In this episode, I sit with Activist and South Australian Pride Awards Winner, Charlotte Coulthard-Dare (she/her).

We discuss Charlotte’s nomination (which after recording became a win!) for First Nations Person of the Year in the South Australian Pride Awards 2025, sharing her culture and heritage through work that Charlotte does, being the role model younger generations need, the process of Charlotte coming out as transgender on a documentary on NITV, being representation when you didn’t have it growing up and ALL THE gratitude for Black trans women without whom so much wouldn’t exist!

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-SAY HI or share a limelight-stealing story: mydadstolemylimelight@gmail.com

🌈 Connect with Lauren’s guest:

-Follow Charlotte on Instagram: @coultharddare

🌈 Resources:

-2SLGBTQIA+ resources

🌈 Behind the scenes:

-Podcast production made possible by: Alexi Johnson, Alex McCarthy and the team at @604podnetwork

-Theme Music: Shawn Kangro

-Logo Art: @raphe.ca

In this episode, I sit with Comedian Marc Isaac (they/them).

Content Warning: Marc also works in the medical field and speaks on the important and hard work of doing research into mental health care and suicide rates among transgender people.

We discuss The Loch Ness Monster’s shy side, Marc’s solo festival show The Kilted Queer, making comedy for the people we want it to be for, Marc’s identity throughout school feeling safe and preferring to live in a chosen fantasy world, the importance of representation and diversity in the medical field and how the story isn’t over yet!

🌈 Connect with Lauren Deborah and MDSML:

-FOLLOW Lauren on Instagram: @hilaurendeborah

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-SAY HI or share a limelight-stealing story: mydadstolemylimelight@gmail.com

🌈 Connect with Lauren’s guest:

-Follow Marc on Instagram: @marcisaaccomedy

-Get tickets to Marc’s show at Sydney Pride Fest: events.humanitix.com/a-kilted-queer

🌈 Resources:

-2SLGBTQIA+ resources

🌈 Behind the scenes:

-Podcast production made possible by: Alexi Johnson, Alex McCarthy and the team at @604podnetwork

-Theme Music: Shawn Kangro

-Logo Art: @raphe.ca

In this episode, I sit with drag performer, comedian and self-described silly, sober, sexy YYC nerd clown, Anne Xiety (she/they). We are also joined by Lulu — the dog in my care — who makes some adorable appearances throughout.

We discuss our journeys with sobriety, the importance of taking care of our mental health, being proud of what we put out into the world, Calgary’s queer and sober communities, discovering a better sense of self as we grow and the impact reality TV has had on us!

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-FOLLOW Lauren on Instagram: @hilaurendeborah

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-TIP Lauren to say thanks for the free content: buymeacoffee.com/hi.laurendeborah

-SAY HI or share a limelight-stealing story: mydadstolemylimelight@gmail.com

🌈 Connect with Lauren’s guest:

-Follow Anne Xiety on Instagram: @anne_xiety_

-Check out Anne’s upcoming shows: linktr.ee/anne_xiety_

🌈 Resources:

-2SLGBTQIA+ resources

-Skipping Stone Foundation: skippingstone.ca

🌈 Behind the scenes:

-Podcast production made possible by: Alexi Johnson, Alex McCarthy and the team at @604podnetwork

-Theme Music: Shawn Kangro

-Logo Art: @raphe.ca

In this episode, I sit with Comedian, Quiz Host and Corporate Trainer, Courtney Maldo (she/her), otherwise self-described as Perth’s Punk Princess of Comedy.

We recorded this episode during Melbourne International Comedy Festival, IRL, from Naarm, which was a real treat!

We discuss Courtney’s next solo show Gender, Drugs and Rock and Roll, Courtney’s exploration of herself before coming out, feelings of isolation in growing up in a rural area, how much can change generation to generation, theatre in highschool leading to Courtney’s first fan mail, how being alive is just a phase, what “passing” means and how that is different for every trans and gender non-conforming person and that things get better: rocky starts happen but the journey is yours.

🌈 Connect with Lauren Deborah and MDSML:

-FOLLOW Lauren on Instagram: @hilaurendeborah

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-SAY HI or share a limelight-stealing story: mydadstolemylimelight@gmail.com

🌈 Connect with Lauren’s guest:

-Follow Courtney on Instagram: @ctourtney

-Check out Courtney’s upcoming shows: linktr.ee/ctourtney

🌈 Resources:

-2SLGBTQIA+ resources

🌈 Behind the scenes:

-Podcast production made possible by: Alexi Johnson, Alex McCarthy and the team at @604podnetwork

-Theme Music: Shawn Kangro

-Logo Art: @raphe.ca

In this episode, I sit with YA and Children’s Author and Speaker Will Kostakis (he/him).

We discuss Will’s latest award-winning novel We Could Be Something, the importance of libraries for readers and writers, how to support Queer authors when you don't have the money to buy their books, Queer visibility in schools, Will coming out via his writing and empowering each other to grow and evolve!

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-FOLLOW Lauren on Instagram: @hilaurendeborah

-Join the FREE mailing list: hilaurendeborah.substack.com

-TIP Lauren to say thanks for the free content: buymeacoffee.com/hi.laurendeborah

-SAY HI or share a limelight-stealing story: mydadstolemylimelight@gmail.com

🌈 Connect with Lauren’s guest:

-Follow Will on Instagram: @willkostakis

-Follow Will on TikTok: @willkostakis

-Check out Will’s website and explore his work: willkostakis.com

🌈 Resources:

-2SLGBTQIA+ resources

🌈 Behind the scenes:

-Podcast production made possible by: Alexi Johnson, Alex McCarthy and the team at @604podnetwork

-Theme Music: Shawn Kangro

-Logo Art: @raphe.ca

In this episode, I sit with Performer, Producer and Comedian Lukas Meintjes (he/him).

We discuss Lukas growing up gay in Zimbabwe, his extended run of If You’re From Africa? at the Adelaide Fringe and upcoming run at Melbourne International Comedy Festival, the factors outside of our control when coming out, criminalized homosexuality and how those beliefs are carried down generations, the ongoing process of being out and proud, parents who encourage you to be yourself without realising, and we hear from Lukas’ mum, Noeleen!

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-FOLLOW Lauren on Instagram: @hilaurendeborah

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-TIP Lauren to say thanks for the free content: buymeacoffee.com/hi.laurendeborah

-SAY HI or share a limelight-stealing story: mydadstolemylimelight@gmail.com

🌈 Connect with Lauren’s guest:

-Follow Lukas on Instagram: @hizzuk.mp4

-Get your tickets to If You’re From Africa at MICF: comedyfestival.com.au/browse-shows/if-you-re-from-africa

🌈 Resources:

-2SLGBTQIA+ resources

🌈 Behind the scenes:

-Podcast production made possible by: Alexi Johnson, Alex McCarthy and the team at @604podnetwork

-Theme Music: Shawn Kangro

-Logo Art: @raphe.ca

In this episode, I sit with Comedian and Podcaster, Chris Demos (he/him).

We discuss the upcoming run for Chris at the Melbourne International Comedy Festival — Actually Kinda Hot, Cyclone Alfred’s Old Queen status, using the term Queer as a way to say you’re part of something bigger, having the courage to come out when you never thought you would, the power you have to set boundaries when you come out, a dating app being an unexpected way to help young gay men, and how aniseed jelly beans are the worst!

🌈 Connect with Lauren Deborah and MDSML:

-FOLLOW Lauren on Instagram: @hilaurendeborah

-Join the FREE mailing list: hilaurendeborah.substack.com

-TIP Lauren to say thanks for the free content: buymeacoffee.com/hi.laurendeborah

-SAY HI or share a limelight-stealing story: mydadstolemylimelight@gmail.com

🌈 Connect with Lauren’s guest:

-Follow Chris on Instagram: @lechrisdemos

-Get tickets to Actually Kinda Hot at MICF: comedyfestival.com.au/browse-shows/actually-kinda-hot

-Listen to Glow Bitch Podcast: @glowbitchpodcast

🌈 Resources:

-2SLGBTQIA+ resources

🌈 Behind the scenes:

-Podcast production made possible by: Alexi Johnson, Alex McCarthy and the team at @604podnetwork

-Theme Music: Shawn Kangro

-Logo Art: @raphe.ca

In this episode, I sit with Writer and Comedian (and hopefully my future BFF) Alayne Dick (she/her).

Via a disconnected mic on my end and a dodgy internet connection on Alayne’s (but the show must go on, and go on it did, the content is worth it because Alayne is wonderful) we discussed Alayne’s upcoming shows in Australia — bringing her show Purple is the Gayest Colour to Adelaide and Melbourne, people assuming we are straight, starting rumours about ourselves, Alayne’s incredible ability to have zero celebrity crushes, alt comedy vs mainstream comedy, becoming the queer elder you needed when you were younger and why we should all be disruptive and weird with our art!

🌈 Connect with Lauren Deborah and MDSML:

-FOLLOW Lauren on Instagram: @hilaurendeborah

-Join the FREE mailing list: hilaurendeborah.substack.com

-TIP Lauren to say thanks for the free content: buymeacoffee.com/hi.laurendeborah

-SAY HI or share a limelight-stealing story: mydadstolemylimelight@gmail.com

🌈 Connect with Lauren’s guest:

-Follow Alayne on IG: @alayneisalesbiancomedian

-Get tickets to Purple is the Gayest Colour at MICF: comedyfestival.com.au/browse-shows/purple-is-the-gayest-colour

-Get tickets to see Purple is the Gayest Colour at Adelaide Fringe Festival: adelaidefringe.com.au/fringetix/alayne-dick-purple-is-the-gayest-colour-af2025

🌈 Resources:

-2SLGBTQIA+ resources

🌈 Behind the scenes:

-Podcast production made possible by: Alexi Johnson, Alex McCarthy and the team at @604podnetwork

-Theme Music: Shawn Kangro

-Logo Art: @raphe.ca