Are you ready for more bliss in your life, sexually or otherwise?

Ironically, our fashionable trend of seeking comfort in life is literally killing our sex life. And killing our potential for true happiness. When we suppress our pain, we also suppress our body’s ability to experience pleasure. With so many of us on some form of emotional or physical pain-suppression medications, it’s no wonder that, as a society, our sex life sucks.

But feeling all the feels is HARD, right?!

Yes it is.

And the only reason to do it is ... the highest levels of bliss of all time.

In this episode I discuss the pleasure-pain paradox, and what we can all do to experience more bliss in life. Sexually and otherwise!!

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Our Life Force is literally our energy body, our “vibration”, which is partially made of electromagnetic field. Manmade electro magnetic fields seriously effect our internal biological processes.

When we got to know Dr. Ritter in episode 9, on November 21 last year, he told the story of mother earth’s perfect balance of electro magnetism which dances with the electro magnetism of the entire cosmos.

Between then and now, he appeared as a guest on The Highwire with Del Bigtree, helping millions of viewers understand the basics of EMF in our living space, and demonstrating his signature shielding and grounding “modified faraday cage” technique!

In this epic episode, Dr. Ritter shares many of the ways we are falling into a false sense of security when it comes to manmade EMF, or electro magnetic radiation. Here are some of the ways he spoke about:

• When we measure EMF with a meter, we have a false sense that the meter is accurate, when in reality even the most expensive meters have no way to measure a clean background (no placebo test possible).
• When we measure EMF with a meter, we have a false sense of security that the meter can measure all of the EMF around us, when in reality each meter can only measure one or a few kinds of the many many kinds of manmade EMF that we live in today.
• When we measure EMF, we may have a false sense of security that we have measured the fields around us, when in reality the fields react to walls and other materials, and fields, so we really only measured that one tiny area of our environment. The manmade fields work in complex changing patterns all around us, so true measurement takes many meters, many measurements, many variables, and many complex equations.
• When we use a cheap “grounding tester” on our electrical outlets, we have a false sense of security of we believe that outlet is grounded because that doesn’t even test for EMF at all although EMF prohibits proper grounding.
• When we live in Smart Cities and have Smart Devices in our homes we have a false sense of security because it is really very dumb to increase the harmful manmade EMF exponentially in a city intentionally
• When we sleep at night in manmade EMF, we have a false sense of security that our bodies are able to heal as they are designed to do at night time. Our body, our heart, our brain, our immune system - all of our cells function on electro magnetic fields.
• When we use grounding mats and sheets, we have a false sense of security if they are plugged into an outlet, which literally almost can not be properly grounded, and we may be therefore radically increasing the manmade EMF in our bodies.
• When we use crystals and pendants, and small objects, to “stop” manmade EMF around us, we may have a false sense of security since they are unable to stop or block any of the fields of manmade radiation around us since each radiation source opens in constant spheres in all directions at once. We are covered in spheres, not a single line of EMF.

When Dr. Ritter measures a space, he brings suitcases of meters. Using eight professional meters, he turns every device in the home on and measures many places in each room. Then he does the same with the breaker and all interior antennaes off. Professional meters allow him to isolate one field source individually at a time, so he can hone in on specific sources one at a time. He then takes the data and uses a large set of complex equations to come up with the results of how much manmade EMF is in a home.

He ends with an invitation. We allow these manmade EMFs into our sacred spaces. Even our most sacred healing space - our sleeping space. … Let’s keep these uninvited guests out of our homes just as we would with any other uninvited guests.

Next time he is with us the conversation will continue!

So send in your questions and comments for him and I’ll ask them next time. 💞💦

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

SO many people dread dating. I get it! I remember when I found it SO painful.

In this episode I share the process I’ve used to discover many wonderful partners over the years both on dating apps and in person. Sharing examples from my life, I encourage you to cast your own play in five simple steps.

1. Inspiring Dream
2. Effective Profile
3. First Conversations
4. First In Person Date
5. Second Date and Beyond!

Most people are surprised that the most important part of the process happens before the process even begins. 😎

Even if you have a mate, this process continues to apply to ongoing partnerships. Believe it or not, it’s a template that can improve both Datin’ and Matin’. 💞💦

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

If my desire is low, it doesn’t mean I’m not capable of desire.

There are many reasons that all humans have low desire from time to time!

Such as
• Disconnect from partner
• Disconnect from self
• Scripted sex routines get old
• Illness
• Emotional distress
• Lack of safety
• Going too fast to feel anything
• Lack of confidence
• Over-giving
• Fear of judgment / shame

Every female I’ve gotten to know has desire. … Lots of desire!

In this episode, I share some options for stoking that desire.

I also share about the female erection, and how this little-understood bodily function plays into the myth that females have low desire.

As a culture, we have an opportunity to re-write our stories. ❤️

Women have lots of sexual desire! All of us have the full capacity to enjoy healthy, loving, sexual experiences whether solo or partnered. When one of us has questions, we make the space to stop and focus on what might enhance and improve our sexual interactions.

Everyone’s desire, pleasure, and play matters!

Let’s create a more sexually healthy culture together.

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

One half of our population is unable to move their body freely and naturally, and unable to have certain feelings or thoughts, during about 99% of their waking hours.

Then when, and only when, society has determined “it’s time”, that otherwise-forbidden body part is supposed to stand happily at attention “rock hard” until … usually until someone else is satisfied.

If the body part moves when it is not supposed to (99% of the time), the person will be sexually shamed, if not accused of a crime.

If the body part does not stand tall when “it’s time” - the person will be referred to the medical industrial complex for pills, potions, pumps, surgeries, and of course … mental health counseling.

In this episode, I discuss how boner shame affects us all. Deeply.

Yet no one’s even talking about it.

Listen and, even if you decide not to participate in the Boner Pride parade we want to have someday 🥰, perhaps you will consider ways that you might support a more healthy, natural, and accepting environment among your friends, family, children, and loved ones.

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

When most folks say "A.I" or "artificial intelligence" these days they mean Chat GPT or a similar system. This kind of AI is what this podcast is about. A computer application that can scan voluminous data sets almost instantly, and then share it's answer to our query in our language as if it were speaking to us. These systems, which are limited by (1) which data they have access to and (2) the biases of their creators (and are unable to have an original idea) are sort of like Encyclopedia 3.0. I use them as I would an encyclopedia - double-checking any important informaiton they give me, and always aware of the biases of the source.

Studies have shown that when we use these AI systems to do our creative work, we almost instantly decrease our brain's creative capacity. Likewise, I believe that turning to AI for emotional support decreases our ability to connect emotionaly with other humans. In this episode I share my concerns about how we humans might be harming ourselves with AI in three specific ways:

- when we allow AI to do our creative work,
- when we rely on AI for emotional support, and
- when we allow AI to define who we are in the world.

How do you see these tools? Do you share any of these concerns? ... I don't hear it spoken about much so let's talk about it with our friends and family, and keep the conversation alive. 🥰

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Claim your rightful place as a creator and create the future with me!

In this episode I share my own dream for our future which includes unconditional love, individual sovereignty, internal healing, feeling it all, compassionate connection, balanced masculine and feminine sexual energy (sexual sovereignty), exalting our children, and honoring all beings. Control and possession dynamics, such as war and hoarding, simply fall away. And most importantly, in my dream ... no soul is left behind.

We are not here to be bound by the past. We're here to imagine things that do not exist today.

What is your wild-and-beautiful dream for our future together? Let us know in the comments, or send me a message through my site.

And Happy 2026 my darling! 🎉

Let's go deeper. River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Happy Holydays! 🕊️ In this podcast, I share my #1 tip for your holiday leisure time - Arousal + Relaxation.

There are so many aspects of life that are only possible when our nervous systems are relaxed. When we feel safe. Only when our bodies are relaxed can we access all of our physical sensations, our learning, growing, our creating. That means if we are not relaxed, these things are inaccessable to us.

Nowhere is this more true than in the intensity of our sexual experience. They are precious moments when we can remain deeply relaxed while ramping pleasure up to high levels as well. In that space we have the capacity to cultivate, create, grow, sense, and balance the sexual energies in our body.

Enjoy listening, and then enjoy experimenting! 💦 May you have a magic solstice season.🌲

Let's go deeper! Join me for the Weekend Workshop with River Roaring in person in Austin, Texas - the ATX. Click on Weekend Workshop on my site for details, short video reviews, and registration. Learn more about River here riverroaring.com ❤️