Dating should be fun, exciting, and full of potential—but sometimes, we sabotage ourselves without even realizing it. Whether it’s texting too much, overanalyzing every interaction, or ignoring red flags, small missteps can add up and get in the way of building a real connection. And let’s be honest, dating can already be challenging enough—you don’t need to make it harder on yourself. The good news is most dating mistakes are completely avoidable. In this episode, we’re breaking down the most common pitfalls that can derail a great connection and how to steer clear of them. Whether you’re new to dating or looking to refine your approach, we’ve got you covered.

Website:www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating a man with kids is a completely different experience than dating someone without them. His priorities, schedule, and lifestyle will always revolve around his children, as they should. If you’re considering a relationship with a father, you need to manage your expectations and understand what comes with it—both the challenges and the rewards. In this episode, we’re breaking down everything you need to know before dating a man with kids. From understanding where you fit into his life to navigating potential complications with an ex, we’ll help you decide if this is the right path for you.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

We’ve all had that nightmare scenario—you run out for a quick errand in your worst sweats, messy hair, no makeup… and then boom—you run into your ex. Even worse? He’s with someone new, and you’re standing there looking like you just rolled out of bed. This episode is all about why looking presentable isn’t just about him—it’s about you. When you look good, you feel good, and that confidence changes how you carry yourself. Whether you’re running errands or heading to brunch, we’re talking about how to always feel put together, effortlessly stylish, and ready for whatever (or whoever) comes your way.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography