Feeling like your relationship or marriage is an uphill battle? You're not alone. In this episode of My Growth Club, we reveal that it might not be as "hard" as you think—you might just be missing the right tools.

Join Emmanuel and Grace as they break down the 5 simple but powerful tools that can transform your partnership from a source of stress into a source of strength. Learn how to stop fighting against each other and start building a beautiful life together. Whether you're dating, engaged, or have been married for years, this conversation will give you the practical wisdom you need to thrive.

IN THIS VIDEO, YOU'LL DISCOVER:

The powerful "lifting a car" analogy that will change how you see relationship challenges.

• Tool #1: Wisdom - How to build a strong foundation for your relationship.
• Tool #2: Understanding & Knowledge - The importance of learning about human nature and each other.
• Tool #3: Empathy & Humility - The secret to seeing from your partner's perspective and serving them well.
• Tool #4: Effective Communication - Why just "talking" isn't enough and how to truly connect.
• Tool #5: Shared Purpose - The ultimate driving force that makes every struggle worth it.

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LET'S CONNECT:
What's the #1 tool you're going to start using in your relationship? Let us know in the COMMENTS below!

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CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Is Marriage Supposed to Be This Hard?
2:48 - The "Lifting a Car" Analogy for Relationships
5:15 - Tool 1: Wisdom (The Ultimate Toolbox)
9:03 - Tool 2: The Power of Understanding & Knowledge
14:40 - Tool 3: Why Empathy & Humility are Non-Negotiable
19:12 - Tool 4: Stop Talking, Start Communicating
25:55 - Tool 5: Purpose - The Reason That Makes Pain Worth It
32:10 - Final Thoughts on Building a Great Partnership

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Welcome to the Growth Club! In this episode, Emmanuel and Grace discuss life, its challenges, and how to find balance when life gets overwhelming.

We share personal experiences and delve into topics like navigating life's tough moments, defining success, and the key to living a better life with our effective living model, focusing on love, essentials, non-essentials, relationships, wealth, health, work, and impact.

Discover the importance of a growth mindset and wisdom for achieving balance.

If you're looking for guidance and inspiration on your journey, you're in the right place! Subscribe to our channel for more insightful discussions.

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Welcome to My Growth Club! Today on My Growth Club, Emmanuel and Grace discuss why you feel stuck and how to turn things around—whether in relationships, careers, or just generally. We dive into the importance of being radically honest with yourself about what you truly want and why.

The conversation explores how our choices and lack of self-honesty can lead to feeling stuck. We discuss understanding how things really work in the world, including relationships and personal growth, and not just relying on our preconceived notions. Plus, we emphasize learning to forgive ourselves for past decisions and acknowledging that we don't always have all the answers.

Key topics include:
• Being honest with yourself about your desires.
• Recognizing the role of past choices in your current situation.
• Understanding how reality works, not how you want it to.
• Learning about human behavior.
• The importance of forgiveness and gratitude.
• The power of planning and setting goals.
• Focusing on small wins and recognizing personal growth.