• Your Need to Control Everything Is Killing Your Leadership
    2026/08/24
    In this episode, Estelle reveals how this unconscious pattern creates a false ceiling on your leadership potential — leading to burnout, disengaged teams, and stalled projects. She shares the neuroscience behind why willpower alone rarely fixes micromanagement, introduces the transformative Havening technique for resetting your nervous system, and gives you three practical, actionable strategies to break the cycle: the "What, Not How" Rule, low-stakes delegation experiments, and the 24-Hour Buffer Rule. If you're ready to stop being the bottleneck and start leading with calm confidence, this episode is for you. 🎙️ Full episode ➡️ search for the Optimising Leader Brilliance Podcast. What You Will Learn 💡 Why micromanagement isn't a personality flaw — it's an unconscious saboteur pattern often rooted in childhood experiences, and recognising it is the first step to breaking free 💡 The three practical strategies to stop micromanaging today: the "What, Not How" delegation rule, low-stakes trust experiments, and the 24-hour intervention buffer that rewires your leadership instincts 💡 How neuroscience-based techniques like Havening can reset your nervous system and delink the emotional past that created your control patterns — so change becomes automatic, not another exhausting item on your to-do list Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Speaker Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction (01:30) Meet Your Host & Series Overview (02:59) The Microcontroller Saboteur (04:05) The Data & Statistics (07:35) The Root Cause (09:06) The Science of Behavior Change (14:14) Client Transformation Story (16:00) Next Steps & Coaching Options (19:02) Episode Wrap-Up 📱FOLLOW OR CONTACT: ⭐Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee or @EstelleReadCoach 🔧 ACCESS FREE RESOURCES & TOOLS: ⭐Want a summary of today’s learnings? Subscribe to Estelle Read’s blog, The Brilliant Leader’s Notebook, to get the key takeaways from every single episode: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r Plus, you'll get a free bonus 🎁: The Inner Brilliance · Outer Shine Workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress. Click here to subscribe and download: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r ⭐Find Out Which of the 7 Leadership Saboteurs is Holding You Back by Completing the Scorecard: https://estelle-read.scoreapp.com/ ⭐Download Estelle’s Free Journal & Self-Coaching Tool: https://mailchi.mp/dab4b2568b71/free-inner-brilliance-outer-shine-journal   ⭐Access Other Free Resources: ⁠https://estelleread.com/resources/⁠ ❤️ CAN YOU HELP? We bring this show to you for free. You can help us keep growing and going by taking 30 seconds to: 🔔 Subscribe or follow so you never miss an episode. 📨 Share the show with a friend. ✍️ Leave a review to help others find us. Thanks for your support! 🗓️ BOOK A 15 FREE DISCOVERY CALL: ⭐https://calendly.com/estelleatbeee/15-minute-discovery-call 🧠ESTELLE READ’S COACHING PROGRAMMES: ⬆️⁠The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL⁠: https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/ 🎇⁠The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE⁠: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/ 📓BUY ESTELLE READ’S BESTSELLING BOOK: ⁠Inner Brilliance · Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Inner-Brilliance-Outer-Shine-Workaholism/dp/1789048036/ ⁠ 🎧LISTEN OR WATCH ON ALTERNATIVE PLATFORMS📺 ⭐Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://pod.link/1515648162 ⭐Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts   ⚠️ DICLAIMER This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice. Don’t suffer alone ❤️.
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  • You Don't Solve Anxiety — Here's What You Do Instead
    2026/08/17
    In this episode of Optimising Leader Brilliance, Estelle Read sits down with author and mental health advocate Bryan Sachetta to unpack high-functioning anxiety — the hidden struggle that drives so many ambitious leaders to appear confident and in control while internally battling stress, perfectionism, and relentless overthinking. Bryan, author of the Get Out of Your Head book series, reveals why the most common advice around anxiety is wrong, and what actually works to build a healthier relationship with fear without sacrificing your edge. If you're a high achiever who's tired of using busyness as a shield and ready to lead with calm confidence, this conversation is your starting point. What You Will Learn 💡 Why high-functioning anxiety is especially common in leaders and high achievers — and why trying to "solve" it makes it worse 💡 How to spot the coping strategies that once served you but are now quietly driving overworking and perfectionism — and what to do instead 💡 Three practical, immediate habits for managing anxiety in the workplace — from moving your body to doing a quarterly stress inventory to giving yourself permission to do nothing Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Speaker Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction (01:22) Welcome & What Is High-Functioning Anxiety? (02:13) Interview Begins (10:43) Unpacking the Patterns – Behavioural Coping Strategies (15:20) A New Season of Anxiety – When It Gets Broader & More Nebulous (21:35) Keeping Up With Everything – Where Does It Come From? (28:21) Using Anxiety as a Gateway to Intimacy & Connection (37:36) Tools & Techniques – What Actually Helps (40:16) Early Influences – Writing, Music & Movement (42:15) Brian's Books (44:19) Question from the Previous Guest – Coping With Change & Uncertainty (46:25) Question for the Next Guest (47:17) Closing Tips & Words of Compassion (52:48) Pause, Reflect & Act – Mini Coaching Practice ⭐Download My Free Journal & Self-Coaching Tool: https://mailchi.mp/dab4b2568b71/free-inner-brilliance-outer-shine-journal ⭐Follow or Contact Brian Sachetta Instagram: @getoutofyourhead Facebook: @getoutofyourheadbooks Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/brian-sachetta ⭐Follow Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee   ⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call: ⁠https://estelleread.com/resources/⁠   ⭐Estelle Read’s Coaching Programmes: ⬆️⁠The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL⁠ 🎇⁠The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE⁠   ⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book: ⁠Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress ⁠   ⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog: ⁠Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up. ⁠ ⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️. ⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube: 🎧Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ 📺Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⭐Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
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  • Laura's Triple A Framework: Acceptance, Accountability, Authenticity
    2026/08/10
    In this powerful episode of Optimising Leader Brilliance, Estelle Read sits down with mental health speaker and former HR professional Laura Iles to explore what it really takes to move from surviving to thriving. Laura shares her personal journey through fibromyalgia, complex PTSD, and ADHD — and introduces her Triple A framework (Acceptance, Accountability, Authenticity) as a practical roadmap for leaders navigating chronic illness, trauma, and burnout. Packed with honest insight on workplace mental health, trauma-informed leadership, and nervous system regulation, this conversation challenges the myth that personal and professional lives stay neatly separate — and offers a compassionate, actionable path toward healing out loud, leading with empathy, and reclaiming your identity when it's been stripped away.What You Will Learn 💡 The Triple A System unpacked — how Acceptance, Accountability, and Authenticity form a step-by-step framework for shifting from survival mode into genuine thriving, and why skipping any stage keeps you stuck 💡 Practical energy-management strategies Laura uses to work with her body instead of against it 💡 How to lead through mental health conversations without getting it wrong — Laura's three tips for leaders: listen to understand (not to respond), validate feelings without fixing, and offer reassurance without shame — so your team feels safe, seen, and supported Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Speaker Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction (01:14) Welcome & What to Expect (02:29) Episode Overview & Content Warning (02:29) Interview – Meet Laura Iles (16:32) Laura's Story – Living with Chronic Illness, Trauma & Burnout (1:18:20) Pause, Reflect & Act – Mini Coaching Practice (1:18:51) Coaching Questions with Laura Iles ⚠️ Content Warning This episode contains open and honest discussions about childhood sexual abuse, suicide ideation, complex trauma, and chronic illness. These topics are discussed with care and intention, but please look after yourself as you listen. If anything in this episode brings up difficult feelings for you, support is available: Samaritans — Call 116 123 (free, 24/7, UK & Ireland) NAPAC (National Association for People Abused in Childhood) — 0808 801 0331 MIND — 0300 123 3393 | mind.org.uk Crisis Text Line — Text SHOUT to 85258 ⭐Download My Free Journal & Self-Coaching Tool: https://mailchi.mp/dab4b2568b71/free-inner-brilliance-outer-shine-journal ⭐Follow or Contact Laura Iles: IG: @Surviving2Thriving_Laurailes FB: '@Surviving2Thriving Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-iles-4767981a/ ⭐Follow Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee   ⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call: ⁠https://estelleread.com/resources/⁠   ⭐Estelle Read’s Coaching Programmes: ⬆️⁠The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL⁠ 🎇⁠The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE⁠   ⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book: ⁠Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress ⁠   ⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog: ⁠Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up. ⁠ ⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️. ⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube: 🎧Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ 📺Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⭐Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
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  • Why Smart Leaders Can't Decide
    2026/08/03
    What if the biggest threat to your strategy isn't a lack of data or intelligence — but your own brain? In this episode of Optimising Leader Brilliance, I sit down with Marja Fox — ex-McKinsey consultant, PhD chemist, and founder of Marja Fox Consulting — to uncover the evolutionary wiring that quietly sabotages executive decision-making. Known as the "executive team whisperer," Marja brings behavioural economics out of the textbook and into the boardroom, revealing why leaders default to loss aversion, groupthink, and short-term thinking — and how to break free. If you've ever felt stuck in circular strategic conversations or paralysed by the fear of being wrong, this conversation will transform how you lead with clarity, confidence, and decisive action. A must-listen for senior leaders ready to upgrade their strategic thinking and leadership mindset. What You Will Learn: 💡 Why your brain's evolutionary shortcuts — like loss aversion and fear of ostracisation — are the hidden derailers of smart strategic decisions, and how to recognise them in real time 💡 The practical facilitation techniques Marja Fox uses to move executive teams from ego wars and endless debate to decisions that actually stick 💡 How to apply a simple stakeholder analysis to uncover the human dynamics behind any "stuck" business problem — and why doing nothing is often the most dangerous decision of all Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Speaker Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction (00:47) Welcome to Optimising Leader Brilliance (01:13) Episode Overview – Three Light Bulb Moments (02:24) Meet Marja Fox – The Story Behind Her Name (06:54) Marja's Average Day & Non-Negotiable Routine (16:25) How Marja Got Here – From Chemistry to Consulting (24:32) The Problems Marja Helps Clients Solve (41:25) Designing Conversations That Combat Decision-Making Biases (56:30) Pause, Reflect & Act – Mini Coaching Practice ⭐Download My Free Journal & Self-Coaching Tool: https://mailchi.mp/dab4b2568b71/free-inner-brilliance-outer-shine-journal ⭐Follow or Contact Marja Fox: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marjafox/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@marjafox ⭐Follow Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee   ⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call: ⁠https://estelleread.com/resources/⁠   ⭐Estelle Read’s Coaching Programmes: ⬆️⁠The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL⁠ 🎇⁠The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE⁠   ⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book: ⁠Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress ⁠   ⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog: ⁠Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up. ⁠ ⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️. ⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube: 🎧Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ 📺Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⭐Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
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    59 分
  • Most Leaders Focus on the Wrong Skills. Here's What Actually Matters.
    2026/07/27
    In this inspiring episode of Optimising Leader Brilliance, leadership coach Estelle Read sits down with Lawrence Armstrong, artist, architect, bestselling author, and seasoned CEO, to explore whole-brain leadership. Lawrence shares his journey from building a company through recession and fear to mastering a creative, analytical, and balanced leadership style. Learn how cultivating both sides of your brain can fuel business growth, inspire your team, and secure your legacy. Discover practical strategies for developing your “number two,” delegating effectively, and blending creativity with strategic execution to lead your industry. What You Will Learn:💡 How embracing whole-brain leadership—balancing creative vision with analytical rigor—drives sustainable growth and innovation 💡 The crucial role of developing a reliable “number two” to ensure business continuity and leadership longevity 💡 Practical insights from Lawrence’s career and creative pursuits to inspire your own leadership journey and foster a resilient, forward-thinking team Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Speaker Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction(00:53) Welcome & Host Introduction(01:19) Guest Introduction(01:56) Lawrence's Routine & Non-Negotiables(03:20) How Work-Life Imbalance Cost Him His Health(07:12) What Is Whole Brain Leadership?(13:31) Practical Examples: Inspiring Strategy from Creativity(23:36) From Ohio to Architect, Artist & Author(35:04) The Challenge Behind the Book: Surviving a Recession (38:19) Lawrence's Framework for Growth & Succession (44:26) Key Takeaways & Final Advice (44:27) Developing Your Number Two — Overcoming Resistance (47:11) Pause, Reflect & Act — Mini Coaching Practice📱FOLLOW OR CONTACT: ⭐ Lawrence Armstrong: larmstrong@waremalcomb.com | @lawrencerarmstrong⭐Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee or @EstelleReadCoach🔧 ACCESS FREE RESOURCES & TOOLS:⭐Want a summary of today’s learnings?Subscribe to Estelle Read’s blog, The Brilliant Leader’s Notebook, to get the key takeaways from every single episode: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3rPlus, you'll get a free bonus 🎁: The Inner Brilliance · Outer Shine Workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress. Click here to subscribe and download: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r⭐Find Out Which of the 7 Leadership Saboteurs is Holding You Back by Completing the Scorecard:https://estelle-read.scoreapp.com/ ⭐Download Estelle’s Free Journal & Self-Coaching Tool: https://mailchi.mp/dab4b2568b71/free-inner-brilliance-outer-shine-journal⭐Access Other Free Resources: ⁠https://estelleread.com/resources/⁠ ❤️ CAN YOU HELP? We bring this show to you for free. You can help us keep growing and going by taking 30 seconds to: 🔔 Subscribe or follow so you never miss an episode. 📨 Share the show with a friend. ✍️ Leave a review to help others find us. Thanks for your support! 🗓️ BOOK A 15 FREE DISCOVERY CALL: ⭐https://calendly.com/estelleatbeee/15-minute-discovery-call  🧠ESTELLE READ’S COACHING PROGRAMMES: ⬆️⁠The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL⁠: https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/ 🎇⁠The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE⁠: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/  📓BUY ESTELLE READ’S BESTSELLING BOOK: ⁠Inner Brilliance · Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Inner-Brilliance-Outer-Shine-Workaholism/dp/1789048036/ ⁠ 🎧LISTEN OR WATCH ON ALTERNATIVE PLATFORMS📺 ⭐Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://pod.link/1515648162 ⭐Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⚠️ DICLAIMER This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice. Don’t suffer alone ❤️.
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  • Are You 'Shoulders Up' or 'Shoulders Down'? The Embodiment Question Every Leader Needs
    2026/07/20
    In this heartfelt episode of Optimising Leader Brilliance, embodiment coach Maddie Brenner-Roach and host Estelle Read explore the vital connection between body awareness and leadership resilience. Discover how tuning into your body’s signals—like tension in the shoulders or tightness in the chest—can reveal hidden stress and guide you toward deeper self-trust. Maddie shares her transformative Inner Authority Framework to help leaders move from reactive habits to empowered, embodied decision-making. If you feel overwhelmed, close to burnout, or disconnected from yourself, this episode offers practical insights and reflective tools to reconnect with your true inner authority and step confidently into your leadership role. What You Will Learn: 💡 How to listen to your body’s stress signals and transform unconscious avoidance into conscious awareness 💡 The power of embodied leadership: making aligned decisions with a full-body yes or no, not just a mental yes 💡 Practical steps to build self-trust and shift from proving your worth to embracing your authentic, empowered self Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Speaker Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction (00:58) Welcome & Show Introduction (01:23) Tribute to Asterios Drossos (03:04) Guest Introduction – Maddie Brenner-Roach (04:02) Interview Begins – What is an Embodiment Coach? (17:40) Subscribe Prompt (excluded) (18:15) Inner Authority Framework & Identity Shifts (52:03) CEO of Yourself & Embodied Yes/No (53:11) Three Actionable Tips for Leaders (55:35) Pause, Reflect & Act – Mini Coaching Practice ⭐Download My Free Journal & Self-Coaching Tool: https://mailchi.mp/dab4b2568b71/free-inner-brilliance-outer-shine-journal ⭐Follow or Contact Maddie Brenner-Roach: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/journeyoncoach/ Instagram and Youtube: @journeyoncoach ⭐Follow Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee   ⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call: ⁠https://estelleread.com/resources/⁠   ⭐Estelle Read’s Coaching Programmes: ⬆️⁠The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL⁠ 🎇⁠The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE⁠   ⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book: ⁠Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress ⁠   ⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog: ⁠Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up. ⁠ ⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️. ⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube: 🎧Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ 📺Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⭐Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
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  • Quick Science-Backed Stress Hacks to Reset Your Hormones and Calm Your Mind
    2026/07/13
    In this episode of Optimising Leader Brilliance, leadership coach Estelle Read dives into science-backed, practical strategies to manage stress and reclaim control over your state of mind. Discover how shifting your inner dialogue can rewire your mindset, how simple changes in your body posture can instantly reduce stress hormones and boost confidence, and how everyday habits—from feeding birds to enjoying dark chocolate—can hack your brain’s neurochemicals to elevate wellbeing. Packed with engaging exercises and reflective coaching prompts, this episode guides you to empty your stress bucket and cultivate calm, confident leadership. What You Will Learn: 💡 How to transform your inner critic into an empowering inner captain for a positive mental shift 💡 Simple body posture techniques that decrease cortisol (stress hormone) and increase confidence hormone testosterone 💡 Everyday habits and activities that naturally boost dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins to lift your mood and resilience Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Speaker Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction (02:25) About Optimising Leader Brilliance (02:51) The Stress Bucket — Understanding Your Stress (06:18) Mind, Body & State of Mind: The Factory Model (13:17) How Language & Inner Dialogue Rewire Your Mindset (16:53) From Inner Critic to Inner Captain (25:21) How Your Body Language Changes Your Hormones in Seconds (28:14) Hack Your Neurochemicals: Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin & Endorphins (34:41) Summary & Key Takeaways (36:02) The SHINE Resilient Leader Programme (36:41) Resources & Next Steps (37:45) Pause, Reflect & Act — Mini Coaching Practice ⭐Download My Free Journal & Self-Coaching Tool: https://mailchi.mp/dab4b2568b71/free-inner-brilliance-outer-shine-journal ⭐Follow Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee   ⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call: ⁠https://estelleread.com/resources/⁠   ⭐Estelle Read’s Coaching Programmes: ⬆️⁠The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL⁠ 🎇⁠The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE⁠   ⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book: ⁠Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress ⁠   ⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog: ⁠Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up. ⁠ ⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️. ⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube: 🎧Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ 📺Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⭐Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
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  • The Stress Hack That Works Even If You Don't Believe It
    2026/07/06
    In this episode of Optimising Leader Brilliance, leadership coach Estelle Read unpacks the essential final piece of personal effectiveness: stress management. Discover what stress really is by understanding your nervous system’s gas and brake model, uncover hidden childhood triggers fueling your stress, and explore DISC-based stress triggers tailored to your personality type. Delve into the five types of imposter syndrome driving overwhelm and burnout, and experience the transformative psychosensory technique called Havening—a powerful tool that helped Estelle recover from chronic fatigue and ME by rewiring stress responses. Packed with practical insights, reflective coaching prompts, and free resources, this episode equips you to break free from stress patterns and reclaim calm, confident leadership. What You Will Learn: 💡 How to identify your unique stress triggers—both external pressures and deep-rooted internal patterns shaped by childhood 💡 The connection between imposter syndrome types and chronic overwhelm, with strategies to break the cycle 💡 Step-by-step introduction to Havening, a neuroscience-backed technique to rewire stress responses and heal emotional triggers Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Speaker Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction (03:24) Welcome & Module Overview (04:20) What Is Stress? — Definitions & The Gas or Brake Model (08:42) Fight or Flight: The Sympathetic Nervous System (09:47) The Stress Bucket & Rest and Digest (10:08) The Human Function Curve & Burnout (11:23) The ABC Model of Stress (Dr. Albert Ellis) (14:36) External & Internal Stress Triggers (17:21) DISC-Based Stress Triggers (20:41) Reflection Activity: Identifying Your Stress Triggers (22:35) Section 2: Introduction to Havening (26:41) Imposter Syndrome Types & Their Connection to Stress (32:26) Why Change Is Challenging: The Autopilot Mind (38:25) The Neuroscience of Havening (43:28) Havening Live Practice (7-Minute Session) (53:41) Pause, Reflect & Act — Mini Coaching Practice ⭐ Access the Time Generator and save 500 + minutes a week here: https://mailchi.mp/beee.company/time-generator ⭐Download My Free Journal & Self-Coaching Tool: https://mailchi.mp/dab4b2568b71/free-inner-brilliance-outer-shine-journal ⭐Follow Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee   ⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call: ⁠https://estelleread.com/resources/⁠   ⭐Estelle Read’s Coaching Programmes: ⬆️⁠The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL⁠ 🎇⁠The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE⁠   ⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book: ⁠Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress ⁠   ⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog: ⁠Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up. ⁠ ⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️. ⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube: 🎧Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: https://estelleread.com/podcast/ 📺Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⭐Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
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    59 分