You're changing. You're putting in the work. But your spouse doesn't see it, doesn't trust it, or doesn't believe it's real.

In this episode, we break down the four most common reasons your efforts aren't connecting—and what to do about it. You might be changing the wrong things, not changing enough, communicating your progress the wrong way, or falling apart under pressure. Any one of these can sabotage everything you're working toward.

If you're the only one fighting for your marriage right now, this is how you start making your changes believable.

Everyone's calling their ex a narcissist these days. But what does that actually mean—and what should you do if you think your spouse might be one?

In this episode, we break down the truth about narcissism in marriage, expose the misconceptions, and share what actually works. After 18 years helping couples heal their marriages, we'll show you why the popular advice about narcissistic spouses might be dead wrong.

You're not stuck because you don't know how to make the right decision. You're stuck because you're afraid of making the wrong one.

In this episode, we walk through the exact process we use to make big decisions—using our own real-time example of figuring out where to move next. You'll learn why most people get paralyzed, why "priorities" is a misuse of the word, and how to stop waiting for clarity and start creating it.

Unconditional love sounds like the goal. Love no matter what. Love without expectations. Love that never wavers.

It's also a participation trophy that lets you stop trying.

In this episode, we break down why unconditional love isn't real, isn't helpful, and isn't what you should be aiming for. We talk about what happens when you expect love without conditions—and what to do instead if you want a marriage that actually feels loving.