame begins in interpersonal relationships and is exacerbated by societal and cultural norms. She emphasizes the importance of medically accurate sex education, storytelling, and self-acceptance in healing. Dr. Tina also shares practical strategies like framing, naming, claiming, and aiming to create a new sexual legacy. She offers free resources like her Reclaiming Your Sexual Legacy worksheet and emailing her if you cannot afford her books to receive audiobook codes to make them accessible.

Susan Morgan Taylor, a somatic sex therapist, discusses her approach to helping couples navigate mismatched libidos and sexless marriages. She emphasizes the importance of removing orgasm as the goal and focusing on direct pleasure through noticing, naming, and negotiating sensations.

Susan shares her personal journey from a sexless marriage to discovering full-body orgasms and the transformative impact of embracing emotions. She highlights the significance of women taking responsibility for their own pleasure and the benefits of somatic sex therapy in fostering deeper connections. Susan offers resources like her monthly master class and eBook on her website, Pathway to Pleasure.

Intimacy is a dance that requires self-awareness, trust, and vulnerability. In this episode, Somatic Sex Educators Rahi Chun and Ariel Szabo guide us on a journey into deeper intimacy and connection for couples. They explore the importance of self-intimacy, self-trust, and self-attunement as the foundation for thriving relationships, and how childhood experiences and patterns can impact our adult sexual connections. Discover the concept of "extended states of pleasure" beyond orgasm, and learn practical tools like one-way touch to cultivate deeper communication and intimacy. Rahi and Ariel also share their insights on the connection between sexuality, sexual energy, and overall life force and power. Tune in to ignite your passion and create a more fulfilling and intimate relationship with yourself and your partner.

Faith Laux, a somatic sex and relationship coach from Asheville, North Carolina, discusses her journey into kink as a healing modality. Diagnosed with stage four colon cancer in 2022, she uses pleasure to thrive. Faith explains kink as being turned on by taboo, which can be non-sexual, and emphasizes the importance of communication and consent. She describes creating kinky rituals for personal growth, such as impact play for reclamation. Faith's program, Kink Curious, aims to normalize and explore kink. She highlights the transformative power of kink in fostering emotional and spiritual expansion.

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Amanda Biccum discusses the distinction between intimacy and sexuality, emphasizing that intimacy is rooted in emotional connection and presence, while sexuality is more physical and energetic. She highlights the importance of self-intimacy and the need for couples to have brave conversations to address their deeper longings and challenges. Amanda shares her experiences and insights from working with clients, noting that many relationships suffer from a lack of true intimacy, which can lead to disconnection and dissatisfaction.