This week, Krista and I explore the importance of sex education as a means to remove shame associated with seeking pleasure and happiness in life. We hope to challenge societal norms that impose limits on pleasure, advocating for a more open and accepting perspective.

Krista White (she/her) is a multi-genre writer and the founder of Kiki For The Future, a sex ed app and website that curates free sex ed resources for the LGBTQIA+ community. All of her work centers around pleasure, liberation, and joy.

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@ kikitheapp

Website: kikitheapp.com

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Please dm Krista if you are a student and/or Black trans person who would like to help grow our Patreon community in exchange for a free annual membership!

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Keywords

sex education, pleasure, happiness, shame, well-being, LGBTQ

This week, Lilithfoxx discusses the significance of communication and consent in kink, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. She emphasizes that kink allows for explicit discussions about roles and consent, which can be beneficial for those who struggle with social cues in other contexts.

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Lilithfoxx is a queer, neurodivergent Board-certified sexologist and CSE exploring kink, identity, and inclusion through pleasure-focused, stigma-free education. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, HuffPost, and more.

Connect with Lilith

@ TheLilithFoxx on Instagram, Facebook, and Bluesky

Website: LilithFoxx.com

Upcoming Projects/Promotions

Check out her shop at shop.lilithfoxx.com for lifetime access to classes and resources

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Keywords

kink, communication, consent, neurodivergent, social cues, roles, explicit discussion

In this week’s episode, I discuss the complexities of sexual health and wellness during the holiday season. I explore the emotional challenges that arise, the dynamics of casual hookups, and the importance of maintaining intimacy in relationships. I also provide practical tips for navigating political conversations at family gatherings, engaging in advocacy, and setting boundaries to protect one's emotional and sexual well-being. The episode emphasizes the right to pleasure and the importance of community care during the holidays.

The Sexy Season Survival Guide

Music

Hip Hop Christmas by Twin Musicom is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Artist: http://www.twinmusicom.org/

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Keywords

holiday sexual health, casual hookups, emotional wellness, advocacy, boundaries, family gatherings, sexual wellness, LGBTQ rights, reproductive justice, holiday stress

This week, my guest Ashley Manta, delves into the intriguing relationship between THC and sexual experiences, particularly orgasms. The discussion emphasizes the importance of open conversations about sexual wellness and the revelations that can arise from such explorations.

Ashley Manta is a certified sexologist and an award winning sex and relationship coach. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex and speaks at conferences, resorts, and events around the world.

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@ CannaSexual on IG

Website: www.ashleymanta.com

Upcoming Projects/Promotions

Relaunched Art of Dirty Talk course: https://store.elevatedintimacy.com/dirty-talk/

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• Website: thatsexeducator.com

Keywords

THC, orgasms, intimacy, podcast, cannabis, sexual wellness, sisterhood, revelations

This week, Marla Renee Stewart, a sexuality educator and sex coach, shares her journey into the field of sexual health and education. She discusses the challenges of sex education in the South, the importance of vulnerability in coaching, and introduces the concept of seduction learning styles. Marla emphasizes the need for curiosity and exploration in sexual experiences, providing valuable insights for listeners seeking to enhance their understanding of sexuality and intimacy.

Marla Renee Stewart, MA, CSE (she/her) is an award-winning sexologist, author, and sexual strategist who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips, and is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference. She has studied human sexuality for more than 22 years and has given over 1000 workshops all over the world. She also has been featured on a variety of media outlets, including Netflix’s Trigger Warning with Killer Mike and Love & HipHop Atlanta. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, which debuted in April 2020 and co-edited An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy in 2021.

Connect with Marla

@ velvetlipssxed

@ 1marlastewart

@ sdscon

Upcoming Projects/Promotions

50% virtual on demand classes for the month of November

Sex Down South Conference early bird tickets

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• Website: thatsexeducator.com

Keywords

sexuality education, sex coaching, seduction learning styles, vulnerability, sexual health, sex education in the South, intimacy, sexual exploration, compatibility, sexual pleasure

It's Thanks, Birth Control Day! The conversation delves into the complex history of birth control, highlighting its ties to the eugenics movement and the systemic injustices faced by marginalized communities. It emphasizes the importance of acknowledging this history while advocating for reproductive justice and freedom, ensuring that all individuals can make choices about their bodies safely and with dignity.

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Keywords

birth control, reproductive justice, eugenics, history, consent Planned Parenthood, sterilization, reproductive freedom

This episode was recorded at Philly FatCon!

In the Season 4 opening episode, I discuss the profound impact of body image on sexual satisfaction, emphasize that sexual satisfaction is more closely related to how individuals feel about their bodies rather than the actual size or shape of those bodies, and highlight the detrimental effects of fat phobia on sexual experiences and advocates for a cultural shift towards body positivity and self-acceptance. I encourage listeners to reclaim their pleasure and recognize that societal narratives often misplace blame on the body for sexual performance issues.

Joining me on this episode:

• Noelle Benach: @NoelleBenach on Instagram / https://www.noellebenach.com/

• Danielle F: @HappyFatBaldLady on Instagram

• Jillian Pfennig: @jillianpfennig on Instagram

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• Website: thatsexeducator.com

Keywords

sexual satisfaction, body image, body confidence, fat phobia, pleasure, arousal, orgasms, body positivity, self-esteem, cultural influences

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