This week's episode of Shifting Perspectives is taking a look at Singlehood. How have we been conditioned to think of being single? How is that shaping the relationship decisions we're making?

We welcome Sadie Marie of Sadie's Divorced and Happy to take a look at how people are experiencing being single post-divorce, how we're relearning ideas about being on our own, and the power of community in shifting perspectives.

Sadie is the creator and host of Sadie's Divorced & Happy podcast and the founder of the Happily Divorced Club, a virtual community where like-minded people can connect after divorce through monthly events and meaningful conversations. Through her podcast and a social media community of more than 125,000 followers, Sadie has become a trusted voice for people navigating life after divorce. Through honest conversations, humor, and practical encouragement, she empowers others to embrace reinvention, rediscover themselves, and create a life they genuinely love.

To connect with Sadie or learn more about her work, visit Sadie's Divorced and Happy or find Sadie on Instagram.

As as always you can find Tamar on Instagram or Threads.

We are back with the second episode of Shifting Perspectives! This week we are exploring the topic of divorce.

Tamar is joined for this conversation by Olivia Howell. Olivia is the CEO and co-founder of Fresh Starts Registry -- recognized by Forbes as "the first divorce registry of its kind," and by New. York Magazine for "destigmatizing divorce." A clinical hypnotherapist, certified divorce and life coach, and award-winning podcast producer of multimple podcasts Including the top-rated "Divorce Happens," Olivia built Fresh Starts with her sister Genevieve Dreizen after her own 2019 divorce where she realized there was no realsystem to help people rebuild.

Olivia's professional and personal experience make her the perfect guest for this conversation, looking at what we get wrong about divorce and where we need to shift our collective perspectives. Directly informed by episode 1 and our convesation around marriage, this episode discusses the importance of approaching divorce as a natural part of the human experience, and recognizing that in many instances, it can be the best possible outcome.

Interested in Fresh Starts Registry? Find Olivia on Instagram and Threads.

Welcome to the inaugural episode of Shifting Perspectives!

Brought to you by Tamar Queen Barbash and New Beginnings Breakup and Divorce Coaching, this series explores the way our cultural perspectives often don't align with the our lived experiences.

In this episode, Tamar and Dr. Elana Hoffman look at the ways that we talk about marriage, the messages we send to our children, the expectations we set, and how that all compares to the actual experience of being and staying married.

Keep the conversation going by engaging with the podcast on social media: @nbdivorcecoaching, or with Dr. Hoffman directly: @dr.elanahoffman

Today, I am joined by Tracey Bee, owner of the The Divorce Solutionist. Tracey specializes in guiding self-represented litigants through divorce and custody cases as a Family Court Strategist™. Tracey studied psychology at Fairleigh Dickinson University and got her legal training at Seton Hall University School of Law, and she leverages both of those areas of expertise to provide actionable strategies to help clients navigate family court with clarity and confidence.

In this conversation, Tracey shares her wisdom to help people understand when self-representation is a good idea, what the pitfalls are to be aware of, and how to be best prepared to walk into a courtroom as your own representative.

This discussion was incredibly informative and sheds light on a method of divorce that many people don't even know is an option.

To connect with Tracey Bee, visit her website The Divorce Solutionist.

In today's episode, Tamar is joined by family law attorney Nicole Sodoma.

Nicole is a nationally recognized family law attorney, author and thought leader, who is redefining divorce, co-parenting and modern family dynamics. She is the founder and managing principal of Sodoma Law, the largest family law firm in North and South Carolina.

A former litigator, certified parenting coordinator and collaborative law attorney, Nicole draws on her own lived experience as a step-parent, mother, ex-wife and entrepreneur to provide personalized strategies and tools for families navigating complex transitions. She is the author of Please Don't Say You're Sorry, which helps readers navigate the challenges of marriage and divorce with insight, humor and practical tools to move forward. Nicole is also the founder of the Sodoma Law Foundation, and a sought-after source on all things divorce and family, having been featured in outlets including The Wall Street Journal, USA Today and Business Insider.

Together, Tamar and Nicole discuss the complex time between staying and going. The "quiet middle" that people find themselves in when trying to figure out whether to stay in their marriage or leave.

Nicole shares insights based on her expertise as an attorney for over two decades and her lived experiences.

You can find Nicole on all socials @nicolesodoma. To learn more about Nicole's law practice, visit the Sodoma Law website.

And we're back with a new episosde of New Beginnings: A Marriage and Divorce Podcast!

This episode probably should have been the first one I ever did. I realized that often when I'm meeting with potential new clients or talking to people online, they aren't really sure what a divorce coach is.

In this episode I break down that question and I address some of the most common other ones I receive. What's the difference between divorce coaching and therapy? Why should I spend money on another professional when divorce is already expensive? Do you just advocate for everyone to get divorced?

Have a listen to this episode and let me know if you have anything to add or any other questions you'd like answered. You can find me on Instagram or Threads and you can always reach out via email.

In this episode of New Beginnings: A Marriage and Divorce Podcast, Tamar is joined by attorney and author Renee Bauer.

Renee has been a divorce attorney for 20 years. She is the founder and managing attorney of Happy Even After Family Law in Connecticut.

Renee is also an international speaker, author of 4 books – Divorce in Connecticut, The Ultimate Guide to Solo and Small Firm Success, the children's book Percy's Imperfectly Perfect Family, and her most recent, She Who Wins.

Renee hosts the annual She Who Wins Summit, a live event created to inspire, motivate and challenge women to move forward bravely in their personal and business lives. Her impact has been recognized by Success Magazine where she was nominated as a Woman of Influence and with awards such as Litigator of the Year, Women-Owned Business of the Year, and New Leaders in the Law. She has been featured in multiple media outlets such as the International Business Times, Comment Central, AP News, NBC, FOX, and iHeart Radio.

In this episode, Tamar and Renee explore:

• Why Renee fell in love with family law
• How Renee helps clients mitigate conflict
• Tough conversations lawyers can have with clients to help them realize when they are escalating conflict
• When going to court is unavoidable
• Other tips and tidbits of legal expertise
• Renee's app She Who Wins and all that it provides

You can find Renee on Instagram @msreneebauer or her firm website http://familylawyerct.com.

As always, you can find me at http://nbdivorcecoaching.com or on Instagram at @nbdivorcecoaching.

Be back with a new episode soon!

Welcome back to New Beginnings: A Marriage and Divorce Podcast!

I am thrilled to welcome Jill Kaufman to the show for this episode.

Jill is a divorce coach, therapist, mediator, and co-parenting expert. After going through her own difficult divorce, Jill made it her life's mission to help others not have it so tough. Her book, online course, and her transformational coaching program help parents navigate the overwhelming process of divorce so that they have less stress, more confidence and a greater sense of peace.

In this episode we address:

• The idea of "staying for the kids" and how it really impacts children
• Co-parents bad mouthing each other to the kids and ways to avoid falling into this trap
• How the BIFF style of communication is invaluable for parents going through divorce
• The importance of protecting yourself and your children emotionally

You can join Jill's facebook group for divorce support here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/separationanddivorcesupportcommunity.

or, find her on her website:

divorcecoachjill.com

As always you can find me on Instagram or by email or on my website nbdivorcecoaching.com.