You've done the therapy, read the books, and know exactly what you want. So why do men still pull back just as things get serious?

Often it isn't that you're not enough. It's that the intelligence and self-protection driving your career are quietly sabotaging your love life.

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Here are the five invisible behaviors to watch for, and how to trade each one for real connection.

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How do you build desire and make a man miss you? Create scarcity without playing games. In this week's podcast, we discuss (debate) the power of making a man miss you through the dating process.

Originally aired: Dec. 18, 2022

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Stop wondering if he’s "The One" based on a "vibe" and start using data to find your person.

In this episode, we break down the Date Night Debrief, a simple 10-minute strategy rooted in decision-making science to help you stop obsessing and start dating with clarity.

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When I started looking at why so many accomplished women stayed stuck in love, the patterns were uncomfortably familiar: comforting beliefs, overprotective friend circles, and a quiet refusal to be a beginner at anything.

In this episode, I walk through the specific mindset shifts that actually move the needle, without asking you to shrink or pretend to be “less.”

If you’ve ever wondered whether your success is secretly working against you in dating, you may find the real answer both confronting and relieving. And more importantly, you’ll see exactly where your power has been all along.

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In this episode of the podcast, hosts Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski dive deep into the 7 biggest turnoffs for men. The problem they address is that many women believe that turnoffs have to do with physical attributes, but the reality is that when a man is in the market for a serious relationship and looking for a high-value partner, turnoffs become emotional.

Through their own personal experiences and expert insights, Adam and Gary explore the turnoffs that both men and women can relate to. They start with the idea of trying to control the uncontrollable and how it can be a major turnoff for men when women talk about the future or lean into their masculine side. They also touch on the idea of unearned affection and how it can be off-putting when a woman gives too much before a man has done anything to earn it.

Other turnoffs that they discuss include a lack of interest, perceived promiscuity, the double O effect (obvious and ordinary), a negative attitude toward love, and being a doormat without clear boundaries. They also explore the idea of playing games in dating, and how it can come off as immature rather than strategic.

Throughout the episode, Adam and Gary offer their expert advice on how to avoid these turnoffs and how to cultivate healthy, thriving relationships. So, if you're curious about what makes men tick and how to create a lasting connection, this episode is a must-listen.

Originally aired: May. 07, 2023

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Stop agonizing over when you should text, and start using data.

We’re breaking down a brand-new study that debunks the "Three-Day Rule" that's actually destroying your dating life. Learn the exact "Sweet Spot" timing that increases chemistry and makes a second date almost inevitable.

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Most successful women don't struggle in dating because they lack options. They struggle because the same drive that built their career quietly works against them in love.

I've coached thousands of women through this. The patterns are consistent, and so are the exits. So if you've ever felt stuck without knowing exactly why, this one's for you.

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A peculiar trend has emerged in the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, leaving many to wonder, "What in the world are guys doing?" The scenario is all too familiar: you're texting a guy, the conversation is flirty, sparks are seemingly flying, and then suddenly, it all fizzles out to nothing. You might even suggest going out sometime; he agrees enthusiastically, and then... radio silence.

Here’s how to know if he likes you, or if he’s just breadcrumbing.

Originally aired: Mar. 03, 2024

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