Wendi thought she was just taking her 81-year-old dad in for a “simple” VP shunt surgery… and somehow ended up shocked by a rogue outlet, investigated by hospital facilities, and slapped with an ER wristband of her own. In this chaotic episode of Life in the Sandwich Lane, she turns a hospital BOGO—Dad’s brain surgery plus her surprise EKG—into a comedy of errors that every overwhelmed, overcaffeinated sandwich-generation caregiver will recognize.

• (00:00:06) - The Day My 81 Year Old Dad Had Brain Surgery
• (00:03:48) - I Just Got Shocked On An outlet
• (00:09:46) - Caregiver's Day in the Hospital

In this first episode of Life in the Sandwich Lane, Wendi finally introduces herself…at the end. Timing is everything, right? She sets the stage for what it’s like to live in the “messy middle” of life, caught between caring for aging parents and cheering on young adult kids as they launch into the world.

Wendi shares about her 81‑year‑old dad’s NPH diagnosis, the long wait for surgery, and the emotional whiplash of doctor visits where everyone swears they’re “feeling fine” five seconds after listing twenty-seven concerns in the parking lot. She talks about wanting a simple appointment checklist so important details don’t get lost in the polite small talk.

On the other side of the sandwich, her son is getting married soon, bringing up all the feelings: pride, joy, and a tiny bit of heartbreak as he steps into his own family story. She also opens up about remarriage after a long season of singleness, a growing business, a house with “its own agenda,” and a stress level so obvious even her eye doctor noticed.

Through it all, Wendi keeps circling back to honest truth-telling and a steady kind of hope—the kind that says, “This is hard, and I’m still going to show up.” If you’re juggling parents, kids, marriage, work, appointments, bills, and invisible emotional labor, this episode is your sign you’ve found the right table in the cafeteria.

If you want to say hello, email Wendi at hello@lifeinthesandwichlane.com.

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• (00:00:00) - Living in the Middle of Life
• (00:05:59) - Post-Part 1: A Sandwich Lane