Why does everybody else get our best while the people closest to us get whatever is left?

We love our families. But sometimes they get our shortest answers, our sharpest tone, and words we wish we could take back.

In Week 3 of It Starts at Home, Pastor Clint explores how our words shape our relationships and what they reveal about our hearts. Through Scripture and practical examples, discover how to offer encouragement, apologize without excuses, and help the people you love see what God is growing in them.

Whether you’re married, single, raising kids, or living alone, this message will help you take a step toward healthier conversations.

You can’t unsay yesterday’s words. But with Jesus, you can begin changing what comes out of your mouth today.

Scriptures: Proverbs 18:21; Luke 6:45; Ephesians 4:29; James 3:9–10.

Oasis Church | Reaching People. Connecting Lives.

You love your spouse. So why does figuring out life together get so complicated?

In the final week of It Starts at Home, Pastors Clint and Stephanie Lamberth share funny stories, honest lessons, and biblical wisdom about why marriage exposes the places where we still need to grow. From communication and expectations to selfishness and commitment, discover how the Holy Spirit can help you see your spouse differently, change the way you speak, and build a stronger marriage—starting with what you do today.

Why do we fight with the people we love most? When things aren’t right with your spouse, your kids, or your family, it’s hard to enjoy much of anything else.

In week 2 of “It Starts at Home,” Pastor Clint explores what the book of James teaches about handling conflict and building healthier relationships. From pride and control to money and unmet expectations, we look at what steals our peace and how humility, dependence on God, generosity, and prayer can change the way we respond.

You can’t control every person in your home. But you can choose what you bring into the room.

Turn down the conflict. Turn up the humility.

Scripture: James 3–5

We've all felt the sting of not making the cut. But what if the team you most want to be on has already chosen you — stains and all?

This week on Tailgate Weekend, we look at one of the most hated men in the Bible and what happened when Jesus stopped in front of his tree and called his name. Spoiler: it changes everything.

Who's actually running your home right now? Not who should be. Who actually is?

For most of us, it isn't a person. It's the schedule. The stress. The bills. The phone that buzzes 97 times before dinner. Nobody decides to let anxiety run their household. But when you don't choose who's in charge, something else volunteers for the job.

In Week 1 of It Starts at Home, Pastor Clint looks at Psalm 127 and Joshua 24 and asks a simple question: who's the general contractor of your life? You can build a home, a career, and a family without God at the center, and it'll look fine. It just won't hold what you need it to hold.

And before Joshua could say "as for me and my house," he had to settle the "as for me" part. You are the first home God wants to lead.

This series isn't only for married couples with kids. Single, divorced, widowed, empty nest, blended family, or just you and a couch: it's for you.

🔑 Three questions to sit with this week:

1. Who or what is actually in charge of my home right now?
2. Have I settled the "as for me" part?
3. What would it look like to hand God the keys this week?

📖 Psalm 127:1 · Joshua 24:14–15

📍 Join us Sundays at 10 AM, 197 Imperial Blvd, Hendersonville, TN

📱 Instagram & Facebook: @oasistn.church

Oasis Church | Reaching People. Connecting Lives.

There are seeds in Death Valley that have been alive for decades — everything they need to bloom is already inside them. They're just not in a position to grow. And a lot of us are living our faith the exact same way: close to it, around it, even showing up to church… but never actually planted.

In "Planted to Produce," Pastor Clint Lamberth walks through 1 Kings 5 and Psalm 92 to make one thing clear: the cedar God builds His house with is the same cedar you become when you get planted. Being present isn't the same as being planted — and only one of them ever grows anything.

If you've ever felt stuck, dry, or like you're just going through the motions, this message is for you.

What actually happens when you finally deal with the thing you've been carrying?

Three people. Three completely different stories. One thing in common — they all got honest about something they'd been hiding, and it changed everything.

In this conversation, you'll hear from a guy who signed up expecting nothing and walked away seeing his life differently. A man who almost let shame keep him out of the room, and found a group of guys who were carrying the same weight he was. And a woman who thought she'd already dealt with her past, until she realized it was just buried deeper than she knew.

This isn't a highlight reel. It's a real conversation about what it actually costs to forgive somebody, what it feels like to finally say the thing you've never said out loud, and what's different on the other side.

If you've ever wondered whether real change is actually possible, or if you're just supposed to keep managing whatever you're carrying for the rest of your life, this one's for you.

You can be completely functional and still not be free.

SIGN UP FOR FREEDOM HERE https://oasistn.church/freedom

You can go to work, raise your family, show up every week... and still have something quietly running the show underneath all of it.

In week 3 of the Freedom series, Stephanie walks through the story of King Saul, a man who ignored some small, easy-to-miss insecurities until those same insecurities were the ones making his decisions for him. What starts as a little fear or a little compromise doesn't stay little. Left alone, it turns into a leash, and whatever's on the other end of it starts deciding where you go.

In this one, you'll hear:

• Why chains almost never look dangerous when they start
• The difference between being functional and being free
• How undealt-with stuff in you eventually starts affecting the people around you
• Why admitting you're wrong isn't the same as actually surrendering it

If you've ever wondered what's really steering some of your decisions, this one's worth the watch.

🎧 New episodes every week

📍 Oasis Church | www.oasistn.church