In this episode of the Love Alive Podcast, Ty and Kate dive into a topic that might turn a few heads, but one they are absolutely steadfast on: Why you should prioritize your marriage over your children.

Culturally, parents are often sold the lie that they must completely lose themselves and their relationships for the sake of their kids. Ty and Kate share their own journey of doing exactly that, and how putting most of their attention on the kids and dividing and conquering a hectic schedule of competitive youth sports nearly drove their relationship into the ground.

From preventing the dreaded "empty nester crisis" to modeling healthy conflict resolution and strong relationship standards for their 16-year-old daughter, Ty and Kate discuss why investing in your marriage is actually the greatest gift you can give your kids. Plus, they share some practical (and hilarious) advice on setting boundaries at home—including why it’s completely healthy to lock the bedroom door for 20 minutes of "mommy and daddy time."

Tune in for an honest, funny, and mic-drop-worthy conversation about finding balance, preserving your individuality, and investing in the relationship that is meant to last a lifetime.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why losing yourself in motherhood or fatherhood can lead to a midlife identity crisis.
• The reality of youth competitive sports and when the "divide and conquer" mentality starts to hurt the marriage.
• How modeling a loving, affectionate relationship saves your kids from choosing dysfunctional partners later in life.
• Simple, budget-friendly ways to reclaim intentional time with your spouse (even if it just means a distraction-free trip to the grocery store).

Links & Resources Mentioned:

• Deeply Intimate: Ty and Kate’s brand-new business project and coaching program! Follow along for updates, launch details, and relationship tips on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.
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