I once watched a speaker work a room of about 400 people. She was the best speaker I saw that whole year.

A month later, I caught them again, in a much smaller room. Before they went on stage, I walked up and told them how good she was. Their first words back: "So did you buy the program?" Not thank you. Not even a nod. Just a receipt check.

That one sentence cost her over 20% of the room.

And this is just one example of not stopping and being intentional with your words.

I break down why that happens in this episode, and it comes down to three things: how you position yourself, the words you use, and the actions you actually take. Get any one of them wrong, and it doesn't matter how right you are.

Key Takeaways

• Why every single thing you say or do creates a feeling in the other person, whether you mean it to or not
• The line I use on myself before giving anyone hard feedback: "I get what you're going for, here's an idea that might help" instead of "that's stupid, do it this way"
• A former client that I couldn't back anymore, even though I agreed with everything they said
• Why chasing the algorithm with your words instead of the feeling behind them makes content fall flat
• The gap between what you claim about accountability and whether you actually follow through, and why that gap does more damage than staying quiet

Listen If You...

• Have ever said something true in a way that still hurt somebody
• Get views on your content but can feel it's not building real trust
• Talk a big game about your values and want a gut check on whether your actions back it up

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About the Show

#MeetCoolPeople is where founders, creators, and entrepreneurs share real stories about building businesses that matter. Hosted by Ely Delaney, each episode goes past surface-level advice to uncover the mindset shifts, failures, and frameworks that separate people who talk about success from people who actually build it.