In this episode, Dr Supriya and UK family lawyer Matthew Taylor discuss the very particular issues you need to consider when deciding on whether to pay (or receive) spousal maintenance, specifically where your ex-spouse is a narcissist.

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STOP PRESS: Dr Supriya's in-person conference "How to Divorce a Narcissist - a Conference for Survivors" will be taking place on 27th February 2027, at the IET, Austin Court, Birmingham, UK. Tickets are priced at just £45, thanks to a large philanthropic donation, and are available from EventBrite. For more information, please head to narcissistsindivorce.co.uk. Please book early to avoid disappointment, as delegate places are strictly limited to a total of 150.

Narcissists in Divorce: The Co-Parenting Myth - How to Protect your Children and Stamp Out Post Separation Abuse is Dr Supriya's latest book.

The second book in the Narcissists in Divorce series, From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth is also available now. An in depth, comprehensive, holistic guide, it exposes the inadequacies of worldwide family justice systems, and shows you how to stay afloat, how to take control of the narrative, how to protect your mental health and much, much more.

The first book of the series, Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving helps you determine whether you are dealing with a true narcissist, and if so, what you need to consider regarding leaving. The audiobook sample is h...

In this podcast episode, Dr Supriya speaks with family lawyer Matthew Taylor about Final Hearings in UK Family Law proceedings. In these hearings, both parties are cross-examined, under oath, on the witness stand. Matt gives tips on how best to prepare for these hearings, and we discuss the particular issues that may arise when a narcissistic spouse or ex is involved.

Matthew is a solicitor and Partner at Napthens in Liverpool. He specializes in financial cases in divorce, and also in financial cases where the couple were not married - and he has a special interest in representing victims of narcissistic abuse.

Matthew also works on initiatives ranging from educating legal professionals to campaigning for law reform, and he’s the co-vice chair of the Pensions, Tax and Financial Remedy Committee of the UK family lawyer’s organization “Resolution”.

He is a regular legal contributor to Martin Lewis’ Money Show Live, and has appeared on Martin’s BBC podcast, on numerous legal podcasts, as well as on The Times podcast.

Matt's experience is with the family court of England and Wales, but many of the tips specific to narcissism may well be relevant across legal jurisdictions. As ever, please do take legal advice in your country to make sure.

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STOP PRESS: Dr Supriya's in-person conference "How to Divorce a Narcissist - a Conference for Survivors" will be no longer be taking place in person. In order to open up more places the conference will now take place exclusively online, with a recording to be released afterwards. The conference will commencing on 27th February 2027, and tickets are available here. For more information, please head to narcissistsindivorce.co.uk.

Narcissists in Divorce: The Co-Parenting Myth - How to Protect your Children and Stamp Out Post Separation Abuse is Dr Supriya's latest book.

The second book in the Narcissists in Divorce series, From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth is also available now. An in depth, comprehensive, holistic guide, it exposes the inadequacies of worldwide family justice systems, and shows you how to stay afloat, how to take control of the narrative, how to protect your mental health and much, much more.

The first book of the series, Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving helps you determine whether you are dealing with a true narcissist, and if so, what you need t...

In this episode, Dr Supriya teaches victim-survivors about fear and how to manage fear reactions in response to a narcissist's bad behaviour.

Narcissists rely on evoking fear in others to maintain control and gain their all-important 'narcissistic supply'. Being able to terminate fear responses is essential when it comes to the clear thinking that is required when divorcing a narcissist - but learning how to actually become fearless will also give victims a huge tactical advantage over their narcissistic ex.

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STOP PRESS: Dr Supriya's in-person conference "How to Divorce a Narcissist - a Conference for Survivors" will be no longer be taking place in person. In order to open up more places the conference will now take place exclusively online, with a recording to be released afterwards. The conference will commencing on 27th February 2027, and tickets are available here. For more information, please head to narcissistsindivorce.co.uk.

Narcissists in Divorce: The Co-Parenting Myth - How to Protect your Children and Stamp Out Post Separation Abuse is Dr Supriya's latest book.

The second book in the Narcissists in Divorce series, From Leaving to Liberty – The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth is also available now. An in depth, comprehensive, holistic guide, it exposes the inadequacies of worldwide family justice systems, and shows you how to stay afloat, how to take control of the narrative, how to protect your mental health and much, much more.

The first book of the series, Narcissists in Divorce: From Love-Locked to Leaving helps you determine whether you are dealing with a true narcissist, and if so, what you need t...