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  • PTSD, Separation, and More Caller Questions from March 14, 2025

    PTSD, Separation, and More Caller Questions from March 14, 2025
    2025/03/14
    Topics: Anger, Breakdown, PTSD, Church Life, Counseling, Separation, Boundaries, Adult Children, Brain Issues, Learned Helplessness Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Becky Brown Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui warns us not to look for external resources to solve internal issues; don’t blame others before you look inside of yourself to find out what is upsetting you. 2. Is there a pathway back to being a pastor? I stepped down after a mental breakdown and I also struggle with PTSD as a military veteran. 3. I’ve been separated from my husband for 2yrs because he asked me to leave during my cancer treatment; when is it time to take off my wedding ring? 4. How do I set boundaries with my 29yo son who lives on his own but struggles with mental health challenges? 5. How do I help my adult son get the proper assistance he needs for his traumatic brain injury and PTSD? He tried to stop his brother from committing suicide. 6. Do you have any resources for a friend’s 23yo son who has severe ADHD, Asperger’s, PTSD, and is gay? Suggested Resources: Living Strong, Finishing Well Healing Is a Choice Doing Life with Your Adult Children Heart Handbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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  • Incarceration, Addictions, and More Caller Questions from March 13, 2025

    Incarceration, Addictions, and More Caller Questions from March 13, 2025
    2025/03/13
    Topics: Willingness, Boundaries, Dating, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Incarceration, Getting Unstuck, Addictions, Reconciliation Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses hardened hearts vs. humbled hearts, and JJ shares how guarding your heart is different. 2. The hosts discuss dating and the importance of sharing differences before marriage, including political viewpoints. 3. How do I help my 40yo son who keeps going in and out of prison because of drugs? He keeps going back to the wrong group of people. 4. The hosts discuss what is inside of us that could draw us back to the friends that got us into trouble, and the benefits of taking inventory and being responsible for our actions. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Bible Workbook Life Recovery Devotional To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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  • New Life Live: March 12, 2025

    New Life Live: March 12, 2025
    2025/03/12
    Topics: Triggers, PTSD, Divorce, Mother Issues, Grief Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Becky defines what triggers are and three tactics to cope with them. I promised myself I'd never get a divorce, but my husband is a veteran with PTSD who is living in Belize and can't handle conflict. As a child, I was The post New Life Live: March 12, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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  • Alcohol, Drug Addiction, and More Caller Questions from March 11, 2025

    Alcohol, Drug Addiction, and More Caller Questions from March 11, 2025
    2025/03/11
    Topics: Christian Walk, In-laws, Alcohol, Incarceration, Boundaries, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Verbal Abuse, Physical Abuse Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. JJ discusses planting in the light matters so you can bear more fruit. 2. My son and his family live with us, and my daughter-in-law starts drinking from the moment she gets home until bed; how can I have a better relationship with her? 3. My nephew just got out of prison for drugs and theft, and I asked my family not to let him know where I live. Does that sound like an unchristian thing to ask? 4. How can my daughter have a new start? She has kids and was arrested for meth charges. 5. What should I do if my wife is verbally and physically abusive? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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  • Dating, Affairs, and More Caller Questions from March 10, 2025

    Dating, Affairs, and More Caller Questions from March 10, 2025
    2025/03/10
    Topics: Paradigm Shift, Dating, Divorce, Communication, Christian Walk, Affairs, Counseling Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses the importance of a paradigm shift and the willingness to be wrong. 2. What is your opinion of dating a man who is 18yrs older and just got divorced 5mos ago? 3. How do I get my husband of 33yrs to communicate? 4. My fiance wants God in her life, but how do I get her to read the Bible? 5. What should I do if my husband of 28yrs had an affair? I told him he had to see a counselor, but he quit after two sessions. Suggested Resources: Trust How We Love Take Your Life Back Devotional Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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  • Borderline, Emotional Abuse, and More Caller Questions from March 7, 2025

    Borderline, Emotional Abuse, and More Caller Questions from March 7, 2025
    2025/03/07
    Topics: Christian Walk, Borderline, Adult Children, Emotional Abuse, Separation, Reconciliation, Aging Parents Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim talks about finishing well; pray to break the strongholds that are entangling you, love God, do the right thing, and repeat every day. 2. How do I have empathy for my adult daughter who was diagnosed as a mild sociopath with Borderline PD and is very mean to me? 3. My husband is verbally and emotionally abusive. How do I reconcile after moving out of the bedroom five weeks ago? I have been told that I am not being Christ-like. 4. I am from Iran, and Dr. Sheri literally changed my life! How do I take care of my 74yo mom who has dementia and headaches daily? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Emotionally Destructive Relationship How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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  • Racism, Unhoused, and More Caller Questions from March 6, 2025

    Racism, Unhoused, and More Caller Questions from March 6, 2025
    2025/03/06
    Topics: Trust, Fear, Medical Issues, Racism, Depression, Hope, Unhoused, Disability, Parenting, Discipline Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice discusses our self-serving bias to blame others rather than giving others the benefit of the doubt. 2. Is it normal that I don’t fear my potentially serious medical diagnosis? I do hospice nursing. 3. My husband of 42yo is a racist and doesn’t want me to invite my granddaughter’s boyfriend over for Easter because of his race; am I disrespecting my husband if I invite him anyway? 4. I am very depressed and I don’t know what to do anymore. I live in my car because I don’t get enough disability to pay for a place to live. 5. It hurt me when my 8yo adopted son told his friend’s mom that he wanted to go stay with her. What kind of a mom am I? Suggested Resources: Soul of a Hero Boundaries Take Your Life Back How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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  • Addictions, Sexual Intimacy, and More Caller Questions from March 5, 2025

    Addictions, Sexual Intimacy, and More Caller Questions from March 5, 2025
    2025/03/05
    Topics: Betrayal, Suicide, Adult Children, Estrangement, Addictions, Boundaries, Sexual Intimacy Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri shares what we can learn from the hedgehog effect and prickly quills. 2. My 32yo nephew lived with me and attempted suicide in my house; my daughter blames me and has cut off communication; what do I do? 3. How can I deal with old patterns from a spouse who has addictions? We separated for a while and are back together. 4. I am 56yo and my wife and I haven’t been intimate for more than a year because of her medical issues; what can we do to have sexual intimacy? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Intimate Deception How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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