You know he's not good for you. So why do you still want him?

If you're a Christian woman who can't let go of an emotionally unavailable man, even after you've prayed about it, cried over it, and told your best friend you're done, this episode is for you.

Maybe you keep checking his Instagram stories, rereading old texts, and waiting for him to finally choose you. That doesn't mean something is wrong with you. In this episode, licensed trauma therapist Kim Velez shares:

• Why the guy who's bad for you can feel so exciting, and the nice guy can feel boring
• Why knowing better doesn't make the feelings go away
• What Jesus wants you to see about who you really are
• Three simple things to do this week when you want to text him or check his page

Scriptures in this episode: Romans 5:8, Ephesians 1:4, Romans 12:2

Listen next: Emotionally Unavailable Men Feel Like Chemistry When You Feel Unchosen

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You know he's not good for you. So why do you still want him?

If you're a Christian woman who can't let go of an emotionally unavailable man, even after you've prayed about it, cried over it, and told your best friend you're done, this episode is for you.

Maybe you keep checking his Instagram stories, rereading old texts, and waiting for him to finally choose you. That doesn't mean something is wrong with you. In this episode, licensed trauma therapist Kim Velez shares:

• Why the guy who's bad for you can feel so exciting, and the nice guy can feel boring
• Why knowing better doesn't make the feelings go away
• What Jesus wants you to see about who you really are
• Three simple things to do this week when you want to text him or check his page

Scriptures in this episode: Romans 5:8, Ephesians 1:4, Romans 12:2

Listen next: Emotionally Unavailable Men Feel Like Chemistry When You Feel Unchosen

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@kimvelez-podcast

Can Christians visualize, script, and still keep Jesus at the center of their lives?

In this episode, Kim Velez shares her personal journey of wrestling with conflicting Christian opinions about visualization, scripting, dreams, and desires. She explains how prayer, Scripture, and Holy Spirit guidance changed the way she approaches all of it.

You’ll hear how passages like Mark 5, Philippians 4:6–8, James 4:13–15, Luke 22:42, and Proverbs 3:5–6 helped her understand the difference between having desires and being submitted to God.

This episode is for Christian women who want to dream, renew their minds, and pursue the life God has placed on their hearts while remaining fully surrendered to Him.

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Do you feel like you have to prove you’re good enough to be chosen, loved, or committed to? In this episode, Kim Velez explains how fear, insecurity, and the belief that love must be earned can affect the men you choose, what you tolerate, and even your ability to receive a healthy relationship.

You’ll learn what Scripture says about God’s grace, your worth in Christ, and how to stop looking to a relationship to prove that you are enough. We’ll also talk about renewing the beliefs that keep you chasing, proving, and accepting less than the consistent, respectful love you desire.

Scriptures: Ephesians 2:8–9, Romans 5:8, Ephesians 1:4

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