Most people navigate their lives by a set of principles theynever consciously chose.

Inherited from parents. Absorbed from culture. Accumulatedthrough a thousand reasonable decisions that nobody ever stopped to examine.

In Episode 9 of Living All In, Berrick Abramson shares theCode he built instead: six pillars earned across fifty years of specific, hard experience. Where each one came from. What it cost to hold. And the question every listener should sit with when it's over: is your Code actually yours?

You've spent decades building a life that looks likesuccess. But here's the question worth sitting with: who actually chose it?

In this episode, I get honest about the scoreboard most ofus inherit without realizing it — and what it actually takes to examine it,question it, and start building your own.

This is the conversation for anyone who's winning by everyobjective measure and quietly wondering if it's the right game.

Most people spend thirty years building a life and never stop to ask if it's the one they actually wanted. In this episode, Berrick shares the real story behind a move across the country, a bet on a different kind of life, and the proof that a person who is genuinely happy shows up differently in every room that matters. If you've built everything you said you wanted and something still feels off, this one is for you.