Dating well isn’t about rushing to the altar...it’s about walking with wisdom.

In a world that constantly asks, “So when are y’all getting married?” this conversation is for anyone who’s learning that healthy relationships cannot be forced, controlled, or rushed.

In this episode, we’re talking about:

✨ Why dating is for discernment, not deadlines

✨ The danger of outside pressure and relationship timelines

✨ How to allow God to be the ultimate matchmaker

✨ Why taking your time isn’t wasting your time

✨ How to evaluate fruit over feelings

✨ Practical ways to D.A.T.E. well:

D — Discern, don’t drift

A — Allow God to lead

T — Take your time

E — Evaluate fruit, not feelings

Whether you’re single, dating, waiting, or supporting someone else’s relationship—this conversation is a reminder that God sees what people don’t.

Stop rushing. Stop comparing. Stop forcing.

Trust God’s timing. Build wisely. Love intentionally.

💛 Comment below: What does dating well mean to you?

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As Christian women, we're called to date with wisdom, not just emotions. Discernment is more than spotting red flags—it's learning to recognize God's leading, evaluate character, and make decisions that honor Him.

In this episode, we'll discuss:

✨ What biblical discernment really is

✨ Why chemistry is not the same as compatibility

✨ How to recognize godly character and healthy fruit

✨ Questions every Christian woman should ask while dating

✨ How to hear God's voice above emotions, opinions, and outside pressure

God doesn't want you to live in fear, but He also doesn't want you to ignore wisdom. Healthy relationships are built on truth, character, and God's guidance—not pressure, loneliness, or feelings alone.

Key Scripture:

📖 1 John 4:1 – "Dear friends, do not believe everyone who claims to speak by the Spirit. You must test them to see if the spirit they have comes from God." (NLT)

Whether you're single, dating, or preparing for a future relationship, this conversation will encourage you to slow down, seek God's wisdom, and trust His timing.

💛 If this episode encouraged you, don't forget to like, subscribe, and share it with another woman who is seeking to honor God in her relationships.

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👭 Let's talk about friendship... And not just any type of friendship but how we may be misapplying what burdens and loads are.

God and create us to be alone. But he also didn't create us to carry what's not ours. There's a difference between carrying a burden for someone and carrying loads for someone. One is a accountability that God has given us, the other is a responsibility that he's given the person that carries the load.

Join me as we dive into Galatians 6:2, 5 to understand clearly what our responsibility as a friend is

Let's also talk about growing up and not expecting everyone to be your friend.

Let's talk seasonal friendship... and being okay with it!

#boundaries #bible #biblestudy friendship

struggling? listen up!

The enemy is not playing fair—and if we’re honest, he’s been getting a little too comfortable.

In this Wisdom Wednesday episode, we’re not just talking about what’s happening… we’re responding the way believers are supposed to.

We pray.

This is a powerful, intentional time of prayer covering:

👉🏾Believers across the world

👉🏾The Church and its strength

👉🏾Our minds and mental battles

👉🏾Our families and everything connected to us

Because the truth is—spiritual warfare is real.

The attacks are subtle, consistent, and sometimes overwhelming.

But we are not powerless.

When the enemy tries to play with your peace, your purpose, or your identity…

you don’t panic.

You pray.

This episode is for the believer who feels the pressure, sees the attacks, and knows it’s time to go deeper—not just in words, but in authority.

👉🏾 Press play.

👉🏾 Pray with me.

👉🏾 Take your power back.

#WisdomWednesday #PrayerChangesThings #SpiritualWarfare #PrayWithoutCeasing #FaithOverFear #ChristianWomen #GodShapedWoman #TakeAuthority #NotYourAverageChurchGirl

Today we're going to talk about growing and how growth helps you to be transformed. we're not talking about modification we're talking about transformation... we're not talking about becoming a better version of ourself we're talking about actually walking in the full transformation of Jesus Christ and actually becoming the woman God created us to be. let's get into it

What if the life you built isn’t the life God designed?

In this Wisdom Wednesday episode, we’re diving into John 2:19–21 and Romans 12:2 to talk about something many of us avoid:

letting God tear down what we worked so hard to build.

Our titles.

Our plans.

Our relationships.

Our version of success.

Sometimes the very things we’re proud of are the things God wants to rebuild.

Jesus said, “Destroy this temple, and in three days I will raise it up.” What if God is trying to rebuild areas of your heart, mindset, identity, and direction — but you’re still clinging to the old structure

Transformation requires surrender. Renewal requires release.

In this episode, we talk about:

Why God rebuilds from the inside out

How leaning on our own understanding keeps us stuck

What it really means to be transformed by the renewing of your mind

And the courage it takes to let God dismantle what He didn’t design

Are you willing to let Him tear it down so He can rebuild it right?

This isn’t about losing your life — it’s about finally living the one He authored.

Welcome to Not Your Average Church Girl Podcast — the place where real faith meets real life. This is for the woman who loves God but is also navigating relationships, healing, purpose, and those quiet seasons where it feels like heaven has gone silent.

Here, we keep it honest. We talk about the moments when life slows down, when you feel stuck, or when you can’t hear God as clearly as you want to. Through this 10-minute devotional you’ll learn how to recognize God in every season — even your “winter.”

Just like animals enter hibernation to rest and recharge, you’ll discover how God sometimes places us in spiritual rest so He can strengthen us, prepare us, and grow us for what’s coming next. This podcast is your reminder that silence isn’t punishment — it’s preparation