In this episode of Mental Mom3nts, I’m inviting you into an honest conversation about self love, healing, and the daily practices that shape how we care for ourselves. From breaking free of people pleasing to redefining what love actually looks like in action, this episode explores how loving yourself is a continual process and not a one time decision.

We talk about how love is learned, practiced, and sustained through knowledge, routine, and non negotiable boundaries. If you’ve ever struggled to prioritize yourself, felt disconnected from your needs, or wondered what loving yourself really looks like in real life, this episode is for you.

Self love is not selfish. It is foundational.

✨ Why love is an act of knowledge and not just a feeling
✨ How misunderstanding love can lead to people pleasing
✨ What loving yourself looks like in everyday routines
✨ How boundaries, affirmations, and honesty deepen self trust
✨ Why making self love non negotiable supports healing and faith

Love makes the world go round, but your world has to begin with you.

Take inventory of what actually makes you feel loved.
Ask yourself what routines support your peace, where you need clearer boundaries, and what love looks like for you in this season.

Commit to one loving action you can repeat daily.

Self love is often discussed in theory but rarely broken down into practical and sustainable habits. This episode bridges mental health, healing, and faith by showing how loving yourself is not about perfection but about presence, honesty, and consistency.

When you learn how to love yourself well, you unlock deeper peace, healthier relationships, and the freedom to live aligned.

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In this episode of Mental Mom3nts, I’m opening up a real, reflective conversation about trust — specifically how to trust when you don’t know what the next step is, when it’s coming, or how everything is going to work out.This conversation is about learning how to move forward when clarity hasn’t arrived yet. From entering a new year with strong but intentionally slow steps, to navigating anger, fatigue, tenderness, and new relationships, we’re unpacking what it means to trust God, trust yourself, and cautiously learn how to trust others again after life has taken you through it.I reflect on the audacious prayer that shaped my transition into this season, the emotional weight I carried through 2024, and how healing isn’t linear. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with yourself for moving slowly, overwhelmed by “what ifs,” or torn between wanting to protect your heart and wanting to move forward in faith, this episode is for you.Trust doesn’t require certainty. It requires willingness.In This Episode, We Explore:✨ What it looks like to trust when the next step isn’t clear✨ Moving with strong but slow steps in a new season✨ Holding joy, anger, and grief at the same time✨ Navigating new relationships while still tender✨ The difference between preparing in fear vs. testing things in faith✨ Why communication is essential when trust is still forming✨ How accountability begins within and extends outward✨ Letting go of control and embracing the blessing of not knowing everythingExplorer’s Takeaway 🧭Trust is not a destination — it’s a walk, a run, a fall, and an adjustment.You don’t need to have every answer to move forward. You just need to believe that what carried you this far can carry you further.This Week’s Mental Mom3nt:Pay attention to your pace.Where are you moving slowly out of wisdom, not fear?What tender places need clearer communication instead of silence?Trust doesn’t mean rushing.It means choosing to walk anyway.Why This Episode MattersWe talk a lot about trust, but rarely about how fragile it can feel after disappointment, loss, or exhaustion. This episode connects faith, emotional awareness, and self-accountability to show that trust isn’t built by control or certainty — it’s built by honesty, communication, and the courage to try again.If you’re healing, rebuilding, or learning how to move forward without all the details, this episode offers reassurance that your pace is valid and your faith is enough.Join the Community📲 Follow Mental Mom3nts on Instagram: @mentalmom3nts✨ Connect with your host: @healinghotti3💌 Questions or topic ideas? Email: healinghotti3@gmail.comShare this episode with someone who’s learning how to trust again, take their time, or walk by faith instead of fear.Let’s Keep the Conversation GoingWhat does trust look like for you in this season?Are you moving slowly, cautiously, or boldly — and why?Leave a comment, send a DM, or tag us in your favorite takeaway from this episode. You’re not walking this journey alone.Listen, Watch & Subscribe 🎧Stay connected. New Mental Mom3nts every week.Subscribe on:✔ Apple Podcasts✔ Spotify✔ YouTube✔ Your favorite podcast platform

In this episode of Mental Mom3nts, I’m opening up a real, heartfelt conversation about something we all need but don’t always know how to build, a healthy, nourishing support system.

This conversation is about what it truly means to be supported, to support others well, and to understand that not everyone has the same capacity to show up in the same ways. From family and friendships to romantic relationships and faith, we’re unpacking how reciprocity, communication, and acting in knowledge create the foundation for relationships that actually hold you.

I reflect on personal moments of grief, healing, and growth, including losing my grandmother, and how understanding people’s strengths, limitations, and intentions changed the way I value support. If you’ve ever felt disappointed by how someone showed up for you, unsure who your real support system is, or afraid to lean on others during heavy seasons, this episode is for you.

You don’t have to do life alone. You just have to find your good ones and love on them well.

In This Episode, We Explore:

✨ What a healthy support system really looks like and what it doesn’t
✨ Why reciprocity matters even when support doesn’t look the same both ways
✨ The importance of acting in knowledge when loving and supporting others
✨ How communication creates emotional safety and deeper understanding
✨ Why you may not always receive support from where you expect it
✨ How faith shapes the foundation of true support and healing
✨ What grief taught me about valuing people’s different capacities

Explorer’s Takeaway 🧭

Not everyone is equipped to support you in everything and that doesn’t make them less valuable. It just means you have to love people in ways that honor who they actually are.

This Week’s Mental Mom3nt:

Take inventory of your support system. Who shows up for you emotionally? Practically? Spiritually?
Thank the people who love you in their own way and be honest about where you need to communicate more clearly.

Reciprocity isn’t about sameness. It’s about mutual care.

Why This Episode Matters

We talk about support systems all the time, but rarely break down what makes them healthy. This episode connects mental health, emotional maturity, communication, and faith, showing how strong support systems aren’t built on perfection, but on understanding, honesty, and love.

If you’re healing, grieving, growing, or simply trying to do life better with others, this episode gives you language and perspective for building relationships that truly hold you.

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What does a healthy support system look like for you right now?
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