Kenneth Kollasch has reinvented himself more times than most people attempt in a lifetime — professional soccer player, national ballroom champion, pastor, author, business coach. At the start of it all, he turned down a pro soccer contract to marry his wife, Caroline.

What turned him wasn't a plan. It was his grandfather putting down his fork at a Mexican restaurant and asking one question: "Kenneth, is that what you really want?"

That's where this conversation lives — in the difference between being nice and being kind. Nice agrees with you. Kind is willing to risk a little of itself to tell you the truth, especially about the decisions you're most sure of.

We talk about:

— Why an undecided decision is an open loop, and what it quietly costs to leave it open
— The "40% rule" Kenneth and Caroline use to decide without overthinking — and the freedom of knowing you can always make another decision
— Accountability that's about your identity, not your task list
— The three levels of being known — served, loved, and truly known — and why the deepest one is worth the risk
— What it takes to give someone permission to coach you, and why permission changes everything

A conversation about becoming someone new without losing yourself along the way.

Kenneth is the author of Beating Average: A Story to Extraordinary.
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The Liberated Life is hosted by Robin Quinn Keehn — Human Dynamics Specialist, Certified Mediator, and author of Stop Stealing From Yourself.

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