Growing up in a toxic family system wires you to live in shame and codependency—and often leads you to attract narcissists or relationships that repeat the cycle. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano explains how childhood trauma programs your brain and nervous system for survival, and how you can begin breaking free from people-pleasing, guilt, and self-abandonment. If you're ready to reclaim your self-worth and step out of survival mode, this is your wake-up call.

✨ This episode is a must-listen if you:

• Grew up with alcoholism, narcissism, or neglect in your family system

• Feel stuck in codependent patterns and toxic relationships

• Struggle with guilt, shame, or saying "no"

• Long to reclaim your self-worth and live authentically

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In this powerful episode, Lisa A. Romano, trauma-informed life coach and codependency recovery expert, dives deep into the often-overlooked role that anger plays in the healing journey from parental narcissism and complex trauma. Growing up in a dysfunctional family can leave emotional scars that are not easily seen, but they shape how we experience relationships and view ourselves as adults.

• How denial serves as a survival strategy in dysfunctional family systems and how it can keep us stuck in toxic patterns

• The hidden anger that emerges from growing up with one narcissistic parent and another who was passive or emotionally absent

• Why it’s common to feel guilt or confusion when recognizing anger toward a passive parent, even when they weren’t overtly harmful

• How anger toward both parents can fuel the codependent behaviors and emotional dysregulation that often follow complex trauma

• The critical step of recognizing your anger as a valid emotion in the recovery process, and how it leads to clarity and healing

When we grow up in a home where one parent’s instability wreaks havoc, and the other’s passivity leaves us emotionally unprotected, we internalize survival mechanisms like hyper-independence or helplessness. These patterns affect our ability to set healthy boundaries, build trust, and create meaningful connections later in life.

Recognizing anger as part of the healing process is key. It isn’t about blaming anyone, but rather about understanding how these dynamics shaped your sense of worth, your self-protection mechanisms, and your relationships today.

Lisa’s 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program helps you break free from codependency, complex trauma, and the long-lasting effects of narcissistic abuse. Through transformational lessons, journaling exercises, and neuroscience-based tools, this program will guide you toward emotional autonomy and inner peace.

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It is estimated that there are at least 28 million adult children of alcoholics in the United States alone. The statistics are staggering. Combine those numbers with a deep understanding of the impact of growing up in an alcoholic home, and it becomes easy to understand why so many adult children struggle with emotional regulation, telling the truth, setting boundaries and with emotional dependencies that result in seeking approval and validation in order to feel somewhat 'normal'.

Many adult children of alcoholics do not even know their parents or grandparents were alcoholics. Toxic family systems are enmeshed and shrouded in denial. When the adults in the family are not addressing their trauma, they inadvertently pass that trauma down to their children. Listen in as Lisa A. Romano offers adult children across the globe an opportunity to better understand themselves, how they process their emotions and perceive themselves and the world through a trauma lens, offering all those who are willing and ready an opportunity to live above the veil of consciousness, the only place where true transformation can occur.

This episode is a must-listen if you:

• Grew up with a parent who struggle with addiction.

• You are the grandchild of an alcoholic.

• Recognize that you struggle to know what you want or need.

• Identify as a cyclebreaker, who is ready to speak the truth and end generational trauma with you!

✨ Pro tip: Understanding your parent's trauma is often a key in recovering from subconscious faulty, negative childhood survival patterns.

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Lisa introduces her signature 12 Week Breakthrough Method—a trauma-informed, neuroscience-based coaching program designed for adult children of narcissistic, neglectful, or emotionally immature parents.

Inside the program, you'll discover:

• Brain retraining techniques rooted in neuroscience.

• Inner child healing and self-concept reorganization.

• Journaling prompts and assessments to increase self-awareness.

• Tools to stop subconscious self-abandonment and live authentically.

• How to integrate shadow work and break toxic generational patterns.

Thousands have transformed their lives with this method—learning to step out of survival mode and into authentic, empowered living.

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