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  • Loving Heated Rivalry A Totally Normal Amount

    Loving Heated Rivalry A Totally Normal Amount
    2026/02/26

    This week, writer Emily Gould joins Quinn and Claire to discuss her obsession with Heated Rivalry (it's about hockey, primarily), the aging cliff at 44, ruining everything you used to find fun by professionalizing it, and parenting the kid that's exactly like you.

    Also discussed: food parties, advice columns, Julia Roberts, and the Kinsey Scale.

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    2. Read Emily's "Lure of Divorce" article https://www.thecut.com/article/marriage-divorce-should-i-leave-my-husband-emily-gould.html

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  • The Movies That Raised Us (Wouldn't Be Made Now)

    The Movies That Raised Us (Wouldn't Be Made Now)
    2026/02/19

    This week, we have Meghan Keane Graham and Mark Graham on the show to chat about their podcast, Back In My Day, where they watch movies from when they were 12 and force their kids (ages 12 and 9) to discuss them. We discuss: movies that don't hold up, what to do when your kids hate a movie that was very formative for you, when to introduce your kids to John Hughes movies, springing on your kids that they have to do skating lessons (at bedtime, perfect), and how Billy Madison peeing his pants is actually great parenting advice.

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    6. Produced and edited by Willow Beck
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  • RuPaul Fracks

    RuPaul Fracks
    2026/02/12

    This week we're talking about the delicate art of making everything toxic for your children (Whole Foods? Ruined. Florida? The worst. Every public figure? Probably a Nazi.), how to tell kids bad news on their level ("Grandma is cooked"), and whether you're still a trad wife if you do all the trad wife things but hate it.

    Also: the polar vortex, Apollo 13 family rankings, and our ability to be a bummer about anything.

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    1. How to tell kids bad news on their level Thread: https://www.threads.com/@dave5150scotsman/post/DT2dxztEQME
    2. Millennial Final Destination meme: https://www.instagram.com/p/DSLbXJniezE/
    3. Countertop microwave/toaster/air fryer combo: https://www.breville.com/en-us/product/bov900
    4. World War II books: Agent Zo by Claire Mulley, Motherland: A Feminist History of Modern Russia by Julia Ioffe, The Fall of Berlin by Antony Beevor, The Splendid and the Vile by Erik Larson, Rick Atkinson's WWII trilogy

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  • Cat People Don't Believe In Cat Allergies

    Cat People Don't Believe In Cat Allergies
    2026/02/05

    This week it's just Quinn and Claire on the pod, crashing out over academic probation (which is actually kind of a relief?), school surveillance that catches kids Googling inappropriate things (it was obviously just a prank, dad), and the theoretical question: who would you get in a suicide capsule with? Also discussed: cat allergies are real despite what cat people tell you, being in the sandwich generation, and our favorite Spice Girls.

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  • Maybe Having Another Kid Would Break Us

    Maybe Having Another Kid Would Break Us
    2026/01/29

    This week we have fiction writer and mom to one amazing 10-year-old, Joy Netanya Thompson, on the pod to discuss why she chose to stick with having just one kid. Joy gets real about postpartum depression, the decision to stop at one when she never imagined she'd only have one child, and why people need to stop asking invasive questions about family size. Also: January birthdays are hell, boys are eternally and confidently dumb, and why siblings don't guarantee friendship or support

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    1 時間 13 分
  • Babies Sh*tting At A Funeral

    Babies Sh*tting At A Funeral
    2026/01/22

    This week, we have registered dietitian and death doula, Deanna Rondero, on the pod to chat about food insecurity, death cafes, and how grief intersects with everything. Also: losing it over mac and cheese, the new food pyramid nobody asked for, and why there's no perfect way to show up at a funeral (but you should anyway. And bringing a lasagna doesn't hurt either.)

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    1. Connect with Deanna and learn more about her work at nourishedtransitions.com
    2. Read about the Division of Responsibility by Ellyn Satter
    3. Statements from the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics on the new US Dietary Guidelines
    4. Learn more about death doulas https://inelda.org/
    5. Train to become a death doula https://goingwithgrace.com/
    6. Learn about death cafe's at deathcafe.com
    7. Clip of Conan O'brien and Will Arnett discussing death and grief https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5GM10HdXvQ
    8. Rick Riordan Imprint books https://rickriordan.com/rick-riordan-presents/
    9. Get involved with Lasagna Love https://lasagnalove.org/

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    1 時間 13 分
  • What's The New Fresh Hell In Public Health?

    What's The New Fresh Hell In Public Health?
    2025/12/11

    This week, we have another guest! Dr. Devika Bhushan, a pediatrician, public health leader, former acting Surgeon General in California, and mom, chats with Quinn and Claire about the breastfeeding data nobody tells you about, why sleep protection is literally life-saving for some moms, vaccine hesitancy, raw milk, and all the other health & wellness misinformation swirling around the news cycle.

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    • Read Devika's Slate article https://slate.com/technology/2024/02/mental-health-breastfeeding-formula-bipolar.html
    • Get more of Devika's sleep paraphernalia https://askdrdevikab.substack.com/p/lets-sleep-better-by-capturing-darkness?utm_source=publication-search
    • Blue light blocking glasses https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000USRG90/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
    • Sleep mask https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00M9BC1M8/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1
    • Ear plugs https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JXYH042/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
    • Subscribe to Devika's Substack https://askdrdevikab.substack.com/about
    • Follow Devika on Instagram, TikTok, and X @drdevikab

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  • I Had My Petty Boots On (And I Liked It)

    I Had My Petty Boots On (And I Liked It)
    2025/12/04

    This week, we have author and journalist Nefertiti Austin on the show to talk about her new book She's Just Spirited: Parenting a Neurodivergent Child and The Diagnosis that Changes Everything. Nefertiti gets real about raising a daughter with ADHD, why ADHD in girls often gets overlooked, glass children, mean girls in the fourth grade, 4:30 AM Roblox drops, and being the petty parent sometimes.

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    • Read Nefertiti's books She's Just Spirited and Motherhood So White
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    • Keep up with Nefertiti's work https://nefertitiaustin.com/

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    1 時間 9 分