In this episode of The Life Lived Better Podcast, Joseph and Paula dive into the fascinating world of attachment styles and explore how the patterns we learned early in life shape the way we connect, communicate, and build relationships today. Join us as we break down the four major attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and discuss what each one looks like in adulthood.

The co-hosts will talk through how these styles develop, the common traits associated with each, and the subtle ways they show up in modern relationships. You’ll also learn how to identify your own attachment style, the physical and emotional cues to look for, and practical steps you can take to move toward a more secure, grounded way of relating.

Whether you’re curious about your patterns, navigating a relationship dynamic, or simply exploring personal growth, this episode offers insight, clarity, and empowering tools. Tune in to deepen your understanding of yourself and the people you love.

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Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

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Resources used or mentioned in this episode

Blah, Blah, Blog Entry: Attachment Styles Quiz

The Attachment Project The Attachment Project: Learn Attachment Theory from Experts

Verywell Mind Can Your Attachment Style Change?

Verywell Mind What is Emotional Attachment and Whether Yours Is Healthy

In this episode, Joseph and Paula are diving into one of the most discussed mental health topics of our time: ADHD — and the increasingly common question, “Do I have ADHD, or am I just overwhelmed?”

With constant notifications, fast-paced routines, and pressure to stay plugged in, many of us struggle to focus. We break down what ADHD actually is, how it differs from everyday distraction, and why modern life makes concentration so challenging. We’ll talk through symptoms, the diagnostic process, when it may be time to seek support, and the surprising ways ADHD shows up differently in children and adults.

Paula shares her own ADHD experience, including what life looked like before her diagnosis, while Joseph walks us through eye-opening statistics and clinical definitions that help bring clarity to a confusing topic.

We also explore situational distraction—the temporary, environment-based overstimulation so many people mistake for ADHD—and how to tell the difference. From tracking your personal patterns to understanding lifelong traits, we offer insight into when distraction might be something deeper.

To help you manage focus in a busy world, we share practical tools anyone can use: environmental tweaks, body and mind practices, digital boundaries, the Pomodoro technique, and habits backed by Harvard Business Review research. You’ll learn about energy patterns, active listening, meaningful breaks, and strategies for emotional regulation.

At the heart of this episode is a simple truth: understanding your brain is an act of self-awareness, not weakness. When you recognize your limits, strengths, and patterns, you can work with your mind—not against it.

Whether you live with ADHD, think you might, or just feel chronically distracted, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and actionable support to help you move through your days with more focus and ease.

Resources used or mentioned in this episode:

Adult ADHD: The Latest & Greatest Stats for 2025

Data and Statistics on ADHD | Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) | CDC

The Pomodoro Technique — Why it works & how to do it

7 Habits to Stay Focused in a World Full of Distractions from the Harvard Business Review

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,

In this episode, we are discussing - The Impact Social Media Has on Mental Health.

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Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.

We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.