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  • Episode 16: Rescue Reactivity 101: Grace, Boundaries, & the 3-3-3 Rule
    2025/11/05

    We open with a quick bird-nerd update (hi, northern flicker 👋), then dive into a viral NYC foster moment that shook the rescue world: a severely underweight, sweet-as-pie pup who suddenly redirected on a passing dog during a city walk. No villains here—just real life with real animals.

    In this episode we unpack: • Why an emaciated dog can seem angelic…until health returns and true preferences show up • Dog-to-dog communication you never see (scent, posture, micro-signals) • The 3-3-3 Rule for rescue transitions—and why “the dog you bring home” isn’t the dog you’ll know in 3 months • Leash proximity and handling that reduce surprise moments in busy environments • Balancing heart and head in rescue work, with human safety as priority #1 • Shout-outs to ethical rescues with trainers on staff (like our local partners) and why thoughtful matchmaking matters

    Not anti-rescue, not anti-breeder—just pro-education and pro-grace. Listen in for practical takeaways you can use on your very next walk.

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    36 分
  • Episode 15: Handler Fit, School Rules & What Works (Part 2)
    2025/10/22

    Picking up where Episode 14 left off, we get real about what service dogs can do—and what they shouldn’t be asked to do. We talk through the big sticking point for families: who’s the handler (and why your second-grader probably can’t bring a service dog to school). Then we open the curtain on our hybrid approach: the first month of foundations and task starts with us, followed by lots of real-world lessons—workplaces, airports, classrooms—so the human feels as trained as the dog.

    You’ll hear how we design tasks around actual lives: pairing early “tells” like foot-tapping with scent changes, teaching intentional “disobedience” when safety demands it, and even shaping a persistent wake-up for a client with narcolepsy. We share a guide-style assist case for a blind adult, why not every dog (or breed) fits every task, what happens when life/meds change, and how advocacy with schools and housing often comes with the territory.

    It’s honest, hopeful, and practical—light on myths, heavy on outcomes. Also: a quick yacht-rock detour, because of course.

    Follow our podcast IG for extras and clips: @lovethemleadempodcast.

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    41 分
  • Episode 14: So You Think You Need a Service Dog? Listen to This First
    2025/10/08

    Service dogs change lives—but the path to one isn’t simple, quick, or cheap. In this episode, we break down what the ADA actually says (and doesn’t say), what task training really means, why public access skills matter, and how to tell if a dog–human team is a good fit. We share stories from our own case files—mobility tasks, psychiatric alerts, scent work, even siren alerts—plus the hard conversations we have when a well-meaning doctor says “get a service dog” and a family is left on their own to figure it out.

    You’ll hear:

    • The ADA definition of a service animal and why tasks must mitigate a disability

    • The difference between agency-trained, self-trained, and our hybrid model

    • Realistic timelines, costs (why $50–60k isn’t a scam), and waitlists

    • Kid handlers, school realities, breed myths, and when we say no (for the dog’s sake and yours)

    • How to start smart: evaluating the dog you already have vs. sourcing the right puppy

    If you’re considering a service dog—or you work with clients who might—this is your friendly, no-nonsense guide before you make big decisions.

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    40 分
  • Episode 13: Resource Guarding in Real Life
    2025/09/24

    Resource guarding isn’t just about a food bowl — it can be toys, bones, couches, people, even whole corners of the house. In this episode, Cory and Melaney dive deep into why dogs guard, what it looks like in real life (hello, Benny the bernedoodle), and why the old “bait and switch” trick can actually make the problem worse.

    You’ll hear stories from camp, including the cocker spaniel who guarded his person like treasure and the Labrador who couldn’t relax enough to eat. We’ll unpack common myths, explain why putting your hand in the food bowl won’t “fix” anything, and share safer, smarter ways to manage guarding before it turns dangerous.

    If your dog guards food, toys, or even family members, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on — and how to set up the leadership, structure, and environment your dog needs to feel secure without going on the defensive.

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    39 分
  • Episode 12: Vibes Don't Lie, Check yourself!
    2025/09/10

    A listener asked a great question about our “Zuko” episode: why did that dog like Cory but come after Melaney? Short answer: dogs read us—our body language, heart rate, even our scent—better than we read ourselves. In this conversation we unpack how your mental and physical state can flip a session from smooth to sketchy, why thresholds and territory matter, and how tiny life changes (a vet visit smell, moving a favorite chair, a new neighbor’s dogs) can ripple into “sudden” behavior shifts.

    We also share practical tools: build a predictable routine, make a simple plan before you train, visualize success (shoutout Sheri Wolf Lucas), advocate for your dog with confident “no, you may not pet,” and know when to tap out for safety. Plus: cryptid tees, The Cranberries, and a post-college-drop-off birding field trip to get our heads right—because your vibe becomes your dog’s vibe.

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    31 分
  • The Littermate Dilemma: Double Snuggles & Double Trouble
    2025/08/27

    Two puppies are always better than one… right? In this episode of Love ’Em & Lead ’Em, Cory and Melaney dig into the messy reality of littermate syndrome — the hidden challenges of raising two puppies from the same litter (or close in age). From sibling squabbles to tag-team chaos, they’ve seen it all.

    You’ll hear stories of families who got more than they bargained for, what breeders and rescues don’t always tell you, and the real-life strategies that can make (or break) life with littermates. Plus, updates on past podcast favorites Nala the golden retriever and Guinness the miracle pup — spoiler: there’s some heartwarming progress to celebrate.

    If you’ve ever thought about bringing home “just one more puppy,” this is the episode you don’t want to miss.

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    37 分
  • Too Sick to Train? …and Are We Matchmakers Now?
    2025/08/13

    This week’s episode dives deep into one of our most medically complex (and emotionally rewarding) cases yet — a little Frenchie named Guinness. After being rescued from a life of breeding, he came to us with major potty problems, a seizure disorder, and more medical question marks than we’ve ever seen in one tiny body. Euthanization was on the table… but his dad wasn’t giving up, and neither were we. What happens when a dog might be *too sick to train* — and what does giving him a chance really take?

    Then we lighten things up with the debut of a brand-new segment: Matchmaking with Matt. Our producer Matt wants a Shiba Inu, and we break down whether that’s a great fit or a disaster waiting to happen. (Spoiler: it’s giving “cat in a dog’s body.”) We talk breed research, choosing the right dog for your life, and why picking a dog is not unlike dating.

    Whether you’re a rescue advocate, a Frenchie fan, or just wondering if you're ready for a Shiba, this episode brings all the feels — and plenty of laughs.

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    35 分
  • When Jumping Means, "Try Me!"
    2025/07/31

    What we thought was excited jumping takes a turn when we meet Zuko — a powerful, sweet-faced, intensity-packed dog with a serious guarding streak and a zero-chill attitude. What started as a leash reactivity consult quickly became a masterclass in body language, impulse control, and surviving a close call (spoiler: no one got bit, but it got real close).

    Later, we balance the chaos with a sweet update on Nala, a rescued golden retriever who went from shutdown to spoiled queen. We talk about what it really means when a dog "doesn't know how to dog," and how small wins can lead to lifelong change.

    Whether you're managing your own Zuko or raising a Nala, this episode is packed with practical tips and real talk from the field.

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    31 分