In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Ladies of SOSA, hosts Sahra Benjamin and Christine sit down with Monica Deng to discuss one of the most debated topics in South Sudanese culture: polygamy.

Monica shares her firsthand experience of discovering that her husband had taken another wife without her knowledge. She opens up about the emotional impact, feelings of betrayal, the role of family, and the difficult questions that followed.

Together, we explore whether the real issue is polygamy itself or the lack of honesty, communication, and consent. We also examine the historical roots of polygamy in South Sudan, how perspectives are changing within the diaspora, and whether traditional practices still fit modern relationships.

This conversation is not about judging those who support or oppose polygamy. It is about creating space for honest dialogue, understanding lived experiences, and discussing how culture, religion, marriage, and personal choice intersect in today's world.

Topics discussed:
• Discovering a secret second wife
• The emotional impact of betrayal and secrecy
• Polygamy in South Sudanese culture
• Marriage, trust, and communication
• Religion and polygamy
• Modern relationships in the diaspora
• Can polygamous marriages succeed?
• Healing, self-worth, and lessons learned

We invite you to join the conversation in the comments:

Would you want to know beforehand if your spouse wanted another partner?
Can polygamy work if everyone involved agrees?
Is the biggest issue polygamy—or the secrecy surrounding it?

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Guest:
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Please feel free to engage and challenge the perspectives, but please keep comments respectful.

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