In this powerful episode of None Of Your Business, Michael sits down with Sony Perlman for an honest conversation about pain, healing, parenting, marriage, and the power of believing in people.

Sony shares his journey from a troubled and angry teenager searching for meaning to becoming one of the most trusted mentors helping young men and families today. He opens up about growing up with inner struggles, feeling lost, and how one person’s unconditional love changed the direction of his life forever.

The conversation explores what it means to raise kind children, why being present matters more than perfection, how to navigate emotional pain, and why so many people are craving real connection in today’s world. They also discuss marriage, mental health, mentorship, community responsibility, and how small moments of kindness can create generational impact.

This episode is full of wisdom for anyone looking to grow, become a better parent, build stronger relationships, or better understand themselves.

Sony is currently leading a fundraising campaign for The Village, a life changing organization dedicated to helping young men and families through mentorship, support, healing, and real community. If this conversation moved you and you want to support meaningful work that changes lives every day, you can contribute here: https://charidy.com/thevillage/SonyPerlman

00:00 Intro

01:53 Parenting and raising kind children

05:00 The power of being an uncle

07:30 Vulnerability and asking for help

10:45 Helping others without burnout

15:00 Growing up in a mission driven home

18:00 Painful teenage years and anger

24:00 The Rabbi who changed everything

28:30 How love transforms lives

31:00 Marriage advice that actually works

45:00 Parenting with patience and presence

55:00 Mental health and community struggles

01:10:00 Building purpose through helping others

01:30:00 Leadership responsibility and healing

01:50:00 Final lessons and reflections

01:59:00 Closing

In this episode of None Of Your Business, Michael sits down with the founders of Ohr Shlomo for a raw and deeply honest conversation about spirituality, growth, and what it really means to build a community that changes lives.

What started as a small Carlebach style minyan has evolved into something much bigger, a movement centered around music, connection, and personal transformation. The guys share how Ohr Shlomo came to life, the challenges of building a shul without a traditional structure, and why creating leaders, not followers, became the mission.

The conversation goes far beyond the origin story. They dive into the power of davening through music, how Shabbos can transform your entire week, and what it looks like to grow spiritually while balancing real life, work, and responsibility. There is also an honest discussion about anger, ego, jealousy, and self awareness, and how shifting your mindset can completely change how you experience life.

They also explore concepts like Hisbodedus, personal prayer and meditation, building a relationship with Hashem, and why talking to God in your own words might be one of the most powerful tools a person has.

What makes Ohr Shlomo different is simple but rare. It is not built around one leader. It is built around people growing together, supporting each other, and creating something real that extends beyond the walls of a shul and into everyday life.

This episode is about more than a place. It is about a mindset, a way of living, and a reminder that growth, connection, and meaning are available to anyone willing to look deeper.

None Of Your Business is a podcast about real conversations and real journeys. No scripts. No filters. Just people sharing experiences you can actually learn from.

00:00 Intro and meeting the Ohr Shlomo founders

01:53 Why Ohr Shlomo changed my life

06:30 How it all started

10:45 Why this minyan feels different

14:20 Personal journeys and finding spirituality

18:00 Building a community from scratch

23:00 No rabbi, creating leaders

26:00 Work, business, and staying grounded

30:00 What sparks real change

33:30 Anger, mindset, and growth

41:00 Hisbodedus and connecting to Hashem

48:30 Parenting and raising the next generation

01:00:15 Work ethic, career paths, and life direction

01:10:00 Turning passion into business

01:20:00 Success, purpose, and balance

01:30:00 Community, identity, and belonging

01:49:10 Honoring legacy and Neshama Carlebach

01:53:15 Final thoughts and future conversations

01:59:00 Closing

What if the way you’re loving your child is actually making things worse?

In this episode, Rabbi Ezra Max reveals why modern parenting advice is failing and how saying yes to everything can quietly destroy your child’s future. Drawing from years of working with struggling teens and high-performing families, he explains why most kids don’t want to die, they just want to escape pain, and how parents unintentionally enable that cycle.

This conversation breaks down the difference between real love and destructive enabling, why boundaries are essential for trust and growth, and how one simple shift in your approach can completely change your relationship with your child.

If you’re a parent, leader, or entrepreneur trying to support others without losing control, this episode will challenge everything you think you know about connection, discipline, and emotional strength.

0:00 Introduction & Welcome

2:01 Panic Attack & Vulnerability

7:04 Who Is Ezra Max?

11:52 9/11: A Near-Death Experience

13:14 Working With Struggling Youth & At-Risk Teens

20:03 Teens, Overdose & the Cost of Enabling

23:50 Parenting, Boundaries & Unconditional Love

26:10 The Executive Coaching Story

26:43 Ezra as Executive Coach

35:55 Psychedelics, Ayahuasca & the Dangers of Shortcuts

39:34 The Living Room & Our Place

43:49 Business Entanglements & the Spaghetti Principle

46:24 3 Keys to Relationship

56:22 Networking With Purpose

1:03:25 Family Mission, Values & Knowing Who You Are

1:04:57 Social Media-Why It's Destroying Us

1:12:39 Michael's Panic Attack

1:20:16 Breathwork & How to Calm a Panic Attack

1:31:16 Goal Setting: Who Are You Becoming?

1:34:35 Closing Reflections & Wrap-Up