If you have a friendship in your life right now that consistently leaves you feeling more exhausted after you hang up the phone than before you answered it, this episode is going to feel like a conversation you have needed to have for a long time.
In this episode Shannon Howard introduces the concept of the Friendship Audit, an honest, compassionate assessment of the relationships in your life and what they are actually costing or contributing to your energy in this season. This is not about blowing up your social life or being ruthless with the people you care about. It is about getting honest with yourself so you can protect the energy you have and make room for the connections that actually deserve it.
Shannon shares her own story of holding onto a one sided friendship way too long while she was already burned out, navigating perimenopause and PCOS, and rebuilding her life after leaving corporate. And she walks you through exactly how to do a Friendship Audit, what to do with what you find, and what healthy boundaries in friendships actually look like in real life.
Because in a season where your energy is already stretched thin, the wrong friendships are not just inconvenient. They are actively costing you your healing.
In this episode you will learn:
What a Friendship Audit actually is and why doing one is not selfish but essential. The five honest questions to ask yourself about every significant friendship in your life right now. How to categorize your friendships so you know exactly where to invest your energy and where to pull back. What healthy boundaries in friendships actually look like in practice, including the quiet ones that do not require a dramatic confrontation. How to handle the guilt that comes with creating distance from someone you genuinely care about. Why boundaries do not end good friendships, they actually give them a chance to survive. What to do this week as one honest first step toward protecting your energy. How to make room for the friendships you actually want and need in this season.
Keywords and topics covered in this episode:
Boundaries in friendships. Boundaries in relationships. Setting boundaries. Boundaries quotes. Boundaries respect. Friendship boundaries. Burnout recovery. Working mom burnout. Mom guilt. Burnout symptoms. Perimenopause tired. Perimenopause symptoms. Work life balance for women. Encouragement for moms. Faith led clarity. Midlife mom reset. Energy protection. Toxic friendships. One sided friendships. Emotional energy. Boundaries and self care. Christian encouragement. Burnout treatment. Boundaries with friends.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Midlife Mom Reset Facebook Group. Come find us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/midlifemomreset. It is free and it is full of women in this exact season doing the real work of healing, setting boundaries, and rebuilding their energy together.
The Faithful Profit Table. A community specifically for Christian business owners who are ready to align their business with their purpose. Details coming soon. Send Shannon a message if this is already speaking to you.
Connect with Shannon:
Shannon Howard is a burnout recovery coach, profit diagnostician, and founder of Denali Edge Consulting. She helps ambitious moms and business owners stop the bleed, reclaim their energy, and build lives and businesses that actually feed their families and their souls. Based in Willow, Alaska, Shannon brings corporate finance expertise, faith led wisdom, and real talk to every conversation.
Follow Shannon on TikTok at corporate burnout coach and find her on Facebook and Instagram.