Alright, ladies, buckle up because today’s guest is about to rock your world! If you’ve ever found yourself hustling for success, grinding yourself into the ground, or feeling like manifestation is some fluffy, wishful thinking that never quite works for you—THINK AGAIN.

We are about to dive deep into the kind of transformation that doesn’t just shift your mindset—it shakes up your entire damn reality.

Meet Jaime Pallotolo—a powerhouse Energetic Master, Soul Activator, and Shamanic Healer who helps badass women step into their power and manifest their wildest dreams. We’re talking six-figure months, viral TED Talks, NYT bestsellers, national TV appearances, soul-aligned love, pregnancies, and next-level success. And guess what? She doesn’t do it through overworking, overthinking, or over-sacrificing. Nope. Jaime teaches women how to manifest from a place of ease, pleasure, and energetic alignment—because let’s be real, the hustle culture is played out, and wealth should feel GOOD, not like a punishment.

Jaime’s story is one of resilience, rebirth, and radical transformation—she’s walked away from corporate burnout, survived an abusive marriage, and quite literally came back from her own deathbed. And now? She’s helping women release their own blocks, connect with Spirit, and create realities beyond their wildest dreams.

So if you’re ready to stop playing small, let go of the baggage that’s been holding you back, and start calling in the kind of abundance that makes your soul do a happy dance… THIS is the episode you’ve been waiting for.

In this episode Jaime teaches us:

1. you need to learn to sit with yourself! It takes 90 seconds for your conscious mind to come into subconscious and for your nervous system to rewire and regulate. But, it is difficult to get to this place in our current "hustle" culture in which we never slow down!
2. In order to be able to disrupt patterns of perception, belief and thought, we have to get into the body and experience something different.
3. Trauma comes in all sizes and shapes. We often believe that trauma only include the BIG events that happen, a death of a loved one, abuse, our own near death experience. However, trauma can be something as small as a look or getting lost in a store as a child. These can be traumatic experiences as well and trigger a bodily reaction that you are not safe.
4. You have to allow the emotions to move through your body. When you experience a loss, a scare, a trauma of any kind...take 48 hours to really feel those emotions...scream, cry, pound your pillow, be in your woundedness and then establish a boundary to rise above the emotions. You cannot continue to allow your emotions to rule your life.
5. We can truly manifest anything. However, oftentimes our own attachments or mental blocks to what it is we're trying to manifest impose limitations on what we will manifest. We HAVE to approach manifestation with an open heart and open mind.

For more of Jaime:

Website | jaimepallotolo.com

Instagram | @jaimepallotolo

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