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New Episode! Building Stronger Marriages, Lessons from Joshua & Lilly Wilson!

New Episode! Building Stronger Marriages, Lessons from Joshua & Lilly Wilson!

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 In this episode of the Love That Last podcast, Peter andTheresa Martin sit down with Joshua and Lily Wilson, who share their heartfelt journey of love, community, and the importance of support in marriage.Joshua and Lily remind us that building a strong marriage often begins with building a supportive community. Reflecting on their journey, it’s clear that love, patience, and connection are key ingredients to a lasting relationship.Now that they have moved back to Abbeville, Joshua and Lilly are eager to start a new married couples group in their home parish, continuing the gift of support and community that has enriched their marriage. As they embark on this new chapter, they remain committed to fostering the faith of their marriage through community!Get VIP Access! Become an Angel!DIALOGUE INSTRUCTIONS: Dialoguing is not discussion.It is not a time to sort out schedules or even plans for the future. It is an opportunity to hear the feelings and emotions of your beloved and respect them with great love. When your innermost feelings are respected and understood, you feel loved; you feel worthy. Not only that, but it fortifies the unity between you and gives more foundation foryour conjugal spiritualty to grow. It takes about 20-30 minutes altogether, but can be broken up. There are a couple parts to the Dialogue and then, when complete, you can segue to a discussion, if you want. A) Begin by Asking a question.For example, let’s use: “What was one of my favorite dates with you? How do I feel about my answer?”And you write this at the top of the page.B) Write a letter to your beloved. Writing a letter gives you time to explain how you answer thatquestion. C) Define the feeling. After writing the letter, take time to understand your own feelings.You can write this directly under your letter.1. I feel about . On the next couple pages are lists of feeling words that can give us more of a vocabulary to articulate exactly how we feel. 2. Physical Sensation: If my feelingwere a physical sensation it would be like .Briefly explain the sensation. Forexample, “nervous” might feel like butterflies in your stomach. 3. Intensity 1 – 10. On a scale of 1-10, 10 being the highest, my feeling is a . 4. Color. My feeling is the color of .Although this can be trickier if you are not a visual person, just give it go—you may surprise yourself! 5. Using one of the five senses. Myfeeling is like . 6. Shared Memory: My feeling is like when we . D) Exchanging/ reading the letters.Exchange your letters and then read your spouse’s letter twice. Yes, that’s right: twice. You read it once with your head and then, once with your heart. E) Sharing the letters.Then take turns going over what each person wrote, one at a time. You share with your spouse what you understood from what your spouse has written. The point of this is to demonstrate that you have fully understood what your beloved wrote (not to argue ordiscuss!). To assure that you have understood, you will end your turn of the sharing by asking: “have I fully understood how you feel?” Once the first person feels they have been understood, you move to the other’s letter. F) Post-dialogue. When you have both felt understood, the dialogue is over. What is most important is that this be a time when you are not feeling attacked, but both feel fully understood and fully loved.
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