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Not Good Enough Stuff

Not Good Enough Stuff

著者: Mary Beth Fox
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Who would you be if nobody had ever told you who you were supposed to be?

If you've spent your life feeling like you're not good enough, wondering why you don't know who you are, struggling to recognize your own needs, or feeling like you're living a life that doesn't quite fit, you're in the right place.

I'm Mary Beth Fox, Licensed Professional Counselor.

You weren't born believing you weren't enough. Those messages were planted by family, society, culture, sometimes religion, and life experiences. Over time, they shaped the voice in your head, your identity, your self-worth, your relationships, your decisions, and nearly every part of your life.

Using the Not Good Enough Stuff Framework, we'll trace those messages back to their roots so you can understand how you became who you are, why you see yourself the way you do, why your own needs can feel so difficult to recognize, and how to separate who you truly are from who you were shaped to be.

We'll question the childhood messages that shaped your self-worth, fueled negative self-talk, left you carrying shame, made boundaries feel difficult, and convinced you that you had to earn love, approval, or your worth.

Sometimes we'll call bullshit on those messages.

Because they deserve to be questioned.

This podcast isn't about becoming someone new.

It's about returning to your True Soul Identity.

You are not lost.

Your True Soul Identity became covered by the layers of family, society, culture, sometimes religion, and life experiences.

Together, we'll peel back those layers, trace the roots that shaped your identity, and uncover the truth about who you've been all along.

Whether you're trying to understand your inner child, emotional neglect, childhood experiences, self-worth, relationships, emotional needs, identity, or the voice in your head, Not Good Enough Stuff will help you understand how you got where you are so you can return to who you truly are.

2026 Mary Beth Fox
個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Why Do I Never Feel Good Enough? 7 Questions Answered
    2026/10/13

    Why do you feel like one mistake proves something is wrong with you? Why is it so easy to recognize other people's worth but so difficult to believe in your own? And why, no matter how much you accomplish, do you still feel like you're not good enough?

    In Episode 14, licensed professional counselor Mary Beth Fox answers seven thought-provoking questions submitted by subscribers about self-worth, childhood experiences, guilt, anger, trust, and the inner critic.

    We explore why childhood messages can become deeply held beliefs about who we are, how perfectionism and people-pleasing develop, and why understanding the origins of our struggles doesn't always mean those struggles disappear.

    You'll discover:

    • Why making a mistake can trigger shame and feelings of inadequacy
    • Why compliments are harder to believe than criticism
    • Why disappointing someone can create guilt even when you've done nothing wrong
    • Why accomplishments never seem to make you feel good enough
    • How to recognize the difference between your authentic voice and messages learned growing up
    • Why anger can resurface when you feel dismissed, silenced, or disrespected
    • How to begin rebuilding trust in yourself and others after repeated betrayal

    Through the Not Good Enough Stuff framework, Mary Beth explores how learned messages shape our identity and influence the patterns we carry into adulthood.

    The central question: What if the way you see yourself isn't actually who you are, but who you learned to believe you were?

    You don't have to keep proving your worth to deserve it.

    Listen, reflect, and share: Which of these seven questions resonates most with you?

    The voice in your head wasn't born with you.

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Why do mistakes feel like proof of inadequacy?

    01:15 Why is it hard to believe good things about ourselves?

    09:26 Guilt when disappointing others: What's really happening?

    13:28 Why do we keep trying to prove we're enough?

    17:40 Distinguishing your inner voice from learned messages

    21:21 Managing anger when feeling shut down

    28:23 Rebuilding trust after betrayal and self-betrayal

    35:31 The common thread: Evaluating ourselves through old messages

    Resources & Links:🌐 Visit: https://www.theinnerchildtherapist.com/

    Download your FREE Not Good Enough Guide here: https://www.theinnerchildtherapist.com/free-guide-to-feeling-enough/

    Connect with Me:


    ▶️ YouTube: @notgoodenoughstuff


    📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/theinnerchildtherapist


    🎵 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@theinnerchildtherapist


    📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/TICT.MaryBethFox


    If this episode resonated with you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Every share helps more people begin questioning the messages they never chose to believe.

    Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and personal growth purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or medical advice, and listening does not create a therapist-client relationship. If you need support for your unique situation, please connect with a licensed mental health professional in your area. Music Attribution: Music licensed through SoundstripeCode: CDAA5GJA2635SEHS

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    42 分
  • Life Coach vs. Therapist: Who’s Qualified to Help You Heal?
    2026/10/06

    Does “certified trauma coach” mean someone is qualified to treat trauma? What’s the difference between a life coach and a licensed therapist, and why does it matter when you’re looking for help?

    In this episode of Not Good Enough Stuff, I’m Mary Beth Fox, a licensed professional counselor, explaining the differences in education, clinical training, credentials, confidentiality, and professional accountability.

    You’ll learn:
    • What training is required to call yourself a life coach
    • Why certified does not mean licensed
    • How coaching experience differs from supervised clinical training
    • Why being trauma-informed does not automatically qualify someone to treat trauma
    • What to question when someone promises to heal your inner child, rewire your brain, or fix what years of therapy couldn’t
    • What to ask before trusting someone with your mental health

    Coaching can be valuable. Consumers also deserve to understand what someone’s qualifications actually prepare them to do. If you’ve tried therapy and still feel not good enough, a compelling promise deserves careful questions.

    Mental health professionals can email me to request the slides featured in this episode. Please credit Mary Beth Fox and Not Good Enough Stuff and keep the slides unaltered.

    Share this episode with someone deciding between therapy and life coaching, and follow Not Good Enough Stuff for more conversations about the roots of why you feel not good enough.

    00:47 Therapist vs. Life Coach: What’s the Difference?

    02:44 What Training Does a Life Coach Need?

    04:36 What Does It Take to Become a Licensed Therapist?

    06:42 Coaching Hours vs. Clinical Training Hours

    09:22 Certified Does Not Mean Licensed

    10:38 Who Regulates Life Coaches?

    13:23 Licensing Boards and Professional Accountability

    14:57 What Does Confidential Actually Mean?

    16:21 Trauma-Informed vs. Qualified to Treat Trauma

    17:42 Coaching and Therapy Are Different Services

    18:50 Life Coaching Marketing Claims Worth Questioning

    21:09 When “Therapy Didn’t Work” Becomes a Sales Pitch

    25:02 Knowing About Trauma vs. Being Qualified to Treat It

    26:28 Questions to Ask Before Hiring Someone

    27:37 Know Their Training, Credentials, and Accountability

    29:17 How Mental Health Professionals Can Request the Slides

    Resources & Links: 🌐 Visit: https://www.theinnerchildtherapist.com/

    Download your FREE Not Good Enough Guide here: https://www.theinnerchildtherapist.com/free-guide-to-feeling-enough/

    Connect with Me:


    ▶️ YouTube: @notgoodenoughstuff


    📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/theinnerchildtherapist


    🎵 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@theinnerchildtherapist


    📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/TICT.MaryBethFox


    If this episode resonated with you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Every share helps more people begin questioning the messages they never chose to believe.

    Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and personal growth purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or medical advice, and listening does not create a therapist-client relationship. If you need support for your unique situation, please connect with a licensed mental health professional in your area.

    Music Attribution: Music licensed through Soundstripe Code: CDAA5GJA2635SEHS

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    31 分
  • Why Do I Feel Not Good Enough No Matter What I Do? | The Inner Critic and Childhood Messages
    2026/09/29

    You reached the goal you thought would finally make you feel good enough. So why is your inner critic already telling you it doesn’t count?

    In this episode of Not Good Enough Stuff, I explore how messages from family, society, and culture can shape what we believe about ourselves in childhood. We may not realize we’re still carrying those messages as adults. They can show up in our work, relationships, boundaries, and even our ability to rest.

    I share how childhood comments about my appearance followed me into adulthood, and why accomplishments couldn’t change what I had come to believe about myself. Then I offer a place to start: noticing when your inner critic turns something that happened into a statement about who you are.

    What’s one thing your inner critic says about you that you’re beginning to wonder if you learned?

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Why reaching achievements doesn't always boost self-worth

    00:35 The roots of not good enough feelings

    01:02 Exploring childhood influences on self-image

    01:40 The metaphor of the tree and its roots

    02:14 How environment shapes our beliefs

    02:41 Messages from family, school, and society

    04:52 Beliefs as roots and their visible branches

    05:29 The impact of childhood messages on adult life

    08:45 Messages as reflections of identity

    09:42 Recognizing messages versus who we are

    11:16 Healing childhood messages about appearance

    15:34 Challenging the inner critic and beliefs

    17:27 Practical steps to question your inner critic

    18:20 The importance of self-acceptance and healing

    🌐 Visit: https://www.theinnerchildtherapist.com/

    Download your FREE Not Good Enough Guide here: https://www.theinnerchildtherapist.com/free-guide-to-feeling-enough/

    Connect with Me:


    ▶️ YouTube: @notgoodenoughstuff


    📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/theinnerchildtherapist


    🎵 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@theinnerchildtherapist


    📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/TICT.MaryBethFox


    If this episode resonated with you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Every share helps more people begin questioning the messages they never chose to believe.

    Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and personal growth purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or medical advice, and listening does not create a therapist-client relationship. If you need support for your unique situation, please connect with a licensed mental health professional in your area.

    Music Attribution:

    Music licensed through Soundstripe

    Code: CDAA5GJA2635SEHS

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    22 分
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